how do you pick up these weird spiritual women?

big weezy

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So I was in starbucks and this sexy looking 35+ year old milf looking lady was in her gym gear. Sexy body. Turns out she is/was a model (higher end in her younger years for high end designers) but I sensed some AW-ness in her, she was very chatty and started talking to another guy initially who she sat opposite. He left after a short while so I decided to sit opposite her asking if I could take the chair.

She started making convo with me saying what a nice day it was and these were good seats, I kinda was taken a back by this but kinda ignored it. Then I asked her after a few mins of hesitation whether she came from a run and that didn't she get bad knees from running on the pavement.

She went all weird on me talking about spirtuality, basically like a hippie talking about the earths energies doing this and that and the body and mind soul interlinked etc etc.

I don't know how to talk to women who go on and on about this kooky spiritual stuff, anyway I played along and she kept talking about these 'zones' which communicate to people and I don't know if she was doing it intentionally but she kept pointing towards her crotch and touching her chest to make a point about where the energies go from - to and she kept doing this pec dance with her breasts where she could make 1 go up and then down and then the other alternating. I don't know if she was doing this to turn me on but it was off putting cos I was sensing no IOI's just her being attention wh0rish, is that what it was?

I felt uncomfortable number closing in such a small starbucks which was open for everyone to see and me being a young guy tryna pick up a older woman.

I frequent that starbucks a lot and I will want to pick up other girls there in future I didn't wanna blow it with this 1 getting rejected so I waited till she was ready to leave, man I realised we were talking for 3hrs like it was a date but I feel friendzoned. I tried to be smooth and if she left the same time as me I'd get the number outside but she decided to go to the bathroom as we were walking out that I had to leave. I offered to walk her back to her place but she declined my offer. Was she just teasing me?
 

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Cos her body is hot as hell and I thought I'd get to bang her. She does all that yoga stuff and is all bendy etc. She looks like she knows how to fvck for real with all that tantra sh1t and karma sutra stuff she's into, its something I'd like to pursue but I think I'm just another male orbiter now.
 

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Yes, you want to keep the intro to about 20 minutes. You only become ordinary if you saturate them with yourself.
 

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d!ckmojo said:
You talked for 3 hrs? Way to NOT create mystery and attraction dude.
The DJ inside should have told him "time to eject, time to eject!!!!"

OP, your mistake wasn't just talking with her for 3 hours but letting her talk about what she wanted for 3 hours!

You don't attract women by letting them have a nice soft chat with you about their topic of interest. This is what every nice guy since she became of dating age has been doing with her! Listening to her babble on, thinking he is building a connection but building a connection is not creating attraction.

Who do you think she is more likely to go home with at night? The guy that listens to her for 3 hours or the jerk that shows her sexual interest, negs her, brings her down a level and makes her listen to him rather than the other way around?
 

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big weezy said:
She does all that yoga stuff and is all bendy etc. She looks like she knows how to fvck for real with all that tantra sh1t and karma sutra stuff she's into
It sounds like you think that her "weird spiritual stuff" actually has some benefits. Maybe you could try to find out more about it from her. Take the good, leave the garbage.
 

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f283000 said:
The DJ inside should have told him "time to eject, time to eject!!!!"

OP, your mistake wasn't just talking with her for 3 hours but letting her talk about what she wanted for 3 hours!

You don't attract women by letting them have a nice soft chat with you about their topic of interest. This is what every nice guy since she became of dating age has been doing with her! Listening to her babble on, thinking he is building a connection but building a connection is not creating attraction.

Who do you think she is more likely to go home with at night? The guy that listens to her for 3 hours or the jerk that shows her sexual interest, negs her, brings her down a level and makes her listen to him rather than the other way around?
Exactly. Get her number and text her later on. Maximum time you want to spend with her the first time u meet her is 20~30 mins, after that bail

UNLESS

she is particularly vibing on you, and you know that she is already diggin on you hard, in which case after 20~30 mins you propose a location change, and you lead her to another venue, and then another venue, and then take her back to your pad to bang her ^^ :rock:
 

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Dude, you recognize shes looney why are you going for the number?
Thats like saying "This dude is very annoying, let me buy him a beer".
I dont see what the purpose for this post is, some people are crazy, why do you want advise on how to deal with them? just avoid them.
 

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She recognized you as an awestruck boy, made you drool, then left you hanging.

big weezy said:
So I was in starbucks and this sexy looking 35+ year old milf looking lady was in her gym gear. Sexy body. Turns out she is/was a model (higher end in her younger years for high end designers) but I sensed some AW-ness in her, she was very chatty and started talking to another guy initially who she sat opposite. He left after a short while so I decided to sit opposite her asking if I could take the chair.

She started making convo with me saying what a nice day it was and these were good seats, I kinda was taken a back by this but kinda ignored it. Then I asked her after a few mins of hesitation whether she came from a run and that didn't she get bad knees from running on the pavement.

She went all weird on me talking about spirtuality, basically like a hippie talking about the earths energies doing this and that and the body and mind soul interlinked etc etc.

I don't know how to talk to women who go on and on about this kooky spiritual stuff, anyway I played along and she kept talking about these 'zones' which communicate to people and I don't know if she was doing it intentionally but she kept pointing towards her crotch and touching her chest to make a point about where the energies go from - to and she kept doing this pec dance with her breasts where she could make 1 go up and then down and then the other alternating. I don't know if she was doing this to turn me on but it was off putting cos I was sensing no IOI's just her being attention wh0rish, is that what it was?

I felt uncomfortable number closing in such a small starbucks which was open for everyone to see and me being a young guy tryna pick up a older woman.

I frequent that starbucks a lot and I will want to pick up other girls there in future I didn't wanna blow it with this 1 getting rejected so I waited till she was ready to leave, man I realised we were talking for 3hrs like it was a date but I feel friendzoned. I tried to be smooth and if she left the same time as me I'd get the number outside but she decided to go to the bathroom as we were walking out that I had to leave. I offered to walk her back to her place but she declined my offer. Was she just teasing me?
 

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Most of you fvcktards are so goddamned narrow-minded it doesn't surprise me one bit you fvck your socks until they whither away.

Why do you not see the ripe opportunity to hone in and camel clutch her camel-toe, by making yourself the fun guy she WANTS to fvck?

These post-WWII astrology laden nutbags, especially the hot tree-huggers, are the best ones to keep on the dangle. They believe in the 60's mantra of, "Free love man, free pvssy!"

I swear to Christ, if a golden cvnt doesn't fall from the sky onto your faces; you'll never get any.
 

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dude kama sutra is sex, she was telling you she likes to get spirit ****ed and you didn't catch that.
 
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