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how do you know when you have confidence?

Beige

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One time you saw a movie character, and you said to yourself: "Man, he's confident".

When you are confident when you talk to someone, you say to yourself: "Man, I'm confident". You just know it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Too_Pimp
when you stop worrying about what other people think.
That's it.
 

windwork

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Originally posted by Abbott
When you feel very good, almost as if you're on top of the world.

Ben
thats good.
probably caused by high self esteem
 

Peace and Quiet

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windwork

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Originally posted by Beige
One time you saw a movie character, and you said to yourself: "Man, he's confident".

When you are confident when you talk to someone, you say to yourself: "Man, I'm confident". You just know it.
so what has to happen for you to say Man, I'm confident...is it a good feeling or what
what makes u say that
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by windwork
how is that even better!!! than the previous post?
The question is: "how do you know you have confidence?"

It's when you don't question your confidence. You are so sure you have it, you don't have to post about it. So confident, you don't even have to think about it.

Makes sense?
 

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when you have done battles and emerged victorious or knowing you did well.

when you stick to principles.

when you act like a man.....a real man.
 

windwork

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Originally posted by Real Man
when you have done battles and emerged victorious or knowing you did well.

when you stick to principles.

when you act like a man.....a real man.
this is pretty good.
i like the real man part, but what makes you the real man.
 

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You are confident in doing something, when the probability of failure does not affect your actions

That is, you act as if you are 100% certain to succeed. You know thats not entirely true, but its almost entirely true. You know that there is a posibility of failure but that does not affect you, the same way that the possibility of a brick falling on your head doesn't stop you from getting out of your house!

And Oxide has a point: When you ARE confident, you don't have to ask whether you are - you KNOW

A thing to remember is that confidence is not general: you could be confident driving your car, but if you are flying a plane for the first time you might **** your pants!
Generally, confidence comes from success, and success more often than not depends on confidence.
On the other hand, lack of confidence and failure form a very nasty vicious cycle!!

This is why often people with little experience with women (such as myself) are often much less confident in their love life compared to any other aspect of their lives.

ThePanther

PS: A good way to improve your confidence is to go to the Health and Fitness Forum, read Diesel's guides on Cutting/Bulking and start working out TODAY! After 2 months cutting and 2 months bulking I look (and feel) SO much better. Can't wait to see what I'll be like in 1 year or so!!
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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