Francisco d'Anconia said:
Guy's, don't you have other things to do or people to see so than you're not dependant on the call back of one girl? Plus, what do you accomplish by putting her on the spot about not calling you back? Are you desperate enough to lay a guilt trip on her in the hopes that she'll call you or go out with you? What if she really isn't interested yet still goes out with you? It happens more often than not. Think about the realistic outcomes to your possible actions and consider whether it's even worth the effort.
Well, it's not really about having other things to do or other people to see I'm sure we all have plenty of things to do. I am certainly not dependent on the woman's call back. The point is that women are hit on frequently by many guys and may have it set that if the guys does not make an effort to get ahold of her (ie call her more than once), then the other x number of guys that hit on her certainly will and you will be forgotten. Yes, if they don't have interest in you then you can be certain you are not getting a call back as well, but what if she is interested and you nexted her because you didn't make a good enough effort in her opinion or she is sh!t testing you? I've heard of women doing this, but still having high interest. Yes it's not logical, but it happens.
I'm not out to put them on the spot or laying a guilt trip on them for not calling back. I am out to let them know that the bottom line is that I am interested going on a date and that we would have a great time as well, but if they don't want to call back I will still have a good time without them. Basically I want to let them know that I am inviting her to my world and not the other way around and that if she don't follow, then she will be replaced.
As far as if she goes out with you and not being really interested. This is easy to catch. Just take her out to a Starbucks and observe her body language. I will always initiate kino and based on the response I get, I am certain whether she is interested or not. If I feel she is not interested, I get up and leave and I'm only out $7. Heck, if she was not interested she would not agree to even go to the Starbucks date as well as possibly try to suggest something more expensive like dinner and you would see this as a Red Flag and next her.
Basically, I know that women are out there playing this kind of game and I'm sure everyone here has faced it. What is your opinion on this and how do you get around this?
I've got women to do, things to see. What makes this concept even simpler is if you really do have other things to do; join a club, hang out with buds, spin plates. Whatever you do she needs to realize that you are giving her a chance to fit into your schedule, it's up to her whether or not she takes advantage of it; not you.
