Trump said:
Bro props but that's sounds like too much work. If a girl told me "I have a boyfriend." I'd be like "that's too bad, would have liked to get together."
For me, if she's resisting before you even ask for the number, what is she going to do when things get tough?
Plus, if a girl told me "We'll see." she'd be out for me too. Who is doing who here the favour?
Only my thoughts, I'm no player by any means.
Well the key is reading her body language. I agree, I'm not going to waste my time chasing women that are not available. The principle point here is that when she says "I have a boyfriend" it does not mean she is resisting you. You have to see what else is going on.
My gal I met in the Wal-Mart parking lot.... well more was going on than just the interaction in the parking lot. We actually met inside the store waiting in line. I noticed her cellphone screen was cracked and started teasing her about it (it's what I do, teasing women you meet works great, as long as you aren't a @ss about it), I can't remember what I said, but it was something like not having to worry about anyone stealing it. But we were chatting in line, learned she was a teacher at a nearby school. Now here is the key, she paid first, and instead of just walking away, she WAITED until I had checked out and we walked out together. I KNEW SHE WAS INTERESTED; otherwise she would not have waited for me. SHE kept eye contact, and I noticed her checking out my body.
NEVER PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT A WOMAN SAYS. Look at what she DOES. If a woman says she has a boyfriend, but she’s giving you all the indications that she wants to fvck you, what are you going to pay attention to?
The woman that I have a second date with next week... Now this is interesting and I hope it helps guys to understand you have to FVCKING PAY ATTENTION to what is going on. Conversation was going REALLY WELL, truth is I probably have more in common with this woman than anyone I've dated in a VERY long time. I excused myself to the bathroom, looked at the mirror in the bar next to the table and watched her check out my @ss walking to the bathroom. When I was coming back I stopped before completely coming around the corner, and there she was texting on her cell phone... When I started walking to the table, she put the phone away, the next thing she said was a mention of her boyfriend.
Okay, what happened here is that she was texting one of her friends, and they were talking about me. She obviously got advice from one of her friends to 'mention a boyfriend and see what he does.' Like I said, I just didn't even acknowledge it. DONT PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT SHE SAYS, read her BL. She wouldn't be on the date if at some level she was NOT available.... her BL was all positive, and we sat and talked until the restaurant closed. Kissed at the end of the date.
When I asked her out again.... she said no, and didn't counter... So I was ready to walk away. But when she reached out again, I just assumed high interest and pushed for another date... mentions her BF again, but THAT IS WHAT SHE SAID, what she DID was reach out to me again. So I pushed, and got a second date, we’ll see how that goes.
Okay here is a thought game… Which woman is available:
Girl One: Her body language is closed off arms folded, glances around the room, all answers to you questions are brief, and she’s not asking you any questions, doesn’t seem interested you at all, but NEVER mentions a boyfriend.
Girl Two: She is spread eagle naked on your bed talking about her boyfriend.
Okay… I know that’s an absurd comparison, but you really need to pay attention to what she is doing rather than what she is saying.
