How do you guys get women to chase you ?

[Thechamp]

How do you guys get women to chase you ? A lot of guys talk abou't it but seriously how do you do it ?

 

[9Volt]

How do you guys get women to chase you ? A lot of guys talk abou't it but seriously how do you do it ?

We get them to chase us by posting about it 24/7/365 and never leaving our mom's basement.

chicks at times will "chase" the dude they think is best looking. they may like his physique, style of dress, social status and just being a cool approachable dude.

or a star athlete, movie star, etc. which is a groupie/ stalker looking for a come up and the worst type to have chasing a dude.

or you have the ex chasing you or even the do not want types.

no one can make anyone chase them.
it's up to the chick, what/who she finds attractive, if she's a possible hoe, mentally unstable, ex wife, girlfriend, has some history with the dude or knows of him and becomes fixated on something about him.

you just need to be your best self not try to be someone you ain't putting on a continous "game" act, get your physique in top shape, dress and groom your best, be socially free and open listening and showing actual interest in what others have to say while being a whole complete person on your own or with someone. not specifically needing to have someone as if you're broken looking for a "completion fix".

you don't know who will chase you. be careful what you wish for you just might get it and they might not be the ones you want chasing you.

 

[TheProspect]

My goal is not to get women to chase me.

My goal is to become the best version of myself in every aspect of my life. That in itself will attract new women that normally wouldn't have given me a chance if I just chose to stagnate my self-growth throughout life.

Work on yourself, and everything outside of you will fall into place accordingly. No need to try and "make" women chase you. It will become a natural side effect as you work on yourself.

 

[zekko]

chicks at times will "chase" the dude they think is best looking. they may like his physique, style of dress, social status and just being a cool approachable dude.

or a star athlete, movie star, etc.

The above is true. Women will chase men of obvious value such as those listed above.

Average guys get women to chase them by using the PUA method, which is to express interest in a girl and then withdraw it. There used to be a lot of posts here saying "I get girls to chase me by ignoring them". But usually if you looked closer, the guy actually expressed interest first by getting her number, complimenting her, or whatever, and then went about their business as normal. This gets her attention and puts the ball in her court.

Corey Wayne talks about going to bars, clubs, or parties and setting a vibe of having fun, which leads to women approaching you in a natural fashion. I wouldn't call a girl approaching you "chasing" though.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I have a policy of never texting first. I might make first contact on-line, but after that, I only answer messages. If she does not answer my last message, I will never text her again. It doesn't matter if we just met, just fvcked, or have been together a while. Tonight was a good example,t a FB I told that I would be free tonight about two days ago. When today rolled around, I made her text me first, asking what time I was coming over. If she had not texted me, I would have acted like we never had a date, not angry, just ambivalent.

That strategy is good insurance against low-interest women. Trying to push yourself on a woman who isn't interested, usually just because she's hot, is a good way to get frustrated. I see a lot of that on this web site. On the down side, the strategy has the weakness of not making women feel pursued or desirable, and maybe you will lose a few plates that way.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

I have a policy of never texting first. I might make first contact on-line, but after that, I only answer messages. If she does not answer my last message, I will never text her again. It doesn't matter if we just met, just fvcked, or have been together a while. Tonight was a good example,t a FB I told that I would be free tonight about two days ago. When today rolled around, I made her text me first, asking what time I was coming over. If she had not texted me, I would have acted like we never had a date, not angry, just ambivalent.

That strategy is good insurance against low-interest women. Trying to push yourself on a woman who isn't interested, usually just because she's hot, is a good way to get frustrated. I see a lot of that on this web site. On the down side, the strategy has the weakness of not making women feel pursued or desirable, and maybe you will lose a few plates that way.

This is spot on where im at, Getting through a brutal breakup trained me how to do just this(no contact disciplin.. hurray)!!
when you get a few plates going it works out really nice, hot girls will hit you up weeks later and you totaly forgot about them.
They know exactly what the fck they are doing playing there wacky texting games.

 

[bigneil]

1) Be someone they notice
2) Have some qualities they really like (eyes, wardrobe, height, etc)
3) Speak to her briefly and then disappear
4) Repeat the process every 2 weeks until she says "Why do you always vanish?"

 

[Infern0]

Build your asset, (yourself) then be visable.

That's really it in a nutshell.

Ever since i started taking physique seriously, all I need to do is go out and have fun, go to parties etc and I get approached.

It did take me a long time to get to this level though.

 

[pyros]

Rule number 1 to make her chase you:
"Your sexual market value must be higher than hers." For example, you're a 6 and she's a 5.

Rule number 2:
"Dont be needy, pushy, beta, etc. Instead, be alpha: confident, fun, etc. Lead her, own the frame, and give her good wild sex."

 

[wifehunter]

How do you guys get women to chase you ? A lot of guys talk abou't it but seriously how do you do it ?

scarcity

 

[Skyline]

Anti-Dump machines post about filtering out low interest girls is perfect for every encounter with women. Women who want you will move mountains to see you or message you. If she isn't doing that, then you're wasting your time.

If she makes you question whether or not she's into you, she isn't into you. His advice explains that quantity is the key to not dwelling on one girl. And the fact that you will be dropping non high interest girls at the drop of a hat essentially.

Use whatever gimmick you like, low interest means you're questioning your actions. If she had high interest, she would not care.

I get a lot of one night stands by following his advice and a lot of girls who already have boyfriends take an interest in me, for some reason.

Anti-Dump machiene is in the DJ Bible by the way.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Scarcity increases value.

Realign your relationship with the phone. Use it as a communication device only. 97% of men screw this up, and text useless bull**** to women. You're only going to communicate with her to make dates. Only hit her up to ask her out. In the interim, she will miss you. That makes her chase you.

 

[9Volt]

1) Be someone they notice
2) Have some qualities they really like (eyes, wardrobe, height, etc)
3) Speak to her briefly and then disappear
4) Repeat the process every 2 weeks until she says "Why do you always vanish?"

By doing that every two weeks is not only try hard to try to get some chick to chase you but by that time she'll already be seeing / dating some other dude who's eyes, wardrobe, social status, physique, etc. she likes that went for it with her instead of playing some game.

 

[9Volt]

Scarcity increases value.

Realign your relationship with the phone. Use it as a communication device only. 97% of men screw this up, and text useless bull**** to women. You're only going to communicate with her to make dates. Only hit her up to ask her out. In the interim, she will miss you. That makes her chase you.

That would only work if she's really into you in the first place to go out on dates with you to begin with. If she is then there's no need to make her chase as she's already into you to go out with you from jump. If not you could ask her out on dates all you like until she blocks your number. You're just chasing her to try to make her chase you and then doing a disappearing act as if these same high value chicks you'd want chasing you aren't being chased themselves or have no options but you. This is where the ridiculous "over-gaming" term comes into play. It's c0ck blocking yourself by going full retard with an act of "game" and killing interest a chick may've had in you from the beginning. Then she winds up with another dude who wasn't playing chase me kid games and went for it with her.

You can't make someone chase you unless they already like you for reasons you may not even be aware of. They could just be a stage 5 clinger that chases certain dudes for whatever fantasy they build up in their mind about them which gets annoying, makes them seem possessive and controlling and in extreme cases a nutjob.

 

[EyeBRollin]

That would only work if she's really into you in the first place to go out on dates with you to begin with.

Yes, that's the point.

If she is then there's no need to make her chase as she's already into you to go out with you from jump. If not you could ask her out on dates all you like until she blocks your number. You're just chasing her to try to make her chase you and then doing a disappearing act as if these same high value chicks you'd want chasing you aren't being chased themselves or have no options but you. This is where the ridiculous "over-gaming" term comes into play. It's c0ck blocking yourself by going full retard with an act of "game" and killing interest a chick may've had in you from the beginning. Then she winds up with another dude who wasn't playing chase me kid games and went for it with her.

You really have no idea what you're talking about. I recommend you read the DJ Bible. Interest level is the only thing that matters. It doesn't matter how many other dudes are after a chick if she's not interested in them. That's the way things work. Stop applying logic to this.

You can't make someone chase you unless they already like you for reasons you may not even be aware of. They could just be a stage 5 clinger that chases certain dudes for whatever fantasy they build up in their mind about them which gets annoying, makes them seem possessive and controlling and in extreme cases a nutjob.

Again, that's the point. You can only date women that like you! (How convenient?) No amount of reasoning with women will make them like you. They either like you or they don't. Your job is to not **** it up.

 

[9Volt]

The above is true. Women will chase men of obvious value such as those listed above.

Average guys get women to chase them by using the PUA method, which is to express interest in a girl and then withdraw it. There used to be a lot of posts here saying "I get girls to chase me by ignoring them". But usually if you looked closer, the guy actually expressed interest first by getting her number, complimenting her, or whatever, and then went about their business as normal. This gets her attention and puts the ball in her court.

Corey Wayne talks about going to bars, clubs, or parties and setting a vibe of having fun, which leads to women approaching you in a natural fashion. I wouldn't call a girl approaching you "chasing" though.

Only thing with "PUA" is they are putting on an act and doing all sorts of mental gymnastics etc to try to get a chick to chase them. So they not only need to do all that but need to keep up an act the whole time trying to get some chick to chase them because she might not "like" them if they don't continue the charade.

Agreed with chicks approaching you not chasing. Chasing is what people do when they obsess over a fantasy they've built up in a specific person in their mind and wind up becoming either annoying or a full blown "Gone Girl" or the "stalker/creeper" dude.

 

[9Volt]

Yes, that's the point.



You really have no idea what you're talking about. I recommend you read the DJ Bible. Interest level is the only thing that matters. It doesn't matter how many other dudes are after a chick if she's not interested in them. That's the way things work. Stop applying logic to this.



Again, that's the point. You can only date women that like you! (How convenient?) No amount of reasoning with women will make them like you. They either like you or they don't. Your job is to not **** it up.

Yet you're talking about making a chick chase you by being "scarce" when the chick liked you from jump and goes out with you regardless.

all you're doing is killing interest because that same chicks you're desperate to chase you will find some other dudes she likes just as much and doesn't act like a child.

just because you think you're the best doesn't alter reality in that if the chick is truly high value she doesn't have other options and won't go to the next better dude while you throw a tantrum and blame the chick for not being your security blankets with neediness.

a person either likes someone enough to chase them or doesn't. you cannot force someone to chase you or i.

 

[wifehunter]

If you lay the groundwork, it's dead easy!

Let them do the rest.

 

[9Volt]

If you lay the groundwork, it's dead easy!

Let them do the rest.

What groundwork? Is that just a general I don't know what groundwork to lay either but just lay it? And you need a chick to be the man and chase you to feel good about yourself? You don't need to lay any groundwork for a chick to chase you if she's going to chase you from the beginning. If she wasn't chasing you from the beginning then her interest isn't that high which means YOU have to work in attempting to get her to chase you therefore you are chasing her.

 

[wifehunter]

What groundwork? Is that just a general I don't know what groundwork to lay either but just lay it? And you need a chick to be the man and chase you to feel good about yourself? You don't need to lay any groundwork for a chick to chase you if she's going to chase you from the beginning. If she wasn't chasing you from the beginning then her interest isn't that high which means YOU have to work in attempting to get her to chase you therefore you are chasing her.

Yes, I was not specific. Feel free to speculate.