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ManOMan

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a woman who has a mental disorder?

I have been reading this site for a few weeks and have learned alot.

I am currently in love with a girl who is Bi-Polar..

she sends me mixed signals up the yin yang..

and although she is off kilter most of the time..I cant seem to shake her from my mind..

she is physically beautiful..and fun to be around..

I would really like to have a chance with her..she is your typical attention wh0re..

and she isnt like crazy..crazy..she just has alot of fleeting thoughts..

Like I would say.."I have alot of fun hanging/talking with you!"

and she would say "What do you think of my hair..should I grow it long? dye it black?"

ahhhhh she is driving me nuts!!!

what would you guys do?

how do I get over this??
 

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are you fcking serious? dump this chick and get out and get a life!

my god you appall me.
 

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I have a life..

sometimes you just get captivated by weird women

Im too ashamed to even bring this up to friends..so I dont need negative comments either

and plus I know she is not for me..but I cant shake her
 

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Bang her somewhere between "manic" and "depressed", when she's somewhat normal, and then RUN! RUN FAR AWAY! And never look back! :D

Is she seeing anyone? Taking Prozac? Lithium?
 

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Bi polar? She sounds like every woman I've ever met man!
 

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she is on depakote.

I would treat her like a hit n run slut..but i genuinly have feelings for her

mostly pity and compassion :(
 

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Originally posted by ManOMan
a woman who has a mental disorder?

I have been reading this site for a few weeks and have learned alot.

I am currently in love with a girl who is Bi-Polar..

she sends me mixed signals up the yin yang..

and although she is off kilter most of the time..I cant seem to shake her from my mind..

she is physically beautiful..and fun to be around..

I would really like to have a chance with her..she is your typical attention wh0re..

and she isnt like crazy..crazy..she just has alot of fleeting thoughts..

Like I would say.."I have alot of fun hanging/talking with you!"

and she would say "What do you think of my hair..should I grow it long? dye it black?"

ahhhhh she is driving me nuts!!!

what would you guys do?

how do I get over this??
A girl that I'm interested in whose sister is bipolar. Very cute girl too (might be the same girl, heh heh). Anyways, I've met her, and she just seems spacy because of the medication, but what else have you experienced with your girl? I'm interested in seeing what these people are like.
 

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well..when she is "into me" she is all out..very loving, giving, friendly..calling all the time

but when she is mad..she acts like I dont exist..and she turns selfish, hostile, egocentric and unforgiving and I dont hear from her

she is the funnest and happiest girl Ive ever met..but when I give her the cold shoulder for dissin me..she does a 180 and goes into b1tch mode..

DJ Methods dont seem to phase her..but she digs AFC moves..she is always sexually suggestive..but never puts out

she was abused by her dad as a kid..and always goes for the "jerks"
 

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You allready know what to do.




hint: look at both of you in 10 years. IF the relationship continues, would you be happy?
 

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fyi you can never have sex with her, because if she is bipolar, she could have major mood swings, if she EVER said you raped her, even with no proof, the fact that she in mentally handicapped mean YOU lose
 

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DUDE i went out with a bi-polar chick. When she wasnt on her pills she was fuccin nutso. And she was fuccin horny as fucc too. Be careful tho, bi-polar chix are psycho.
 

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Run away quickly from bi-polar chicks. I know more than one person that has a Bi polar mom and their mom is insane. I cant even stand to be around them. You can tell that the husbands are just miserable if they arent divorced already. You will get sick of her crap in no time and it could get worse as she goes along. :(
 

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give it a shot mate!

c'mon man if she's really all that youll give her a chance.

who knows what she has dealt with in the past? try and be understanding at least.
 

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See, that could be a good or bad thing for a girl to be bipolar. This one girl I was talking about above is a pretty wild, has a tongue piercing, but other than that, very cute, you'd never even think she'd have her tongue pierced if you looked at her since she has a sweet image, like a good girl. Hot body too. Anyways, her sister is 10 times better since she is not only hot, but she's totally normal.

I can tell that this girl with bipolar would go nuts in bed, which is sort of attractive, and funny because that's normally not my type. If I can't get this girl, then her sister who's bipolar might be interesting, bt I wanted to know what exactly makes a bipolar girl much different from others. Robin Williams is bipolar too.
 

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i forgot to mention....

oh yeah, i dont know why, maybe my upbringing in poverty, my drunk/abusive father, or my mum that was never around......

anyway you wanna know a ****ed up dude, me....

i have been diagnosed with and have medication for these anxiety disorders:

-bi-polar
-major depression
-obsessive compulsive disorder

we all got our problems, dont we? why not try a positive spin on them, ie.

-spontaneous
-quiet and loud (introverted and extraverted)
-perfectionist

And hey im living life an most of the time lovin it!
 

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Re: i forgot to mention....

Originally posted by hotdan2002
oh yeah, i dont know why, maybe my upbringing in poverty, my drunk/abusive father, or my mum that was never around......

anyway you wanna know a ****ed up dude, me....

i have been diagnosed with and have medication for these anxiety disorders:

-bi-polar
-major depression
-obsessive compulsive disorder

we all got our problems, dont we? why not try a positive spin on them, ie.

-spontaneous
-quiet and loud (introverted and extraverted)
-perfectionist

And hey im living life an most of the time lovin it!
I find it funny that the only thing about this girl that was even strange was that she was spacey and sort of lethargic when she talked, sort of ultra-mellow. Besides that, she seemed normal.
 
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