How do you guys deal with loneliness?

resilient

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I agree with what PK said earlier, if you take the time to pursue passions, hobbies, plates, whatever.... you won't have time to sit at home wondering what the hell you should be doing with all your free time. Be about something. Volunteer. Support a cause. Visit family, call a friend or two. Hang out at a sports bar watching your favorite sport. Mine's American football, so I get together with my buddies and bust on them for kicking their @sses in our fantasy football league.
 

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Routine is your friend. If every Thurs night u go to say the local pool comp then
1. It becomes a habit and u ll keep going and
2. U become known and can start making friends
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

marmel75

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Why do you need someone else to have a fulfilling life? You can be alone without being lonely.

The problem is you equate your self worth and happiness with other's validation and acceptance rather than it coming from within.
 
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