How do you guys apply "Walking Away"

[soulforge]

Several years back, a crazy girl I was dating was planning on coming to my house and bringing some food she made. I got off work later than expected and still needed to hit the gym on my way home so I let her know I would be 30min late but she could let herself in. Her hamster wheel went into overdrive and she wants me to send her my GPS location because she thinks I am fuhking her bestfriend. She also tells her best friend to send her GPS coordinates as well. Neither of us complied so thats when she is certain we must be in bed together. good ole crazy brain thinking!

When I arrived at my house, she lays into me and it escalates. I finally tell her to leave. On her way out, she grabs her pan of lasagna and tosses it out the back door. lol, it goes every where! My dog didn't waste anytime cleaning up the mess. There was lasagna mess on the wall, door, and patio. 10 minutes later she calls me and tells me she is going to drive her car off the bridge. I don't believe her, but I try to calm her.

Later that night her friend that she accused me of fuhking goes to check on her. Her friend and her get into it and the friend leaves. Her friend then calls the police to do a welfare check on her. She is emotional and says she is going to kill herself. So that gets her an automatic free ride to the Crazy House for 36hrs for observation.

Yours truly gets a phone call from the police department. My jaw hit the floor. Even though I didn't do anything wrong, I was fully aware of how guys get screwed in situations like these. Everything turned out fine, but it was the end of dating crazy girls for sure.

If you are ever in this situation:

1. Stay calm.
2. Start recording the situation and don't let her know you are recording.
3. Call the police. You can even text 911 in some cities, so she wont be able to hear your conversation.
4. Get out of your house if you have to.

Godamn! Insane story.

 

[manfrombelow]

2. At this point (a person threatens to kill themselves), you should just hang up and stop giving a fvck. "Try to calm her" is a lost cause and totally not needed.

Let me elaborate:

In my bluepilled AFC days, I would freak the hell out whenever threatened by someone (be it a dude or a chick) that he/she gonna kill themselves.

But, after many lessons learned the hard ways, I now know that people that really want to die would do it instantly without having to notify the whole world about it, and people that threaten to kill themselves, in most (>99%) cases, are just azzholes who just want to manipulate you into succumbing to them and sure as hell never have the guts to really kill themselves.

So, again, whenever a crazy chick calls you and says she's gonna kill herself, do the followings immediately:

1. Hang up.
2. Take it as a lesson to never mess with crazy b!tches again (let alone let her into your goddamned place)

 

[Learning Curve]

Very simple question.

I rarely ever travel to meet girls or spend much time at her house.

If a girls gets out of hand, combative or disrespectful with you, how would you apply "Walking Away" if she is at your house?

You're not going to exactly walk out of your own house right and not come back lol (that would be dumb)

My ex was showing up at my house at least every day after I ended it with her.

She was coming every day crying and begging to get back.

What i did was literally shut the door and close the door in the back as my house has a back garden. She was staying outside my door crying for hours and this was a daily routine for weeks.

I was at my home, turning up the music loud and keeping the doors locked. I was also leaving with my car while while she was literally outside my house and disappearing. Eventually, she gave up and left.

I know it sounds harsh and not mature but after so many times I told her it's over and she never understood my space i had to change my approach and this usually is the assh0le approach.

Sometimes you have to just make them feel like a piece of sh1t for them to realize it's time to move on. Most of the time logical women and women who have healthy self-esteem will leave and will not put up with anything to break their reputation.

But toxic and stup1d women that have no self-esteem and are negative and disrespectful will do whatever they can to get back with you to do the same sh1t all over again.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Or, they'll just do it behind your back.

For the first few months of dating, there's no reason to set rules or boundaries, better to just play dumb, observe their actions, vet and ask probing questions - if you get any girl to talk enough they will rat themselves out. Then down the road if she wants something more serious, lay out the terms of your conditions. By then you should already have an idea if she'll even be willing or able to agree to them.

As long as she isn't smoking cigarettes in my bathroom I'll deal with it in time but yeah