how do you go about talking to women if you got injury :not recovering:

[thelonewolflegend]

It doesnt look like getting better i need to know how you go to shallow women i dont want sympathy or looked down upon?

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Hello

 

[marmel75]

Stop making such a big deal out of it?

 

[thelonewolflegend]

How do I tell women about it then without making a big deal and having them ignore me or think bad about me or not sexy or attractive????

 

[sylvester the cat]

have you read the dj bible in its entirety? the answer lies within. troll.

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[thelonewolflegend]

Yes i have now tell me idiot

 

[crazyboy]

tell her all your emotions and feeling behind the injury and also make sure tell here that you need her support.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Yes i have now tell me idiot

tell you what? everything you need to know is in the dj bible.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

No it not it just tells a story n crap not exactly how to be

 

[LiveYourDream]

Imagine you are in a room with the woman of your dreams. Imagine there are 9 other men looking to be with her too. Why should she choose you over those 9 other men? What do you have to offer? What about you is special and unique? What is about you that makes her pick you and not one of them?

Focus on those answers. Those answers will take you far. Focusing on your injury will keep you in victim mentality. Everyone has issues. You can be an empowered man with an injury or you can be a victim-man with an injury. Your choice. Your destiny, so be sure to choose wisely.

Certain types of women will be willing to play rescuer to a victim-man. Is that what you want? This isn't the forum to get advice for that or play that game. Victim mentality is not attractive to most healthy people in the world.

Bad stuff happens. People are victims. I am not trying to minimize anyone's struggle or injustice. There comes a choice-point to let it define you or to become stronger because of it.

You are here asking for help. That's a start. I recommend you don't write a single post further, let alone a single sentence, from the victim mentality to your injury (or lack of job) ever again!

If you want to be a man, who has had a set back and chooses to move forward, with all you have to offer a woman, then act accordingly. Become that man. Be done with the victim mentality.

Be careful you do not become offended at my choice of words of "victim mentality" and now post back as a victim to that. Only good is intended here. Wake up calls are not always pleasant. This moment is an opportunity to wake up out of your victim story and get on with an empowered life instead.

Make a list of all you have to offer a woman. Read it. Review it. Make it better, everyday. Choice is always yours.

P.S. If you think your injury is so significant and I just don't understand how bad it really is... You are right. At the same time, I care enough to tell you to look up stories of soldiers that have returned from combat missing multiple arms and legs and some all. Who they have CHOSEN to become and how they have CHOSEN to move forward in their life, is a lesson and inspiration for all of us.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

How do soldiers do it or paralized people how do they get women???

 

[sylvester the cat]

lol

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Instead of laughing about what's going on im amazed nobody has asked what's wrong with this guys leg or injury? What exactly is your injury man explain?

 

[sylvester the cat]

How do soldiers do it or paralized people how do they get women???

Ask Oscar Pistorius.

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Double amputee and ladykiller. It's all in the mind.