How do you get the damn vasectomy before 30

[k73b73]

Word of advice .... I'm 42
I have 2 kids (14 & 10 yr old)
Have the vasectomy NOW !!
You can still have kids when YOU want to.
Here's how.....all researched by a friend of mine done over with a "surprise" we are pregnant !
...freeze your own sperm...as a backup in case in vasectomy reversal fails (only 25% fail).......by setting up an account at a sperm bank....
about $600-1000 to set up and $200-400 a year to keep.

YOU then decide when to have kids

Believe me.... you got to fit as much ****ing and adventure in your life before 40.... because you physically start to decline....not obvious...
....just slow down
....so 40 is the ideal age to have 1st kid, for a man
.....will be happy to do all home type daddy stuff

Kids are absolutely awesome, but you only get one shot at life, so you dictate your terms to life
Women will try to trap you....it's called continuation of the species
....and their rationalization hamsters completely prevent them from seeing this
....I was raised by women, and find them a lot of fun, but I had no idea how they worked until I started finding websites like this.
So yeah, do the vasectomy, but do it properly

 

[Zarky]

Way I see it? You die, you're dead. You don't get to see the creations the the generation beyond you. You're gone, forgotten anyway. Future generations have no remembrance of you. Dead and gone away.

So very true, yet so few people can really come to grips with this.

 

[penkitten]

Word of advice .... I'm 42
I have 2 kids (14 & 10 yr old)
Have the vasectomy NOW !!
You can still have kids when YOU want to.
Here's how.....all researched by a friend of mine done over with a "surprise" we are pregnant !
...freeze your own sperm...as a backup in case in vasectomy reversal fails (only 25% fail).......by setting up an account at a sperm bank....
about $600-1000 to set up and $200-400 a year to keep.

YOU then decide when to have kids

Believe me.... you got to fit as much ****ing and adventure in your life before 40.... because you physically start to decline....not obvious...
....just slow down
....so 40 is the ideal age to have 1st kid, for a man
.....will be happy to do all home type daddy stuff

Kids are absolutely awesome, but you only get one shot at life, so you dictate your terms to life
Women will try to trap you....it's called continuation of the species
....and their rationalization hamsters completely prevent them from seeing this
....I was raised by women, and find them a lot of fun, but I had no idea how they worked until I started finding websites like this.
So yeah, do the vasectomy, but do it properly

smart idea!

 

[Desdinova]

Got mine when I was 29. The doctor wasn't easy to give in with me even though I already had a kid. I knew I didn't want another kid with that bytch, and I wasn't planning on having any more kids after age 30. I did get it though. Mine is reversable, but I can't see wanting to get it reversed.

Kids are great, but the problem is finding the ideal mate to have them with. I didn't want to have kids hanging around after I was retired, so I basically put having kids in a time frame (my late 20s). I'll be 46 when my kid is 18.

If you want to have kids, it's really a crapshoot with the woman you select to mate with. She could turn out awesome or she could turn out to be a piece of 5hit. It would be nice to be with a woman for 10 years before deciding to mate with them, but women have their own limited timeframe to have children. It all boils down to taking risks. Do you want to risk her being a terrible parent and wife? Do you want to risk having to pay child support for many years? You have to decide if you want to take these risks in order to have children.