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The date is scheduled for tonight at 10:15 but she will flake and then I will put her in her place.
 

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The date is scheduled for tonight at 10:15 but she will flake and then I will put her in her place.
You are waiting for her tonflake to put her in her place?
How are you gonna do it?

Tbh if in your place i would.not schedule a date with a women i know is gonna flake.

I would just next nothing more nothing less
 

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Well I'm an unassertive idiot so I'll never get anywhere or learn my lesson. I also need psychiatric help because my thoughts are racing. I'm yearning for sex with a woman yet I hate women because they won't give it to me.
 

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I can't sleep, my head hurts, my heart is pounding, I can't concentrate on my studies, I'm gonna get rejected and I won't be able to handle it. I'm a mess. I'm gonna die
 

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I don't know why I let her change the date from a dinner date to a movie date. She must think I have no balls. Well she's right. I don't. That's why I'm gonna look at porn for the rest of my life and not gonna get disrespected by another woman ever again. I'm very vulnerable because I'm a coward. Women will always degrade me and disrespect me.
 

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With such negative thoughts it's only going to stay that way. Nobody other than you have the power to change your mind, so on one side if you're determined that you'll fail then so it will be, on the other side you have complete power to turn that around.

I'm gonna get rejected and I won't be able to handle it. I'm a mess. I'm gonna die
Not getting women isn't something to commit suicide over. If you get women you'll wonder why they ever mattered so much, because you'll realize it's not as fantastic as you imagine now.
 

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A movie date ?

That's even better. Now why would a girl flake on that when it was her idea in the 1st place ?

Just relax, be calm, think logically.

I like movie dates because it always ends up on her bed or mine.
 

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# I'm yearning for sex with a woman yet I hate women because they won't give it to me.

That's a man talking;)


When I use the (zero f given mindset), women are more interested.


Also when your b@ll's are this swollen, and physically start to pressure your brain, you smell distressed, and it's a turn off for women.


Go for a h@ppy end massage and release some of these tensions
 

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Does this guy want sympathy or something? Stop being a negative loser and feeling sorry for yourself. Its pathetic.
 

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Does this guy want sympathy or something? Stop being a negative loser and feeling sorry for yourself. Its pathetic.
Some men are born with low to almost non existent EQ, those you call socially awkward.

This doesn't make them pathetic.

This makes them feel frustrated because they can't process emotions or social cues like you do.

Let's just say they're slower in that department but highly efficient in other areas.

Think Einstein, only communicated when he's 4 or 5, socially awkward but he could come up with the theory of general relativity a 100 odd years ago - just imagine what his mind sees that others can't possibly imagine.

But these people were naturally born with low EQ to compensate for their intellectual prowess.
 

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Sooooo did she flake? What happened?
 

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Wow, a girl suggests going to a movie instead of the original plan and OP goes from hating women to wanting to kill himself to putting her in her place to calling her a c**t, all before the actual date.

She has no idea of this either and if she did, she would bail faster than the speed of light, rightfully so. I mean if someone has that kind of extreme reaction over a change in venue, what happens when she has to cancel a date or leave a date early because something comes up?

F**k that.
 

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Wow, a girl suggests going to a movie instead of the original plan and OP goes from hating women to wanting to kill himself to putting her in her place to calling her a c**t, all before the actual date.

She has no idea of this either and if she did, she would bail faster than the speed of light, rightfully so. I mean if someone has that kind of extreme reaction over a change in venue, what happens when she has to cancel a date or leave a date early because something comes up?

F**k that.
I'm willing to bet anxiety is something he deals with daily, he already said he was autistic.

The downward spiral just witnessed seems extreme to the observer but is probably just who he is. No amount of "hey buddy, develop an IDGAF mindset" will probably work here.
 

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Those negative thoughts is the downfall of everything. You see things happening that isn’t even there yet. When you become positive and believe in yourself your confidence will skyrocket and think you can win at anything it shows to women. Stay calm and relaxed. Anyone know if the date happened?? In a different time zone haha.
 

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Wow, a girl suggests going to a movie instead of the original plan and OP goes from hating women to wanting to kill himself to putting her in her place to calling her a c**t, all before the actual date.

She has no idea of this either and if she did, she would bail faster than the speed of light, rightfully so. I mean if someone has that kind of extreme reaction over a change in venue, what happens when she has to cancel a date or leave a date early because something comes up?

F**k that.
I shouldn't have let her change the venue. I should have said "Let's stick with my idea so we could talk more and get to know each other better" or something along those lines. But I'm unassertive and therefore should not go out with women because they will walk all over me like this one is. My mother is unassertive and so are her brothers. I inherited it.
 
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