How do you get in a LTR...

[arutha]

When you know from viewing this forum, that as soon as your girl meets a DJ better than you she will cheat on you?

We've all read enough to know women are fueled by emotion. They act on emotion. If you have any hint of game at all (which you should do if you've read anything) then you yourself have successfully made a girl addicted to you. Hey perhaps you have even seduced a girl already in a LTR as I have.

So now you enter a relationship with a girl, have been seeing her for a few months and agree to go exclusive. The catch is, from this forum, you know that if she ever meets anyone with any game she will fall for them and cheat on you. Every time she is out 'with friends' you are unsure if she is cheating on you, unsure who is trying to hit on her.

After reading this stuff for any amount of time... Is it even possible to get into a LTR and actually trust a girl again? I certainly haven't trusted my last 2 LTR's, and the first did hook up while going ou with me. The second I have made more of an effort to trust and not cared when she goes out, but it was always in the back of my mind. In a way, these forums have been great, but in another way they have ruined me and ruined my opinion of women.

 

[dj_china]

I have also been grappling with this issue

and I think the best solution is to get into a LTR with a girl through social circle. its a lot easier to trust them, and you have more "eyes"?

or pick up a prude chick from some asian country who doesn't believe in pre-marital sex and will never cheat on you because of the way she was raised

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

When you know from viewing this forum, that as soon as your girl meets a DJ better than you she will cheat on you?

We've all read enough to know women are fueled by emotion. They act on emotion. If you have any hint of game at all (which you should do if you've read anything) then you yourself have successfully made a girl addicted to you. Hey perhaps you have even seduced a girl already in a LTR as I have.

So now you enter a relationship with a girl, have been seeing her for a few months and agree to go exclusive. The catch is, from this forum, you know that if she ever meets anyone with any game she will fall for them and cheat on you. Every time she is out 'with friends' you are unsure if she is cheating on you, unsure who is trying to hit on her.

After reading this stuff for any amount of time... Is it even possible to get into a LTR and actually trust a girl again? I certainly haven't trusted my last 2 LTR's, and the first did hook up while going ou with me. The second I have made more of an effort to trust and not cared when she goes out, but it was always in the back of my mind. In a way, these forums have been great, but in another way they have ruined me and ruined my opinion of women.

Thats bull**** here..you have to up your game...sont slack ..make sure shes the one worring about what your doing..if its the other way around you have already lost..Your are the man she is the woman and you shouldn't care what she does because if you are a true DJ and actually are trying to better yourself..(if you haven't started on bettering yourself and don't make a constant effort and improving yourself than you are not a DJ) She will put claw marks in you and nev er want to let go..she would be so into you she would never ask you over to her boyfreinds house..she would never break out that strap on ..she and her boyfriend would never try to run a train on you...