How do you get a girlfriend

[JPlaya]

I don't care if it is frowned upon in this board

 

[Young Stallion]

I dont think a website devoted to helping pick up girls would look down upon a person asking a question about....how to pick up girls!

Dress well, be outgoing, fun and dont give a crap about rejection. That is part of the lesson.

I have found that tools like David D'Angelos double your dating, The Book Of Pook, the DJ Bible are very good when you are studying about theory and they are really fundamental in learning the process at the beginning.

Be wary though, these are guide books, but to get good you have to practice...and for a while you are going to be bad, really bad and come off creepy when you are using the stuff I mentioned above. But dont worry, with more practice it will smoothe out and you will find that confidence, outgoingness and learning how to create attraction through neg hits and teasing and being a fun suave guy really gets alot of ladies.

I am a PRIME example of this stuff taking a guy from being worse than bad in high school...girls wouldnt even talk to me and were disgusted by my presence....to being 29 years old and being able to pick up a girl anywhere besides maybe a club or bar lol.... or at least have a fun interaction.

 

[JPlaya]

I thought those tactics were used for picking up girls temporarily not for long term relationships

 

[Young Stallion]

I thought those tactics were used for picking up girls temporarily not for long term relationships

You need to pick up a girl and spark attraction with her in the first place in order for her to become your girlfriend.

You know what, you should KEEP doing the stuff you did to pick her up and attract her in order to keep her interested and creating and maintaining a relationship as well!

Girls love challenge, spontaniety, being teased, being made fun of, being bad and having a guy that knows how to make her feel good....err bad...err good.

Be wary with your "how do I get a girlfriend" mentality though because the guys who TRY to get a relationship are the ones that end up hurt. Or end up becoming to nice in the relationship and the girl leaves, cheats, whatever...youve gotta keep it fresh and keen.

 

[JPlaya]

actually you're right, **** that

 

[n00bPimp]

I dont know why you'd want to to do this but since you asked. Go out on 4- 5 dates with one girl. Then ask her to be your girl, and voila, welcome to hell.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Oh look, it's Jplaya again.

 

[pipe007]

If you are asking this question, you are by default a MAJOR noob

so for you... its a about getting lucky lol

yep, your next gf will most likely be with a girl that chooses you, so you wont really have to do much work as far as game or trying to attract her, or choosing her.

she will be the one to give you many indicators of interest...

why?

because you are asking.
so don't worry and just wait for the next girl who will pick you... you may wait for a while so in the mean time, relax.

 

[JPlaya]

I'm sorry I don't have enough game to attract girls with game.

 

[loveshogun]

I'm sorry I don't have enough game to attract girls with game.

Forever alone:
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[JPlaya]

why do yall hate me so much?

 

[loveshogun]

why do yall hate me so much?

We don't hate you. You do that to yourself enough for all of us.

Seriously, listen to yourself. "I have no game."

Then fix it. I know people with Asperger's and autism who are able to put in the effort. They have setbacks and obstacles, and they may never get to the point of being super popular, but they at least become happy with themselves.

If you spent less time creating whiny threads and more time becoming an interesting person, you wouldn't have to ask these questions.

 

[JPlaya]

I haven't been on this board since I got banned and I am trying. It takes time.

 

[ananursing]

I am a PRIME example of this products getting a guy from being more intense than bad in university...girls examine even discuss to me and were ashamed by my existence....to being 29 decades of age and being able to choose up a lady anywhere besides maybe a team or bar or at least have a fun connections.

 

[cablecow15]

lol you racist, you live 30 minutes from me
I know about your town.

this guy pmed me this , just because i live in a redneck town lol , it'd be wise not to take anything he says seriously

 

[djokovic77]

You just see a girl several times..it seems like girls wanna be in a relationship more than guys want it. So, at some point the girl will either start calling u her boyfriend, change her FB status, or talk to you about it. If a girl doesn't do that, it's a sign she's not looking for a relationship in my experience.

 

[don't]

What's always worked great for me was to advertise that I was offering them free lessons in Karate and shooting. Then the airheads don't bother you, and quite often, you get a lot of them who are married or have guys, but you can still score. There's something about these subjects, with a lot of women. It's like being the lead singer in a rock band, or something. They dig it.

 

[ArcBound]

I haven't been on this board since I got banned and I am trying. It takes time.

Click the link that says DJ Bible on the bottom left hand corner of the screen.

Then go to the section titled Anti-Dump's Machine.

Thank me later.

 

[sambwoy]

We don't hate you. You do that to yourself enough for all of us.

Seriously, listen to yourself. "I have no game."

Then fix it. I know people with Asperger's and autism who are able to put in the effort. They have setbacks and obstacles, and they may never get to the point of being super popular, but they at least become happy with themselves.

If you spent less time creating whiny threads and more time becoming an interesting person, you wouldn't have to ask these questions.

To the first poster.
I have aspergers, too, and I got things wrong with me on the outside too.

Don't actually recall when I was disgnosed, must have been very young. I will tell you its very difficult, and i did fall into the realm of creepy or weird or obsessive, or even thinking I was a 'special needs' case. It would help of course if some people, including young people, weren't such morons.

it is easy to fall into the trap of making 'woe is me' threads because of rigid thinking- its way harder on you trying to make sense of life and other people, never mind women and dating. Its not your fault you have AS, its just life.

 

[Eternal_water]

I am a PRIME example of this products getting a guy from being more intense than bad in university...girls examine even discuss to me and were ashamed by my existence....to being 29 decades of age and being able to choose up a lady anywhere besides maybe a team or bar or at least have a fun connections.

Really?? 29 decades of age?? Can I find you in the guinness world records?