How do you get a f*** close on POF?

[runningonice]

I'm sure the women on POF are getting sex from other guys on the side...but I noticed that if you tell the truth...that you aren't looking for a long term relationship, even if you don't bring up sex, that they lose interest.

How do you play the online game/phone game etc. without lying and pretending you want something serious?

My goal is simply to lose the V card from someone on the site that isn't an UG or fattie (I don't say this to them obviously) but I want to lose the V-card to find out if sex is even a big deal to me anyway. People like alcohol and chocolate and I don't like either, so you never know.

 

[LayercakeBryan]

I talked to one about standard crap and got the email and phone number, so I sent her a pic of my C*** and she called the next day wanting to screw. To this day she is a plate and Booty call.

 

[PRMoon]

It's not easy to get the top of the line girls off an online dating site to f close. There is definitely a teer system in place for it as is. The lower end girls, ugs and fatties will give it up to you easy, that goes without saying. Mid grade girls even get overwhelmed with suitors so long as they don't have children and even that's not a sure bet. Top of the line and you should be asking yourself "why is this girl here?" Free meal, husband material, just bored. It's not an easy case to diagnose.

Regardless of the instance, you should play the game like normal. Keep contact to a minimal until you get over whelming interest. You want to play it on your terms not hers. With online dating it's the same. Don't cater to them, create interest in you. From there it's a battle of minds instead of you being desperate for therm.

 

[LayercakeBryan]

I guess I got lucky No strings attached with HB7, Ok but not a keeper.

 

[Kerpal]

I'd be happy just to get a ****ing response on that site.

 

[Donnie Darko]

Even if your profile is amazing...the online response rate from women is very low. Again, it is all a numbers game...so contact a lot of girls.

Great profile, great e-mails and expect 20% or less of the attractive girls to be interested.

Bad profile and boring e-mails and expects 2% of the girls to be interested.

Use it only as a supplement to meeting women. Don't use it as your only resource.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I'd be happy just to get a ****ing response on that site.

It's easy if you know how to push buttons..and keys.

 

[runningonice]

I figure while everything that has been said by you guys is true, that it's my most likely bet to have sex with a girl that's not ugly, fat, bottom of the barrel, or not bad looking but not my type at all. (In other words, I'll do anything I consider a 6.)

I don't do bars and clubs and even if I did would be a dead man walking there. I can be pretty social but in those environments it's clear that I'm out of my element and not having a good time since I don't drink and hate small crowded areas. Women can sense it.

I'm not looking for anything long term or even someone to exclusively date. Just looking to demistify sex without going to an escort or having sex with a warpig.

 

[DonJuan11]

- I don't do bars and clubs
- I don't drink and hate small crowded areas.
- I'm not looking for anything long term or even someone to exclusively date.
- Looking to demistify sex without going to an escort or having sex with a warpig

If you don't want to give a women money for sex, a relationship for sex, or exclusively date her for sex, what does she get in return for giving you sex?

Wanting a women to give up her body to you just because you want to know what sex feels like is not a good exchange for her. Now if you were a WORLD CLASS CHEF and cooked awesome meals for her, she may give up her body, if you GAVE HER $500 in cash, she may give up her body, if you gave her STRONG POWERFUL FEELINGS, she may give up her body. But just because you want it? No dice.

You have to GIVE HER SOMETHING to have sex with you. WHAT are you going to give her?

 

[cavedweller]

POF??---I lurk and post there....

Easy.......Do what I did..

I contacted several guys and b1tches (who lived in the local area) and we put together a POF Bar-B-Q/pool party on a Friday night...We told them they were welcome to bring a friend.

A total of about 50 to 55 people showed up and about 1/2 of them brought their bathing suites.

Take my word for it..There was some contact and 'hook ups' made that night...

The key to the party was 'Pop-a-Top Again'...ie: Booze for the babes.

cavedweller

 

[Naughty Ninja]

POF??---I lurk and post there....

Easy.......Do what I did..

I contacted several guys and b1tches (who lived in the local area) and we put together a POF Bar-B-Q/pool party on a Friday night...We told them they were welcome to bring a friend.

A total of about 50 to 55 people showed up and about 1/2 of them brought their bathing suites.

Take my word for it..There was some contact and 'hook ups' made that night...

The key to the party was 'Pop-a-Top Again'...ie: Booze for the babes.

cavedweller

That is online dating bible material! Excellent idea! Positive rep coming your way! Same should go for cold weather. Hottub parties, ski trips etc.

 

[cavedweller]

Ninja,

Check it out..The POF pool party:

Food and drink rules:

BYOB and bring 1 dish---potato chips, cole slaw or whatever..You choice..

About 25 women showed up and about 30 guys..Hell, they were coming and going and I could not keep count..

3/4 of the studs there didn't 'hook up', because, they were getting drunk and talking stupid sh1t..oops.......

One dude had his game together--He brought his guitar, mic. and amp.

A cool way for a single guy to spend a Friday night..

cavedweller

 

[runningonice]

I think I was overanalyzing it...my brother has seen his success skyrocket on POF by simply being more casual in his messages, and when he meets them, saying that he's not looking for serious, just looking to date and see what happens and making a move at the end.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Ninja,

Check it out..The POF pool party:

Food and drink rules:

BYOB and bring 1 dish---potato chips, cole slaw or whatever..You choice..

About 25 women showed up and about 30 guys..Hell, they were coming and going and I could not keep count..

3/4 of the studs there didn't 'hook up', because, they were getting drunk and talking stupid sh1t..oops.......

One dude had his game together--He brought his guitar, mic. and amp.

A cool way for a single guy to spend a Friday night..

cavedweller

Great way if you are social to meet alot of people on and not signed to POF in one shot and get numbers. Meeting in person as quick as possible much better. Plus the women would feel more at ease or ready to tease with competition in one area. That's a good idea. Never thought of it as POF has it's own parties. I wouldn't trust a bunch of people I don't know in my house though. Maybe a mass party at a Dave and Busters etc. But the house pool party is still GOLD if you've got friends watching out for your stuff.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I think I was overanalyzing it...my brother has seen his success skyrocket on POF by simply being more casual in his messages, and when he meets them, saying that he's not looking for serious, just looking to date and see what happens and making a move at the end.

That's the way it's done. Too much profile "Agreeing" and nice guy B.S. keep it lighthearted and funny and talk about non profile stuff. That's all just fluff.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Cavedweller,

You might also want to send out a quick thank you and next party invite to a few of them and new ones. (You may hook a few on the follow up if you didin't that night.) Maybe get a group of people throwing POF parties at different locations on your own like you're doing.

 

[Lexington]

I'm sure the women on POF are getting sex from other guys on the side...but I noticed that if you tell the truth...that you aren't looking for a long term relationship, even if you don't bring up sex, that they lose interest.

How do you play the online game/phone game etc. without lying and pretending you want something serious?

My goal is simply to lose the V card from someone on the site that isn't an UG or fattie (I don't say this to them obviously) but I want to lose the V-card to find out if sex is even a big deal to me anyway. People like alcohol and chocolate and I don't like either, so you never know.

The truth is that a lot of these broads on POF, OKC etc. are totally down to fvck even if they claim otherwise. I've banged every girl I met online within 2 dates tops. I managed to get most of them in sack within the first date.

Yes, a lot of them will go on about "only looking for serious relationships" but remember, people are full of sh*t.....especially on dating websites where people try to present the best possible image of themselves.

Don't tell them that you're looking for something short term. Just say you're looking for dating and to see what happens. Leave it at that. Tell them that you don't want to force anything and to see what happens. And it's not even a lie....you're being dead honest. For all you know, this broad could turn out to be the girl of your dreams (HIGHLY unlikely, but still possible).

 

[runningonice]

It is lying though in my case...I'm not looking to "see what happens"...I like being single.

And I'm not a "nice guy"...I just know what it's like to be led on. So I guess I'm looking to lose the v-card to a strong woman who isn't overly emotional as it's likely I'll probably want nothing to do with her after. Basically just looking for a free prostitute.

 

[IAMHOLLYWOOD]

I've found that the faster you push for the in-person interaction the more likely you are to get a clean chance to seduce the girl. I get them to agree to meet up and let the in-person game do all the work