You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
100%Just listen... really all you can do... don't try to fix it (as is the manly way)... just let her talk and listen
If there is one thing I learned from my failed marriage is that sometimes they just want to be heard.
If it has to do with you, then think about what has happened, and listen the underlying message. Women never tell you what they are actually upset about because they really don't understand. If she is crying because you left town for the weekend, she is likely really crying because she is not feeling your love...
If it doesn't have to do with you, then just listen. Don't offer a solution unless she asks. Usually she is just venting and just wants someone to pour that crap out on...
OR THATIf I'm crying, a designer purse will fix it, no matter what it is
(sarcasm)
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.