f283000 said:
Do you have sex with animals? Is that wrong?
But anyway I think the problem here is that a lot of people fall for the glamor of the married women and forbidden relationships portrayed by the media.
The media is responsible for promoting this idea that all married women are bored and out to cheat (like that housewives tv shows).
However, rarely do these tv shows portray the reality of what happens in real life. You won't see the husband out to kill you, getting your butt kicked by angry husbands, you won't see crying children seeing their family ruined watching their parents fight and argue, you won't see the divorce proceedings and whole family splitting up and being ruined just so you could get a few minutes of sex with a married woman.
To be successful in life you have to put yourself in situations where you are likely to come out a winner. This isn't one of them.
Do I have sex with animals? lol no(assuming humans don't count)
I don't think presenting a undesirable/taboo situation, such as sex with animals, will validate the mental concept of right and wrong.
Also about damaging family relations, "it takes two to tango." Err actually in these cases it takes three. What I mean is all parties share the blame(it is not
the DJ that is solely responsible). The wife willfully cheats, the DJ seduces her into cheating, and the husband drives her to cheat by not satisfying her needs.
The most important part is what you said about success. "To be successful in life you have to put yourself in situations where you are likely to come out a winner." I disagree
maybe. I think as long as you actually enjoy what you are doing then you are successful. Now enjoying what you do is winning in a esoteric sense. However, if you meant winning to mean obtaining a desirable outcome, then I disagree. Why would should anyone have their success contingent on some situation that they don't have control over? Being frustrated about situations out of my control just made me miserable.
Finally, I totally agree with what you said about the way that the media portrays taboo relationships with housewives as glamorous. It seems like way too much drama.
synergy1 said:
what a bunch of hypocrites. if a women did this to a guys family, half of you jackbags would be crying foul for years.
If you make a wife cheat on her husband who is an ex marine and has fire arms, I bet your sorry ass will run to the cops if this guy 'breaks society's rules' and comes after you. it works both ways buddy, not just how it plays out in your little fantasy world.
I am glad a few of my fellow posters agree to stay away and have said so.
I think you might be right about the hypocrite remark. I tend to give men the benefit of the doubt more often than women. I don't think I would be crying foul though. When people do this it seems like a projection of their self-frustration, at their lack of control.
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her husband who is an ex marine and has fire arms, I bet your sorry ass will run to the cops if this guy 'breaks society's rules' and comes after you."
The exact reason I would not do this.
