How do you game girls who are naturally flirty/touchy?

[analyticparalytic]

I noticed this while I was out last night. I was talking to this girl in the group we were going out with and she was making some heavy eye contact with me and punching my shoulder when I made jokes and that sort of thing. So I thought she was flirting with me, but actually she was just doing this to everybody around us. How do you game girls with very extroverted personalities who flirt with everybody? Nonverbal flirting and touching and body language doesn't really work because it's nothing special to them. So them complying with things like that is not actually an IOI. How do you ramp it up with these naturally flirty, tease-y girls?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Easily. Chicks like these have already demonstrated that they're physically affectionate

 

[GoodMan32]

I had a female coworker like that.

Shockingly, she never offered sex, despite the fact she gave me a ride home once (and there was another time when we socialized at a venue only a mile from my place after work)

 

[BaronOfHair]

Shockingly, she never offered sex...

It's shocking that women don't freely give themselves to a man who doesn't pursue them, same way it's surprising to witness a nation who prioritizes analyzing an opponent's motives over fighting back lose a war

 

[inquisitor]

I noticed this while I was out last night. I was talking to this girl in the group we were going out with and she was making some heavy eye contact with me and punching my shoulder when I made jokes and that sort of thing. So I thought she was flirting with me, but actually she was just doing this to everybody around us. How do you game girls with very extroverted personalities who flirt with everybody? Nonverbal flirting and touching and body language doesn't really work because it's nothing special to them. So them complying with things like that is not actually an IOI. How do you ramp it up with these naturally flirty, tease-y girls?

It can be an IOI if you play around with it. Where were you out? How easy would it have been to isolate her? These are some aspects you might want to consider in the future.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Escalate, escalate, escalate.

If you were at a club then it meant she was ready to make bad decisions, it didn’t matter with who. You can’t be shy about it. Put your penis on the table.

 

[BPH]

Directly.

Don't try to figure her out, just be up-front and see if she's on the same page.

With women like her, it might be more beneficial to notice who she's NOT being overly physical with - that person likely makes her nervous where she wants to present her best self, and not necessarily the "tomboy hanging with the bros" persona that you've described.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I had a female coworker like that.

Shockingly, she never offered sex, despite the fact she gave me a ride home once (and there was another time when we socialized at a venue only a mile from my place after work)

Why is it shocking? You don't think women instinctively read your apprehension around them like a book?

 

[Doctor Doom]

but actually she was just doing this to everybody around us.

Red flag. This means you’ll be nobody special to her. She sounds like another version of Hawk Tuah girl. No need to game her.

Keep her in your social circle though. You can game her friends.

 

[GoodMan32]

It's shocking that women don't freely give themselves to a man who doesn't pursue them, same way it's surprising to witness a nation who prioritizes analyzing an opponent's motives over fighting back lose a war

Thanks to new age feminism, it's too risky for a man to ask a coworker for sex. In the specific instance of coworker sex, the woman has to make the offer. Because even if the man isn't into her, a man isn't going to rat a female coworker out to HR for offering sex. On the other hand, a man runs the risk of getting ratted out to HR if he requests sex from a female coworker who turns out to be uninterested (For that matter, I remember being terrified of getting ratted out for merely giving my number to a broad I worked with back in 2021)

Broads are the reason pursuing a woman in the workplace has become like dodging land mines. The least they could do is step up to the plate and make the move on the man if interested (since we aren't "allowed" to)

 

[GoodMan32]

Why is it shocking? You don't think women instinctively read your apprehension around them like a book?

With this specific coworker, I did some light flirting in response to her workplace flirts.

I also let my mask slip once (and basically gave away the fact I'm into her without coming out and telling her)

 

[Hamurabimbi]

With a work girl, find out what she likes & talk about it. If she’s interested, she’ll suggest you & her go out.

example: A girl at work I was flirting with likes whisky. As do I. We started talking about it & she suggested we go out & try some whiskey bars.

Another: I told a girl I was flirting with about a pop-up makers market. She was into that. She suggested we check it out.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Thanks to new age feminism, it's too risky for a man to ask a coworker for sex. In the specific instance of coworker sex, the woman has to make the offer. Because even if the man isn't into her, a man isn't going to rat a female coworker out to HR for offering sex. On the other hand, a man runs the risk of getting ratted out to HR if he requests sex from a female coworker who turns out to be uninterested (For that matter, I remember being terrified of getting ratted out for merely giving my number to a broad I worked with back in 2021)

Broads are the reason pursuing a woman in the workplace has become like dodging land mines. The least they could do is step up to the plate and make the move on the man if interested (since we aren't "allowed" to)

Out of curiosity. Do women know you refer to them as ‘broads’?

 

[GoodMan32]

Out of curiosity. Do women know you refer to them as ‘broads’?

No they don't.

Even being an autist, I'm aware broads don't like getting called broads.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Even being an autist, I'm aware broads don't like getting called broads.

Which begs the question why you use that term anyway.

I do know the psychology of using dehumanising terms like 'chicks' and 'babes', or in your case archaic terms like 'broads'. I have a few more that you can use from the same vintage: 'moll'; 'gal'; 'dame'; or 'flapper'.

Also, this is about young women flirtingly touching you, not old women pawing you like an incontinent pug.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I also let my mask slip once...

So long as you went through with your initial scheme, and plunged that butcher's knife into her chest a few dozen times, the fact that she saw your face is no cause for worry. Rejoice

 

[GoodMan32]

Which begs the question why you use that term anyway.

I do know the psychology of using dehumanising terms like 'chicks' and 'babes', or in your case archaic terms like 'broads'. I have a few more that you can use from the same vintage: 'moll'; 'gal'; 'dame'; or 'flapper'.

Also, this is about young women flirtingly touching you, not old women pawing you like an incontinent pug.

Even though my female coworker was 60, her touch was still every bit as fun/flirtatious (and felt just as good as) a younger woman's touch.

I use the term "broads" because I like the way it sounds.

 

[parabellum]

I noticed this while I was out last night. I was talking to this girl in the group we were going out with and she was making some heavy eye contact with me and punching my shoulder when I made jokes and that sort of thing. So I thought she was flirting with me, but actually she was just doing this to everybody around us. How do you game girls with very extroverted personalities who flirt with everybody? Nonverbal flirting and touching and body language doesn't really work because it's nothing special to them. So them complying with things like that is not actually an IOI. How do you ramp it up with these naturally flirty, tease-y girls?

You kiss them.