How do you filter the good ones from the bad ones?

[joker79]

I dealt my entire life with female **** tests and yet they **** test me recklessly, the hotter she is, the merciless she is if I fail even partially.

I tried an experiment, I'm getting wider, I've swallowed the red pill and I see my SMV increasing so I'm in a good position: I'm **** testing (filtering) them back and see the reaction. Meaning asking for last second availability requests, flakes, disinterest, "cheap" dates, not chasing them at all, not answering txts and so on.
95% of chicks are totally unable to manage this behaviour and sadly I'm forced to discard them. Even better it gets when they're confronted with uncomfortable truths, I get a blank stare like they were saying: " why you tell me that, I should be treated as a princess, you're an *******, I don't feel comfortable. You should just shut up and accept my behaviour"

I remember one of my last date, we were traveling together and I kne that her ex was constantly texting her. She accepted an invite from him for drinks and when I challenged her as she was trying to hide it from me (I'm not stupid dear girl!), she went immediately defensive and then, after sending me txts overnight, she crawled back the day after. Inevitably my interest dropped immediately and it was the beginning of the decline. I wasn't able to trust her anymore...and I was right!

How do you guys filter the good ones from the bad ones? I just was Vitalyz gold digger prank and I'm still laughing.. but I think that this is the reality today

 

[backseatjuan]

Firstly she has to not smoke, then handle a drink. Don't give bj on first date or f'ck. Be emotionally stable, relatively. If she passes the sh`t tests by behavior, not just words, then she's a candidate for more than a f'ck buddy. Basically and in general, her soul has to be pure at the very deepest, and her family has to be good. Look how her mother treats you, because that her in the future.

 

[Skyline]

How to filter good from bad?

We use red flags and deal breakers. Everyones red flags and deal breakers are different. One of my red flags is the girl opening up to you waaay to early. Meaning she goes as far to tell me shes been raped, abused, molested, etc. in her past. So you could say its even a possible deal breaker. Lets say she also treats her parents with disrespect, yells at them calls them names etc. thats another red flag and a possible dealbreaker for me.

These red flags are basically monitoring her behavior for potential behavioral confrontation in the future. E.g she yells and treats her parents with disrespect, one year later im in that position with her. But dont get caught up in the bad because everyone has baggage. The opposite of pros is cons. If she has good characteristics that outweigh the bad, then you know you shes a possible candidate.

You have to know what you're looking for and not looking for in a girl.

 

[TheGambino]

Frayz i was calling with this plate she indeed was really open to me wasnt used to that so early .. Find out her nephew abused her.

 

[Contrails]

I was thinking about the exact same thing. I have come to the conclusion that I need to change my mindset when meeting/initial dating these women.

Looking at my past relationships, I have noticed that as I get to know the girl, I become infatuated and I start thinking about our future together and as I have come across the red flags, I keep ignoring them because they don't fit into my fantasy that I have created with this chick.

I am now thinking that I need to change this. So, from now, when I meet a chick, I straight away assume, she has issues and I need to know about these fairly quickly. This prevents me from putting her on a pedestal as well.

Secondly, I have noticed that after the first time I have had sex with a girl, I think more clearly about her and us. So from now on, it's all ahead full to get the girl in the bedroom! After the sex and getting to know her, I find her worth it, I will decide to enter a relationship with the girl.

Any red flags, fvck buddy material. Anything not upto what I want, fvck buddy material. The other thing I am working on is also improving myself. If I want a quality woman, I need to become a man of quality.

 

[JoeMarron]

Make sure she has high self esteem, a good relationship with her parents especially her father, a good childhood, no history of abuse whatsoever, no sexual hangups, doesn't have a ton of male friends, doesn't use drugs and is rarely if ever drunk, extremely low partner count, those are just a few I can think of off the top of my head. Yes I know the chances of finding a woman like this is the equivalent of finding a unicorn. However, if you're planning on staying with her long term or starting a family then it would be in your best interest to find that unicorn. Obviously this list is meaningless if you're just looking for sex.

 

[youngmack]

Make sure she has high self esteem, a good relationship with her parents especially her father, a good childhood, no history of abuse whatsoever, no sexual hangups, doesn't have a ton of male friends, doesn't use drugs and is rarely if ever drunk, extremely low partner count, those are just a few I can think of off the top of my head. Yes I know the chances of finding a woman like this is the equivalent of finding a unicorn. However, if you're planning on staying with her long term or starting a family then it would be in your best interest to find that unicorn. Obviously this list is meaningless if you're just looking for sex.

Females lie a lot! Had some girl tell me she never drunk or smoke and only had 1 partner...found out weeks later she's always in the trap drunk and high getting gangbanged. You will never know if she telling you the truth or not.

 

[JoeMarron]

Females lie a lot! Had some girl tell me she never drunk or smoke and only had 1 partner...found out weeks later she's always in the trap drunk and high getting gangbanged. You will never know if she telling you the truth or not.

You aren't gonna ask them and take their word for it. Although you'll never be 100% sure, through observation and common sense you'll be able to figure some things out on your own.

 

[foreverAFC]

there are some girls out there who dont play games and dont mind being straight up with a guy, but they are rare to come across in my personal experience. you will have to meet 100 toxic females with bad attitudes to meet that one girl who who wasnt sexually abused as a kid and had a respectable father figure around that wont play games and will have no problem just letting you know she is interested. unfortunately its hard to even know sometimes when you do meet a girl like this, you get used to so many women who are unfriendly or have their guards up that when you meet a woman who is genuinely cool you wont even believe it, you assume she must be playing games anyway and just pretending to be cool. sometimes you have actually be around a person for a while to realize if they are real or not.

 

[VladPatton]

The bad girls are exactly what you just described. The good ones are the exact polar opposite.

 

[DonGorgon]

you don't...WHY? cause all women have a good and bad side that they show to different men depending on their attraction to him.. once she stops showing you her respectful good side its time to get rid of her cause its down hill from there

 

[CrimsonPanther]

how i filter them broads:

after some dating / boning, absence of huge red flags, i invite her to me for a weekend, and watch her. if she initialize some cooking, they take care of me, and generally prove useful, that is score one for her.
i also invite her in my friend circle, going together somewhere, and watch her. if she does not flirt with the other guys, talks mostly with the other girls, not act selfishly , and makes me feel loved, score two for her.
i will visit her at her family, and observe her and her family. if they are laid back, and she gets along with the parents (and the parents among each other), strike three, and i have a good basis to begin to trust her. not being a "party animal" is a bonus. i don't like girls who go to parties too often.
also, she must not have her lamebook profile full of selfies and wise-ass quotations.

in the meantime watching for other red flags, and weird behaviors, and acting like a gentleman with her(not like a clingy afc, mind you), treat her with kindness every time she does something i like, and generally putting her in a hierarchically inferior position while being loving to her. until she fails, she is good material. the moment she fails, she will be demoted to a FB or pump& dump.

notice that i didn't mention that she should be virgin, and i did not count the dates before she opened her legs to me. because i don't care. as long as she is faithful, and is the type that genuinely likes to take care of her man, i am game.

also, i don't like carrier-centered women. nothing against them, if that is their dream they should pursue it, but i choose those who like being a kind submissive partner to a man.