How do you feel dating a women with kids?

[dmvmang]

I was wondering if any had experienced this? Dating a women with 2 or 3 kids. I'm 29 and she is 29 and the kids thing is bothering me just a tiny bit. Today I found a women who I use to like, now is divorced. But she has I think 2 kids. Would you do it or have you before. I really like her though a lot. Personality, body, face etc.

 

[spang]

hell to the no

 

[Packers2010]

i have't dated any women with kids. though one of my girls right now has a kid. sure it's a draw back, but her personality is good and she is hot.

she is a little older then me at 28. she is a sexy milf.

 

[VladPatton]

No from me. It is a permanent tie to the father that you're never gonna shake. Plus, I don't like the idea of raising someone else's brats.

 

[BeDJ]

As they say on these boards -

Pump and dump

 

[Trump]

As above. Date her and have sex all you want, just don't have make any sex conditional to taking care of her kids.

The father didn't and she couldn't get enough sex from him. You shouldn't be any different.

 

[Down Low]

There is no future with her. Every second spent with her, or even thinking about her, is worse than a total waste. It's a negative. You're losing the opportunity to find women with whom there could be a future.

 

[backseatjuan]

Goats have kids, you'd never catch certain race use the word kids in reference to their own, only children, kids in reference to goyim. Look up the word goyim. http://www.thefreedictionary.com/goyim


I have dated a girl with one child, she was 24 I believe, and I was 30. Basically I was interested in sex and we had it twice in my car, thus the name backseatjuan. After she understood I'm not interested in an LTR with her, we never met again. Obviously these women are interested in an LTR, and they are choosing for themselves as well as for their child. Later, much much later, I found out she was dating another dude at the same time she was dating me.

Actually that girl was a pretty good choice, except for the child. She had her own condo, and her parents had a house. Good inheritance. Though back then I was only interested in sex.

Now that I'm well sexed and prefer a nice porno and some time alone to a nice piece of ass - I know - I'd stick with a girl that has no more than 1 child and her own condo and a house. I'd take half of that. No more than 1 child because she'd still could have two of my children.

Basically it's a common sense, if a girl has 2 or 3 children then there is no room for your future children. 1 child is fine.

These women devote most of their time to their children, so you're on 2nd place. Don't call too often, and be ready to make a lot of compromises because she would not be ready to go on a date with you when you want it.

 

[Desdinova]

That's a difficult one for me since I have one of my own. I've tried dating women with kids, and their custody arrangements REALLY play a part in how much time you're going to spend with her. I've tried dating full-time moms, and it just doesn't fvcking work. My only option if I'm going to date a woman with kids is that the father IS part of the child's life so she has some freedom.

 

[Duracell_Bunny]

I haven't dated any single mothers.

Through seeing it first hand from a fvcked up relationship my friend is in I wouldn't even go there unless their children have left school.

My friend has been in the LTR for 4 years, she already has two young children with her ex-husband, they are not yet divorced. Had another child that is my friend's, they are expecting another. She does nothing but stay at home all day taking benefits for granted and probably fvcking other men - the kid might not even be his for all we know.

He is also in debt too, while she walks around with his balls in her purse.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Its not a good long term plan, I would say have fun with them, enjoy each other swhile making things clear from the beginning both with them and most of all with yourself.

You cannot imagine how your brain is gonna fvck you once you start having regular sex with the same woman, and unlike women we have empathy and a sense of compassion which
could lead you to some very stupid mistakes.
Keep your frame with yourself while dating and messing up with them.

 

[JohnChops]

As they say on these boards -

Pump and dump

Yup spot on in 3 words. No point in having a relationship with them ... they are good for FWB type deal though

 

[JohnChops]

Its not a good long term plan, I would say have fun with them, enjoy each other swhile making things clear from the beginning both with them and most of all with yourself.

You cannot imagine how your brain is gonna fvck you once you start having regular sex with the same woman, and unlike women we have empathy and a sense of compassion which
could lead you to some very stupid mistakes.
Keep your frame with yourself while dating and messing up with them.

WHAT?! To the bold .... isnt it supposed to be the opposite way around WDW?

 

[SgtSplacker]

Remember that kid will and should always be her #1. You will never be #1.

An LTR is all about two people meeting their #1s...

This is good and bad, girls sometimes expect you to be their entertainment. If she has kids they will keep her busy. (more Call of Duty time)You should generally spend less, because a babysitter for her costs more than a restaurant check for you usually.

Some girls know they are extremely devalued in the dating world if they have kids and are going after guys without kids. If she realizes this, and tries to make that up to you somehow things can be pretty nice. Maybe even nice enough for you to consider staying around.

But...

If she is some loser HO with babies and a crappy job, expecting you to be the baby daddy and support their scrubby arse's. Or if she never bothers to try and setup alone time for both of you. Or if she just doesn't feel the need to try and take the extra step to keep you happy (there should be extra sex and BJs for sure...).

PUMP AND DUMP HOMIE AND DON'T LOOK BACK.

And wear a condom with this one, she's obviously not worried about having babies...

 

[Fatal Jay]

dated one chick with a kid

never ever again will I do it,it sucks so bad, I don't care how hot the chick is

I will never put myself through that again

the only kid im taking care of is when I have some with my wife

until then **** no, im not going to pretend like I like those kids just to impress the mother,or put my self in a father postion when I know I don't want that ****

 

[Who Dares Win]

WHAT?! To the bold .... isnt it supposed to be the opposite way around WDW?

No its not, while a divorced husband is still concerned about his ex wife health, a divorced woman is more than fine as long as she gets her check every month.

I think Rollo wrote also about war brides which explains it really good, women dont feel "love" the same way we do, probably only toward their own sons.

 

[JohnChops]

No its not, while a divorced husband is still concerned about his ex wife health, a divorced woman is more than fine as long as she gets her check every month.

I think Rollo wrote also about war brides which explains it really good, women dont feel "love" the same way we do, probably only toward their own sons.

thats eye opening. And kind of insane when you think about how woman are supposed to be the ones who are all emotional and what not.

 

[Who Dares Win]

thats eye opening. And kind of insane when you think about how woman are supposed to be the ones who are all emotional and what not.

You pretty much see how women are prone to love from the hatred and anger that wifes show during divorces, that man which was once their lover the day before is not even an individual with feelings and dignity but a wallet to empty as fast as possible.
Fake rape and violence accusation not only are not a big deal but actually are seens as acceptable tools to make it easy to get what "they deserve".

And wer're talking about someone with which they shared their life, let alone a random guy in the lifes.

 

[GymRunner22]

Well if you grew up without a mother or father it can get really sensative. Girls with kids are supposedly harder to date because they have to protect their child. On top of that they are most buyers ( they look for guys that have money so they are assured safety).
You have to realize also that they are hurt because their home is less one person for some reason and they have to get over it somehow, thus they have to have a partner they really trust.

 

[pinkfl]

It's not that I think that these women are undateable, I just think they should date a guy with similar baggage.