I recently have been hooking up with a girl
She is a cool kid and I want to continue sleeping with her, but, I don't really want a relationship.
What is the best way to establish that is is for sex only?
Is it a good move to never go on dates or coffee or anything like that?
Thanks
The goal here is to let the chick bring up whatever she wants to have or what her idea is. You don't want to bring up the subject of friends with benefits or f3uck buddies.
The best way to do it is to:
1. Keep inviting her over smash-rinse-repeat
2. Don't mention anything about being interested only in s3x some chicks will realize and will go along with it, some will bring the subject up just to clear things out. If that happens just tell her
"I like what we have weekly, let's keep it at that." Don't open too many discussions unless the woman is experienced and knows what she wants. Then you can actually further discuss it.
3. Nothing wrong with going for drinks late in the night and then moving to your place to smash. Usually, it's best to do that every 2-3 weeks so they don't feel just like a piece of meat.
Just to give you an example I have one chick on rotation now that I bang weekly. She is highly experienced, crazy sexual chemistry we keep it light every single week meeting once.
The first meetup was for drinks of-course but since then I'm just inviting her straight over to my place.
She brought up the subject of "just sex" in a way and I further agreed upon since this is what i wanted. But the thing is she is experienced and she knows what she wants and I know what I want. This is the best example of a woman to find as it will be easy going without too much drama of what you and her are.
Hope this helps.