how do you end sex?

[Snap87]

Sup. ive been wondering how you guys end sex with a girl? Like, after she orgasms, does she finish it off by giving you a bj, so you both are satisfied? or after you orgasm do you finger her till she orgams? you cant possibly both orgasm at the same time.

 

[dannowillbookem]

the chick rarely ever comes first, so if anything youre finishing before her. i usually like to amp up the theatrics when im about to lose it, pulling and moaning louder and going harder...usually gets her there. if not i just roll over, unless she seems set on getting there, at which point i'll finger her.

but interesting question.

 

[sexy_kuta]

after i bust a few times and my **** is really sore and limp... i call it quits.. so after ur last bust.. moan and goan alot.. like u just ****ed 10 women...

then she will get the message.. then make love.. kiss. kiss more.. then get dress and leave

dont be the ******* and leave the ***** naked i did that one time.. lol u feel like **** after

 

[azanon]

the chick rarely ever comes first, so if anything youre finishing before her.

I can see how a 16 year old might think this. Its wrong btw.

If you know what you're doing, the chick always cums first. Heck, if you really want to play it safe, make her *** before you even put it in.

And there's no such thing as a girl that cant ***. There's only such thing as a man who cant make her ***. OK, I can except there might be some rare exceptions to this (I do so in theory because i havent personally ran across this problem yet), but most of them work fine when you push the right buttons and stroke their mind just right.

If you try to keep it going after you've cummed, you just look like a despirate loser who didn't do the job right. Better to just get off her, and try harder next time.

To answer your question, you end sex when you ***. Take a break during your refractory period, and sip your drink you sat on the endtable.

 

[Patrick124]

with my ex i usually took longer to go off than her, but thats largely in part to the fact that i chronically masturbated when we started dating. towards the end she would outlast me because more sex=less masturbating, but that kinda made her happy[i didnt get off the first 15-20 or so times we fvcked. she got pissed lol].
but when i finish, i call it quits usually. She claimed "if you tell me when you're abotu to go, i can make myself get off at the same time as you." but i never told her when.
if you have a fear of not lasting long, i suggest masturbating daily, and wearing condoms[properly].
if you do that...you'll probably never orgasm. hahah.

 

[Bible_Belt]

If you know what you're doing, the chick always cums first. Heck, if you really want to play it safe, make her *** before you even put it in.

Well-said.


you cant possibly both orgasm at the same time.

Actually it is no big deal. It's easy to finish with her or just after if she is really getting into it.

 

[flyinshark]

Yeah, ideally you should not cvm before she does. To do this, when you feel your orgasm is close, slow down your thrusts or change positions. Take your time during the change, to let your state of arrousal drop a bit, and then you'll be able to continue again for a little while.

If you do things right, she will eventually reach orgasm. Knowing if/when she reaches it is a topic for another thread, but let's assume you do know when it happens. Now you can let yourself go as well. Go crazy and you will reach orgasm quickly and almost in the same time as her, since her orgasm lasts longer than yours.

I think that if a woman has had at least 1 orgasm with you then she will be satisfied. So it doesnt really matter when you have yours, as long as she has had hers. And the more orgasms you give her, the more sex she'll wanna have with u in the future.

 

[The Truth]

I can see how a 16 year old might think this. Its wrong btw.

If you know what you're doing, the chick always cums first. Heck, if you really want to play it safe, make her *** before you even put it in.

And there's no such thing as a girl that cant ***. There's only such thing as a man who cant make her ***. OK, I can except there might be some rare exceptions to this (I do so in theory because i havent personally ran across this problem yet), but most of them work fine when you push the right buttons and stroke their mind just right.

If you try to keep it going after you've cummed, you just look like a despirate loser who didn't do the job right. Better to just get off her, and try harder next time.

To answer your question, you end sex when you ***. Take a break during your refractory period, and sip your drink you sat on the endtable.

I second all of this.

Just to clear something up... Unlike men who need to stop and rest after they cvm, women can keep going after they orgasm and can have several orgasms in one session.

 

[Nighthawk]

I wipe my d*ck on the curtains and call a cab.

 

[CLOONEY]

I can see how a 16 year old might think this. Its wrong btw.

I can see how a 20 year old might think its wrong, which is wrong btw.

Totally depends on the girl.

I can safely say I know what Im doing, after practicing for years and years on multiple different woman, some more than others, and after reading books on the topic.

Some girls find it very hard to get off, no matter what you do, whilst some will just go insane and *** multiple times as quick as you can get to the ****.

As for the question, I usually kiss them a few times, roll off, go and clean up and go to sleep.

 

[Ace of Flames]

You dismount. Backflip like a monkey and stick the landing at the foot of the bed, and say "Ta da!".

If anyone knows where that came from they get a cookie.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

In my past I've had women get off on me in 4 or 5 strokes after putting it in and I've had chicks that have damn near pulled my hair out by the roots when they got off after going down on them. I've also experienced the "challenge girls" for whom getting off is like a wrestling match and I've worried about them blowing an aneurism before they came, and I've had the "climbers" who work their legs up and down you like a monkey climbing a palm tree.

It's all part of learning what works for a woman. Some women have a natural rythm (the good dancers) and others are kind of 'herky jerky'. When I was in my rock star 20's I rarely worried about getting a girl off and even then only after I did first, because I have high libido and my down time has always been minimal (if at all sometimes). Once I started getting women off first I noticed that their drive actually declined after their first orgasm and their performance lacked when it was my 'turn', but I found that they stuck around me quite a bit more. After I got married I discovered that you can actually get off simultaneously (or pretty damn close), but this comes after experiencing each others rythms. Though she's never stated it, my wife likes the downstroke and requires a good amount of pressure on her ****oris when I'm on the pullback. I figured this out from her getting off while riding me.

Few women actually get anything out of a doggystyle position since there's practically no stimulation to her ****, so when you're doing it understand it's for your enjoyment and she's into you getting off that way. Don't use your fingers to get her off unless that's the specialty of the night. If your girl masturbates, she's accustomed to this and, excluding the novelty of having some guy do it for her for a time or two, you'll probably not get her rythm correct and wont be doing anything she can't do already.

Remember, most girls know how to get off, they just don't know how to get off with you until you put the time in. I had sex for the first time when I was 17 and I've been with close to 50 women in my life, but when you finally find the girl willing to spread her legs for you it's more about figuring out what to do for yourself than what's going to work for her. Not until you're into your mid 20's or even 30's do you pay attention to technique.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Also, you want a chick to have her hair tied back in pig tails or a ponytail when you take them doggystyle so you can have one hand free to slap 'em on the ass and wave to the crowd.

 

[NewMan]

it's all about understanding your woman and communicating with her.

Get to know what she likes and what turns her on.

My current GF c u m s easily. so she can get on top of me and nut in a couple of minutes - and it's really easy for me to make her nut several times. Then I just go to work, nut myself and roll off - into the bathroom to clean up.

it varies from woman to woman.

But to answer your question, you make her nut, you nut then you roll off.

You do that, you'll be invited back for more.

 

[Vulpine]

I'm not going to bother with the "did she come" business. I've been paying attention to technique since I was 15: the first chick I was ever with came before I did.

Anyway...

I prefer to collapse on the chick after nutting and smash her with my weight for, oh, like two minutes or so.

Then:
1. I get up
2. go to the bathroom
3. run the water to get it hot
4. take a squirt while water is running
5. flush the jimmy and the wrapper
6. grab the chicks face towel/wash cloth
7. get it wet with the now hot water
8. scrub up my junk/azz
9. rinse the wash cloth out
10. return to bedroom with wash cloth
11. nonchalantly toss wash cloth at chick's crotch for her to use
12. crawl back in bed, "goodnight" and fall asleep

Like clockwork.

For remote/off location sex:

1. I get up/leave scene/turn around
2. get out of car/go behind a bush/find a bathroom/turn around/etc.
3. take off my undershirt/wife-beater/acquire spunk rag
4. take a squirt
5. discretely discard the jimmy and the wrapper
6. scrub up my junk with undershirt/spunk rag
7. return to the scene
8. offer undershirt/spunk rag for chick to use
9. store dirty laundry/dispose of spunk rag
10. go about whatever appropriate activity


Taking a p!ss directly after spuzzing is good hygeine. It cleanses the urethra and prevents urinary infections (and other nastiness as well). Urge a woman to get up and p!ss, too: all that ramming shoves all sorts of junk back up in her urethra. You don't want her having problems with her plumbing - if she gets infections and such, you aren't getting any more sexin' until she's right again.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Taking a p!ss directly after spuzzing is good hygeine. It cleanses the urethra and prevents urinary infections (and other nastiness as well).

Here, here. I completely agree. I'm an after sex pisser too.

 

[mpimpin]

Sup. ive been wondering how you guys end sex with a girl? .

With a smile

 

[OBSYDYN]

When I get her to orgasm, I finish it off by kissing.

Regarding pissing after sex, that is a smart idea. My ex's best friend got a urinary tract infection because she failed to piss after sex.

 

[Warboss Alex]

If you know what you're doing, the chick always cums first.

ain't that the truth ..

 

[djbr]

Also, you want a chick to have her hair tied back in pig tails or a ponytail when you take them doggystyle so you can have one hand free to slap 'em on the ass and wave to the crowd.

I love this forum, LOL.