How do you deal with verbal disrespect, e.g. a girl says "f*ck you!"

[The_Reaper]

I know one girl who likes to pull that kind of crap on me, a lot of the time when I'm talking to her on MSN, she might get annoyed at me for being indifferent or slightly sarcastic or not kissing her ass. by the way she has a crush on me for a long time, I LJBF'd her (made her a friend rather than GF)

She got some AFC girlie-man to talk to me on MSN today and he was being really gay and insulting (I'm your mother, spank me, I bet you love the c*ck, i'm so hot) and after all that crap and when he put the girl back on, she started talking to me about some crap, as if nothing happened. I told her i had plans to go to france, she replied "good 4 u". *****. Later she made some jokey threat, to which I replied:

Reaper: yawn
Girl: wat ever, piss off
Reaper: yawn
Girl: (gives finger)
Reaper: where's your girlie-man friend now?
Girl: piss off, can u not read
Reaper: no prob
Girl: your my hero jamie
Reaper: haha (thinking, what the f*ck? Jamie is the gayish friend)
Girl: wat?
Reaper: lol at u
Girl: why?
Reaper: sigh, never mind, im a bit busy so later
Girl: well f*ck u

That's just typical, and not a very good example but u get the idea. How to reply?

 

[Cod3r]

Why are you speaking on MSN to some gay fag ??

Also don't entertain 'disrespect' by females, ignore her and walk away, unless of course she puts her hands on you and then well its time to grip her up and shake shake shake...


-Cod3r

 

[BacardiGuy]

Don't. Hit ignore.

 

[superchristx]

How old are we in this situation? I assume you are under 18 in my response, sorry if I'm wrong.

Maybe there wasn't another guy there, maybe she just said there was or maybe it was her girlfriend.

Anyway she is playing with you, trying to goad you and get you thinking about her, and treating you the way you treat her to see how you react. And apparently it's working because you're posting on an internet forum about her. If you bring it up again or got worked up with the "gay fag" over the internet, or anything she knows she has played you. In her mind that gives her some kind of power or superiority.

Anyway it seems like you were being kinda cold and manipulative yourself, pulling her in while using your words to keep her in the friend zone. What do you call a person who can dish out tough behavior but cant take it?

 

[LaoDa]

dude what a bytch
ignore her cut her out-- thats not cool...

 

[MisterNigma]

Why do you bother? Clearly she has some hostility towards you. Probably because you didn't respond to her overtures. (Just a guess, but she probably thinks that, you think that she is not good enough for you. Since you killed her self-esteem, she has to negate your value to her, so she treats you like sh*t when she can.)

Unless you have to talk to her, online, on the phone or in person, just cut off all lines of communication.