How do you deal with a woman who spin plates?

[DonJuanjr]

I would think pretty low of her and also assume I wasn't that high on the totem pole if she was outright telling me about the guys she was currently juggling.

My former fwb and I had a "no drama, fun only" understanding. This led her to confiding in me without fear of consequences. Of the 4 guys that she was spinning, one of them she would marry if he asked her. Even though he was married, her heart belonged to him. She told him about us other plates as well.

What's funny is that I was the only one who wasn't jealous about anything. Even the married dude didn't like hearing about the other plates.

 

[HaleyBaron]

To add, I see enough women at parties looking at their phones chatting to a guy who is ready to rail her senseless. I know girls who wait for the one guy to contact her, then she leaves the bar or party to go **** him. I've been one of those guys.

 

[Steno]

It seems to be at the opposite end of the far spectrum to natural plate spinning. They blantantly date and have no qualms in hiding how they are plate spinning.

Almost like an alpha female if it makes sense.

Have you guys encountered such women and how do you usually handle them?

Or do you just walk away from all the trouble.

GIGANTIC RED FLAG. Emotionally mature women do not verbalize that, she is playing games. Women who engage in that type of sneaky behavior are generally very discrete. If she is bringing it up is because she is childish and is trying to play power games to get you to chase her. Either that or she is thinks you are seeing other women and is trying to bait you into admitting it so that she has an excuse to ghost you.

I would just stop seeing her, she is going to bring a lot of drama and headaches.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I guess I should have clarified it a bit more.

Yes I understand most women naturally spin plates in the sense of having orbiters around them and the dates/attention they enjoy. How the dating market is always skewered where even an ordinary woman has tons of choices/interaction with men.

But I've actually met a couple of women this year, generally really really hot women, who seem very "red-pilled" in their own way.

They are serial daters, actively spin plates and have "a don't care if you do" sort of attitude. Seem very red pill woke.

It seems to be at the opposite end of the far spectrum to natural plate spinning. They blantantly date and have no qualms in hiding how they are plate spinning.

Almost like an alpha female if it makes sense.

Have you guys encountered such women and how do you usually handle them?

Or do you just walk away from all the trouble.

If they seem like a serial dater, you have to watch out for them overly using cliches when talking/texting to you, and lack of genuine willingness to escalate (sexting or kino)

If they seem like they're doing the "bare minimum" to express interest, or you feel like you're being "processed", give them a very short leash.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

How about guys just own up to the idea that you may not be her best option. By knowing so your game gets better.
Besides she is not your property and it is not the 1600's any more

I think the point is more knowing you're not her best option when she's acting like you *are*

 

[HaleyBaron]

Besides she is not your property

Are you sure? My girl [one of them] was screaming the other night that her p*ssy was mines.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Are you sure? My girl [one of them] was screaming the other night that her p*ssy was mines.

That was a random flex...

 

[HaleyBaron]

That was a random flex...

I can't be slipping on here.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I keep seeing people say “alpha female”, there is no such thing as a stand-alone. In nature a female is alpha only because she is bearing offspring for the alpha male.

therefore the is no such thing as non-committed alph female.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Hey brothers.

We always talk about spinning plates. It gives us the leverage, composure and necessary attitude to survive and thrive in today's dating market.

But what about a reverse situation, where you encounter a girl who is (naturally/intentionally) spinning lots of plates?

I've met a couple of girls like this, they often throw me off because they behave very differently from ordinary ones.

Do you personally dabble in such women? Do you walk away?

How do you personally deal with such a woman?

Some of the loudest people in the space don't get girls. They don't pull. They bash marriage and play house.

Vet your gurus. Pic or didn't happen. Sounds made up @ 99%. Receipts @gurus or insert troll meme.

The game doesn't stop changeling. Exercise options.

Said girl is pump and dump material. She's stoned in the middle east.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Are you sure? My girl [one of them] was screaming the other night that her p*ssy was mines.

Haha last night had this happen with one of mine, ostensibly the hottest one and the one that’s got so many skeletons in the closet is the size of a master suite now. Whatevs as is said.

 

[HaleyBaron]

She get your name right? You werent the first son.

Saying my name during sex is corny to me.

 

[Barrister]

I guess I should have clarified it a bit more.

Yes I understand most women naturally spin plates in the sense of having orbiters around them and the dates/attention they enjoy. How the dating market is always skewered where even an ordinary woman has tons of choices/interaction with men.

But I've actually met a couple of women this year, generally really really hot women, who seem very "red-pilled" in their own way.

They are serial daters, actively spin plates and have "a don't care if you do" sort of attitude. Seem very red pill woke.

It seems to be at the opposite end of the far spectrum to natural plate spinning. They blantantly date and have no qualms in hiding how they are plate spinning.

Almost like an alpha female if it makes sense.

Have you guys encountered such women and how do you usually handle them?

Or do you just walk away from all the trouble.

There is no such thing as a "red pilled" woman. Some women, like the ones on this site, are what we describe as red-pill aware, but it is simply not something a woman can be. It is a mind state only a man can achieve through his experiences in dealing with women and finally understanding their nature and being able to know how they (almost) uniformly react in certain situations (hence the entire term of taking the "red pill").

A woman who simply sleeps with multitude of different men is not red-pilled; she is just a slvt and validation wh0re who gets off on a lot of attention from a lot of different men. There is nothing enviable about this type of behavior out of a woman.

To answer your questions, yes I have encountered them and you are correct that the best thing to do is simply walk away. You will probably expose them as just being like any other woman when you attempt to walk away. They will wonder how you can do that and begin a soft pursuit. It is like clockwork.