How do you break attachment...?

[Roy]

Guys im having trouble breaking the attachment i have for my ex (recently broke up), its driving me crazy. Every thing i do shes on my head! I even look at my phone every now and then to see if shes sent me a text. (weird i know)

It'll probably take me a good 6 months to get over her, i just want to speed up the process. I hate that afc feeling inside of me right now.

What do i need to do?

 

[Nivre]

-You need to meet some new people.
-Keep things that reminds you of her away from sight.
-Get involved in some activity.
-Get breathless in a workout. (Tends to clear your mind.)

 

[Roy]

Thanks Nivre ... Good thing is that im starting uni soon

 

[Nivre]

Sure. yeah i'm pretty sure you'll meet some new chicks and heh and it'll repeat all over again.

Friends on the other hand helps you forget about her too. Just have fun and slowly. you'll move on.

 

[Roy]

Anymore advice guys...?

 

[daring wraith]

Anymore advice guys...?

Nivre said it. Tou have to realise there are more women out, go to a place where you'll guaranteed to see and hopefully meet other attractive ladies.

Something i use on lap dancers:

Say you just got out of a long term relationship, feeling a bit hurt.... when they ask why you came into said club.... just be vague and that you sorta wandered in. Then start discussing feelings, emotional security, her past relationships and see where it goes.

 

[Ronnie Poleman]

Yeah couldn't be easier than what the guys above me said. However if you're finding it tough, one thing I like doing is removing/deleting any reminder of an ex, whether it be photos of her, her number saved on your phone, or a piece of clothing left at your place. That does help you break attachment, as does reminders that a real Don Juan gets on with life, and has too much on his plate to mope over an ex. You're starting uni now, a completely different ball game to high school, you'll be doing a course you're interested in hopefully, getting involved in clubs and societies, sports etc, and meeting new people. Focus on the change of environment and people and the past will remain where it belongs - behind you.