Read the bible, read a couple of books on how to be an alpha male. If you wnt videos, download David D's "On Being A Man" program and if you want a little more, get his "Deep Inner Game" program and watch The Count of Monte Cristo. Being popular is not all about knowing a lot of people; it's about people respecting you. There's this one guy that everyone knows at my school, but he's really really weird and people sometimes step on him.