How do you become a FUN guy?

[battle_sheep]

We all know chicks go crazy over dudes who have fun, so how do you do it besides having a killer sense of humor?

 

[trickz]

Have stories.

"Hey... let me tell you something crazy that happened the other night... blah blah blah"

"hahah no way"

"yeh i couldn't believe it either"




You get the idea. Tease her aswel, be spontaneous - being fun isn't difficult... make sure you are eating correctly and keep your energy levels topped up with red bull

 

[HeMan]

u need to relaxx...

it needs to come naturally... trying to be fun is not like reading a manual....

just go out and enjoy your life,... do things u enjoy doing and hang out with fun people..

also tease girls and make them smile...

if certain girls still dont find u fun after that then u shouldnt being pursuing them anyway (unless they have amazing tits)... find a girl who likes u for who u are..

 

[Freeman]

We all know chicks go crazy over dudes who have fun, so how do you do it besides having a killer sense of humor?

simple-dont take yourself so seriously man-youre probably one of those uptight dudes right? loosen up-watch something funny-laugh-this will help get you loose-I think we all can be potential comedians if we can just let go-

 

[Bible_Belt]

You do the things that make you happy.

 

[Duffdog]

You do the things that make you happy.

bingo! Just make sure that the things that make you happy involve females in some way. Solitaire probably won't get lots of oohs and aaahs.

 

[Freeman]

bingo! Just make sure that the things that make you happy involve females in some way. Solitaire probably won't get lots of oohs and aaahs.

thats cool,BUT, I would add that he needs to watch some FUNNY stand up comedians-the reason why the richard pryors, george carlins, robin williams, etc., is so funny because they'd bit$h about their problems with themselves and the world around them EFFECTIVELY-if you can effectivley present your world concerns in a light, funny way then youre good-but one thing about being funny you must know that it does involve being an ******* a bit and you may not be ready for all that because you all worried about what she thinks of you-you will start being funny by stop givin a sh$t so much about what a girl or people for that matter think about you.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Most of the answers above were solid. Being in the moment helps. Also Doing things that makes you happy aka SELF AMUSING is another great way.

So , you have to focus on the NOW , on the moment and let go all the voices inside your had and say FUCK OFF to all the external things and focus on doing things that amuse you.

 

[Chronocidal]

bingo! Just make sure that the things that make you happy involve females in some way.

What if they don't?

 

[FairShake]

Also Doing things that makes you happy aka SELF AMUSING is another great way.

Hmmm, I might disagree with you there.

Granted, I'm a weird dude, but one thing that I LOVE doing is teasing people. Above and beyond "gentle teasing." If you do things only for self-amusement rather than the amusement of others you might find yourself by yourself. Keep in mind that relating needs two.

 

[slaog]

To become a fun guy see the world as a fun place.


Look out for the fun things in all situations. All comedians do that. Even at funerals they'll see things in a funny way. Chrildren do it too. They'll laugh at little things you wouldn't see.

 

[kingman]

Do this : Listen to all the stupid things people say and do ( and the stupid things you say and do yourself) And repeat the stupid things out loud to your surroundings and laugh/smile about it.

But remember, don`t be the funny guy who takes all the **** all the time. ( Don`t be the clown) Make fun of other people to so that you don`t become this person.

And it is not attractive to make too much fun of yourself. ( This is called low self esteem in other peoples eyes)


Example: The girl are saying to her lady friend: The guy has come to pick us up.

X : Deam, your friend are nice, she are finding a boy for you. ( X laughing)

The girls looks shooked a moment and after a few seconds they start to laugh.

X: One d i c k are to little for you, you need one in each of your holes, ore you never become happy.

The girls are laughing and joking about it. ROFL

The most important mindset you have to have is : Always have fun

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Hmmm, I might disagree with you there.

Granted, I'm a weird dude, but one thing that I LOVE doing is teasing people. Above and beyond "gentle teasing." If you do things only for self-amusement rather than the amusement of others you might find yourself by yourself. Keep in mind that relating needs two.

Man when self amusing , if you have a strong frame, you can draw people on your reality.When self amusing , dont be the pvssy that does something than looks around for others reactions. That wont work. Instead , keep doing it and until they are drawn to your reality.

 

[Daydream Engineer]

Don't worry about the outcome. The best way is to "give them" and experience with you, and just let loose and let your kalamazo out. Say something outrageous and something they don't here every day, the more creative the better, For example:

(smiling and laughing)

Oh my god, you necklace just blinded me when the sunlight hit it. Why does it have to be so shiny, man you must be a cool girl, but still ouch.

The secret is too be in a naughty state, or you wont be in the zone muahahahaha!

 

[LonesomeLoser]

What about a guy who has more serious intentions in his dealings with women, such as a lifelong committed relationship? Life isn't one big party. I'm 35, fun is for young people although even when I was young myself, things that others seemed to find "fun" didn't interest me. As far as having stories to tell, I'll bet a lot of those "adventures" that you can laugh about now weren't so much fun when you were going through them. Not very safe anyway. If a guy is looking for a serious lifelong committed relationship, is he really supposed to present a "fun" image to women, when going out and partying and getting drunk and being irresponsible isn't the kind of life he wants for himself and a future wife? When women expect a guy to be "fun" during dating, do they not understand that when the dating phase is over its time to get down to the business of real life (going to work, paying bills, making prudent life decisions)? To me it is just living in a world of pretend to say "we're just going to have a good time and have fun", like that's going to continue after the dating phase is over.

 

[CaptainJ]

To be a funny guy, simply do and say things that make you laugh, rather than doing things for other's amusement. I find my funniest jokes are ones where I can hardly contain myself from laughing when I say them, and everyone else bursts out laughing because of the fun energy I am creating, even if the joke wasn't that good.
If I said the funniest joke, yet didn't laugh myself and just looked at other people waiting for them to laugh, then it becomes unfunny.

 

[mrRuckus]

Have stories.

"Hey... let me tell you something crazy that happened the other night... blah blah blah"

"hahah no way"

"yeh i couldn't believe it either"

Which is about 99% of conversations with women. They sit there and go "haha" while you entertain them like a bozo.

Screw that; there's no quid pro quo in conversation with women.