How do you ask a girl to "go with you?"

[JCKey618]

How do people know when they are officially going out with someone. If you like a girl and she likes you, what's the best way to make it official? Going up to her and just saying "wanna go with me?" sounds dumb and awkward to me.

 

[trajhenkhet]

Don't. It feels awkward for a reason...

 

[JCKey618]

Wel, how to make it official.

 

[trajhenkhet]

She'll do it for you if she wants it. Now when it does come up ask yourself is it something you really want?

 

[JCKey618]

She's supposed to ask me? That doesn't sound right....

 

[bugsquish]

Official as in m...m..... mon... monoga..... ugh I can't say it.

 

[hardwork]

You're thinking about it backwards

Originally posted by JCKey618
She's supposed to ask me? That doesn't sound right....

Oh yeah? And how much of this "Don Juan" stuff sounded "right" when we were breaking out of our shells? Sure it made sense, but it didn't sound "right" because it wasn't the way we were used to doing things.

That said, the word you were looking for, bugsquish, was "monomagous"

 

[trajhenkhet]

The idea here is that she is so attracted to you she wants a relationship with you. So she'll ask for one. Trust me on this, ladies get freaked out if you push these kinds of things. They'll get pressured, scared, or fall for some other dude who isn't as pushy. Don Juans don't take her heart, she gives it to him. Flirt and date to the hilt by all means.

 

[JCKey618]

But everyone else if hooking up quick down here and we only have a month left....

 

[trajhenkhet]

Flirt relentlessly until she stops you. If she stops you Your going to have to read her body language and context of her messages appriopriately at that point.

 

[Mr. Delicious]

you've got three threads about this girl. First of all you need to kiss her before you can think about an exclusive relationship. I say keep flirting kissing etc. until she asks you. Why do you want an exclusive relationship when you only have a month left of camp? That doesnt make sense to me. If she lives in your hometown or near you then its no big deal and you can pick things up where you left off at home.

 

[bugsquish]

I know monogamous lol. It was a joke, as in "the concept is so disturbing to me that I can't bring myself to say it".

 

[Dee-Zy]

When she will ask to be exclusive to be with you.

Until then you are both free to fukk other people.

Couldn't be more simple then that.