How do ugly people get laid

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Ok I am hard on myslef. I dotn like that way i look as I know there are much better looking people. And I am jealous in I think its easy for them to get sex.

However, when I look around say in the city or town. I am probably better looking and in better shape than 90% men I see. So many are just ugly or fat or real manly looking.

I have a boyish face and am slim.

Anyawy I never get laid because I dont like socialising and dont speak to girls or know how to speak to them.

Now if I were more social I could get laid. So say I am uglier than most clubbing type hot guys but better looking than average dude on the street or in the supermarket. I could prob get laid with 5-7/10 and even 8-9 if dress well and had perosnailty, I have the education, car and money.

Ok but what about fat guys, bald guys, ugly men. How do they get laid?

I mean I dont have a clue how to get laid and it seems Im pretty hot on the whole scale off things.

Well I should be more worried about myself than other dudes but still if these guys are getting laid then what about me? SurelY I should too?

If I cant get sex then these dudes must never get sex? But its moreso to do with being in situation and social than just looks to get sex often that is?

 

[LittleBigOne]

You are a bit weird to me,

but oke. Use Gunwitch. You can find it on this site.

In short:

1. go out on your own
2. Set yourself next to a woman who is alone (or you think she is alone)
3. Talk with her
4. After a while when the conversation goes well ask her ´wanne have a drink at my place?
5. When she says yes its´s a go. Have one more drink with her in the place where you are with here and go.

In my own experiences it went this way a few times, it works but dont´t think that hot young girls will do this. Look for ther bit older ´lonely´ wolves. Theu want you.

 

[Scars]

Well you already admitted to yourself and the rest of us you're already a bit shy and socially awkward. There's one thing to start improving. Another is your lack of confidence, because you completely wreak of insecurity. If you have all these things that you say you, (the nice car, education, and money) use them to your advantage. Just of course don't get caught up with a gold digger and let things become unbalanced. Woman are attracted to money and power, and sexual prowess. You already have two of the three. Maybe you just aren't accentuating them enough. A quick make-over in style and clothes can fix that though. But more importantly, you need to make-over your attitude if you know what I mean. But to answer your question: Money usually tends to get ugly men laid. Money, power, and fame.

Just being real with you.

-Scars

 

[goldengoose]

They dont. Only if they pay

 

[JPlaya]

if you're white, go for asian chicks

 

[irocknike23]

a lot of ugly dudes get laid because girls like them for whats on the inside kinda thing(good listeners, that crap that girls like), basically something most guys are not.


and if your honestly ugly just lift.
girls cant resist muscles

 

[Alle_Gory]

I dotn like that way i look as I know there are much better looking people.

No sh*t. This is true for everyone. There will always be someone smarter, prettier, stronger... etc.

However, when I look around say in the city or town. I am probably better looking and in better shape than 90% men I see. So many are just ugly or fat or real manly looking.

That's just your ego talking. You want to think you're special and better but the truth is that the real special and superior people don't look at themselves that way. They continually improve themselves both mentally and physically because they look in the mirror and see what they're lacking.

A smart individual would realize how stupid he really is and continue to work on himself whereas a fool thinks he's the smartest man on earth.

I never get laid because I dont like socialising and dont speak

You're "socializing" right now. This is a forum and you're discussing your thoughts with the rest of us. Why do you avoid social interaction in real life and instead spend so much time here? Your pitiful threads are looking for attention because you're starving yourself of real human interaction in your daily life.

Why do you look down on people? Why do you feel they are so worthless and you so superior?

Once you determine what your problem is and what led you to it, then you can go about fixing it and joining the rest of the world. Sure there's lots of idiots around, but there's lots of people that genuinely add value to others and society in general and they are wonderful to be around and have around.

If I cant get sex then these dudes must never get sex?

Doesn't work that way.

 

[escaleraroyal]

there is something called confidence. Not sure if u know about this term.

 

[Jitterbug]

Alcohol, helping ugly people get laid since 491 BC.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Well regardless off my appeareance sex is hard to get adn I dont even know if enjoyable beacuse I have aspergers

1. I dislike eye contact.

2. I dislike touch in general, unless its a hot girl lol

3. I dilike talking and conversing

4. I dislike the social aspect pre and post sex

5. I dislike socailising and being around people


This is why hookers can be better I can just sex and forget all social aspects and eye contact and act weird and it dont matter.

 

[SamTheHobit]

lots and lots of alcohol.

 

[Maxtro]

Well regardless off my appeareance sex is hard to get adn I dont even know if enjoyable beacuse I have aspergers

1. I dislike eye contact.

2. I dislike touch in general, unless its a hot girl lol

3. I dilike talking and conversing

4. I dislike the social aspect pre and post sex

5. I dislike socailising and being around people


This is why hookers can be better I can just sex and forget all social aspects and eye contact and act weird and it dont matter.

From your posts it seems like you get/got a decent amount of sex.

I enjoy all those things and I don't get sex, ever. You probably are much better looking than I am.

BTW, how does alcohol actually get people laid?

 

[Alle_Gory]

This is why hookers can be better I can just sex and forget all social aspects and eye contact and act weird and it dont matter.

Then go have sex with a bunch of hookers. What's with all this self-pitying threads you make? Nobody cares to listen to your whining. Reported for trolling.

BTW, how does alcohol actually get people laid?

Lowers inhibitions, you're more likely to act on impulse and feeling rather than common sense. It screws up some of the higher brain functions temporarily.

 

[Maxtro]

Lowers inhibitions, you're more likely to act on impulse and feeling rather than common sense. It screws up some of the higher brain functions temporarily.

I've heard that, but I've never actually noticed myself getting braver or acting more on impulse when I've been drunk. Alcohol just seems to slow me down. But every fear and insecurity is still there.

The other explanation is that maybe alcohol makes women horny. I've never had a girl come on to me at a party or seen anything out of the ordinary so I don't know.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

I've heard that, but I've never actually noticed myself getting braver or acting more on impulse when I've been drunk. Alcohol just seems to slow me down. But every fear and insecurity is still there.

The other explanation is that maybe alcohol makes women horny. I've never had a girl come on to me at a party or seen anything out of the ordinary so I don't know.

I was abroad and on holiday and as soon as you got these girls drunk they were practicall all over you lmao. They would snog you and cuddle you and you coudl put your hands in their pants and do other stuff and they would grab your junk lol, it was fantastic!! (as borat woudl say lol) Drunk girls are so so so easy. And im telling you this as a guy who never goes out much and even i see this.

Also, rememebr its bad for girls to be slutty and forward so no matter how horny a girl is she will never show it unlike guys who can freely brag about their hardons etc...and act macho and perverted.

So, when a girl gets drunk she has less of those restrictions that apply when sober.

plus girl on holiday+ drunk= slut.

 

[Mike32ct]

The other explanation is that maybe alcohol makes women horny. I've never had a girl come on to me at a party or seen anything out of the ordinary so I don't know.

The "Beer Goggles" effect happens more to MEN than women. We can "drink 'till she's pretty lol.". But I've NEVER heard a female say, "I drank too much and woke up with this UGLY guy lol.". At most, the alcohol will lower her inhibitions and make her more frisky with a guy she is ALREADY (at least somewhat) attracted to.

 

[Maxtro]

Ah, so the past couple posts cleared some things up.

A woman has to be attracted to you before she'll sleep with you. It doesn't matter if she's drunk or not. All the alcohol does is kind of give her the permission to do what she really wants to do.

 

[Mike32ct]

Ah, so the past couple posts cleared some things up.

A woman has to be attracted to you before she'll sleep with you. It doesn't matter if she's drunk or not. All the alcohol does is kind of give her the permission to do what she really wants to do.

You got it bud

Even at a bar or club, I've seen some EXTREMELY drunk girls still rejecting guy after guy. IMO, alcohol has a fairly minimal effect on a girl's standards. Drunk or sober, attraction is essential.

 

[Maxtro]

Which now begs, the question; how does alcohol help people get laid?

Would that mean that a woman was already attracted to the guy, and the alcohol just pushed her over the edge? Heh, seems like it just lets her fall off the edge, backwards swan-dive style.

Hmm, so then another way to look at it, is as a sort of truth serum. Only in this case, the woman was lying to herself about not wanting to get physical. So a no, might not really be an honest no until she's had a little. That's something for me to think about.

 

[Mike32ct]

Which now begs, the question; how does alcohol help people get laid?

Sorry for the confusion. I'll try again.

For men, alcohol can lower the guy's standards and his inhibitions.

For women, however, I would argue that her standards (i.e. type of men she's attracted to) don't change much. Alcohol lowers her inhibitions and makes her more LIKELY to hook up with a guy that she ALREADY finds attractive (even if she were sober).

HB: "I got drunk at a party and hooked up with Steve."

Translation: "I've always had a bit of a crush on Steve and secretly wanted him, but the alcohol lowered my inhibitions and gave me a good 'excuse' to do him."

HB: "I met this guy at a bar and went home with him."

Translation: "I'm not normally into the one night stand thing, but he was hot and I was drunk, so it just FELT right at the time."

So alcohol can make men LESS FUSSY and possibly more outgoing. For women, it helps to release their inner sl*t, but ONLY with a guy she is at least somewhat attracted to. It's NOT some magic potion that will make a HB10 go home with some ugly guy.

I hope that helps Max.


Would that mean that a woman was already attracted to the guy, and the alcohol just pushed her over the edge? Heh, seems like it just lets her fall off the edge, backwards swan-dive style.

Yes.

Hmm, so then another way to look at it, is as a sort of truth serum. Only in this case, the woman was lying to herself about not wanting to get physical.

Yeah I think that's fair to say.

So a no, might not really be an honest no until she's had a little. That's something for me to think about.

I mean can booze cause a girl that is marginally attracted to a guy to hook up with him? Yeah, possibly, but there has to be SOME attraction there already.

I hope that helps clear it up.