how do u turn your friend into your girlfriend?

The Juan and only

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slap her around the face with your penis.

ok, maybe don't do that, but seriously dude I'd say you shouldn't even try..once you've been placed in the "friends" category its mighty difficult to get out again.

sorry to be so negative but what you're asking to do isn't an easy task and its probably a much better idea to just next her..and save yourself a LOT of time and effort.

however, if you really can't do that and are desperate to try something then:

start flirting with her (making fun of her, teasing her etc)
start touching her more (not sexually - especially not at first)
don't listen to her problems with other guys/be her shoulder to cry on..etc

I'm sure some other guys on here can give you a few more pointers

good luck dude, you will need it.;)
 

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Well, they could be FRIENDS. It doesn't mean she put him in that ZONE.
 

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Originally posted by Zombie
Well, they could be FRIENDS. It doesn't mean she put him in that ZONE.
Thank you...


LOL @ some people trying to give advice based on their interpretation of the theory in the DJ Bible... looking through the threads the amount of bad advice is terrible...
 

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"Well, they could be FRIENDS. It doesn't mean she put him in that ZONE. "

True, however the tone of his post suggest she's not showing any romantic interest so I was assuming he'd been placed into that category. To be honest if you had any experience you'd know its quite likely...obviously he likes this girl and was initially going for more than a friendship..and yet they are still only friends. So either he's so shy he never showed ANY signs he liked her or she has preveted the relationship from moving on.

Ashley...shut up you fool. Once a woman has decided you're too much of a nice guy, its not worth the time or the effort to try and "fix things"..... and prove to her that you are actually a man, rather than her little friendly sissy boy who does everything for her.
 
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Look man, the best you could do it this:

1. Emphasis the fact that you have no romantic intrest in her....

2. When you are around her, be in company of other females and do not give her any attention.

but if you give her the slightest indication that you might be intrested... you're done for.



OR

Just grab her and kiss her, might just shock her into reconsidering you as a romantic intrest....

Not very likelyto work...
 

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When she's in a set, start using the M3. When you've worked through most of the M3, then she will realise that you are better than anyone else she could be with, and then she will be your girlfriend.

Make sure you know the rules of the game if you want to play it properly.
 
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