how do i separate myself from all the other guys?

[duke104]

i met this girl and got her number last week. shes without a doubt one of the best looking girls around in the area i live in. from what i heard guys are always texting her and kissing her ass, telling her how pretty she is and whatnot. what can i do to separate myself from all these guys? i know the obvious answer would be to not kiss her ass, but how can I still show her im interested?

 

[zekko]

Ah, there's a classic dilemna. How do you get the attention of that girl that all the guys want?
It's funny because every time I hear a pickup guru talk about this, he just hangs around her, doesn't kiss her ass, and suddenly she's all over him. Lol. This can work, but it's no sure thing.

Supposedly this works because the girl is so used to getting male attention. Then she sees you not giving it to her and she wonders what is wrong and starts seeking validation from you. Problem is, once she gets it, she has what she wants. Keeping the interest of a girl with that many options is tricky.

The trick is engaging her without kissing her ass. I hate to get all generic here, but teasing, kino, C&F, remembering that you are the prize, those are probably your best shots.

In this day and age with the internet and "game" becoming more mainstream, I foresee a future where it will be harder and harder to set yourself apart, because everyone is going to know all the tricks. So everyone is going to be going up to her touching her, and laying on the C&F. You ever see some guy when it is obvious he is running this type of game? Ugh.

 

[Jonblood]

Definitely this^^

I'm in the same exact scenario man, to the T...Well, not exactly. I hooked up with her last weekend at a party and at her house after knowing her for a year and only getting rejected by her and having some not so great situations.(bad i know) Always has guys orbiting her and texting her. So difficult to not blend in like the other hook ups, she may or may not do a lot of those.

i've noticed that the really hot girls just don't settle, and that's the bottom line. They always think there's something better out there when they're meeting so many guys who are trying to impress them.

I didn't mean to hijack, i'm looking for the same exact advice as this dude.

 

[Trader]

i met this girl and got her number last week. shes without a doubt one of the best looking girls around in the area i live in. from what i heard guys are always texting her and kissing her ass, telling her how pretty she is and whatnot. what can i do to separate myself from all these guys? i know the obvious answer would be to not kiss her ass, but how can I still show her im interested?

To separate yourself from other guys, man up. It is a long and arduous process but in the long run, your masculine excellences will shine and the boys in the background will fade.

Man the hell up.

 

[Legendary_Unicorn]

what do you want from this girl? Are you planning on dating her, just ****ing her?

If you do actually have an interest in her maybe get to know her a bit more... I like it when guys approach me not w/ a compliment but an actual interest in something I like. (I play my DS on the subway a lot... so a good conversation about RPG's or something would be a welcome change from just some guy who only tells a girl whose attractive just that... I'm sure she already knows that... she wants to know that you value other things about her...)

 

[slaog]

Its easy to separate yourself these days because most people are sheep who do what everyone else does.

 

[Warrior74]

i met this girl and got her number last week. shes without a doubt one of the best looking girls around in the area i live in. from what i heard guys are always texting her and kissing her ass, telling her how pretty she is and whatnot. what can i do to separate myself from all these guys? i know the obvious answer would be to not kiss her ass, but how can I still show her im interested?

What? You already have shown your interested and so has she, you got her number. Just do what comes naturally, call her, ask her out, go do something fun.

If she goes, she's interested, if you keep getting excuses to go out, stop calling. She's already knows your interested, the game now is to see what your both made of. Evaluation and escalation are ya next steps, interest is already over with. Assume the sale. Always be closing.

Good luck.

 

[Hakuna]

A. Make sure you're fuking other girls
B. Flirt with her without kissing her ass (Push and Pull. Show her interest sometimes, but not consistently)
C. Make sure you yourself believe that you are different, more Alpha, and better than all the other guys. If YOU truly believe it, she will.