how do i make her not feel like a slut

[kickureface]

we're both jrs in hs. no sex or anything but when i try to do some stuff she kinda backs away. i know it's because she doesnt want to get viewed as a slut as she is a 3.9x student with tons of aps and stuff.
what can i do to change her outlook on this?
thanks

 

[DasaniWater]

You gotta make sure the mood is right...and make sure shes "hott" enough, dont go straight to it, i doubt u will have the time to make her anticipat long enough where she actaully wants to go further with you... but anyways, i would say stop trying to do any moves on her. if u do keep trying, and especially since she keeps backing out, she is obviously guilt tripping or a prun, lol, she will feel as if thats all you care about so just play it cool for a bit. maybe you can talk about something sexual with her, but i dunno, whenever i did with my gf she got pissed off..


also, if shes new to this, make sure uve been with her long enough that she TRUSTS you,....... how long u two been going out for?

 

[MetalFortress]

"but i dunno, whenever i did with my gf she got pissed off.."

That's cuz your gf is a b!tch. Most girls who are worth being around, will not.

 

[kev me723]

****y and funny. Turn roles around and make jokes about her wanting you/wanting it from you. Tease her by pushing her away, then pull her back in( with words not physically obviously) use kino, but not TOO sexually. Make her think you are going to try then you don't, you just back away. The mood will change and she won't be defensive anymore if you do these things. Then she will start wanting YOU instead of the other way around. It takes practice, but once you find your best way of doing it right, it's easy as sh*t.

 

[MrS]

Build it up, kid.
Get into it slow, don't rush to the shagging, go for touching, oral, etc. beforehand.

 

[DasaniWater]

Wow metal giving me advice from my advice. thats great.

No, actually it's because shes VERY INSECURE. What has this become some sort of contest? Following me around to High school forums and talking crap? Get a life.

 

[LikRetsam]

Shut up Dasani.

 

[RabbitMan]

****y and Funny, you have been reading too much of "Mick Jones" I think.
The easiest way to stop her feeling like a SLUT is simple, stop having sexual relations with her, she obviously doesn't want it, but she probably feels that she has to have sex to be accepted, it is a VERY SAD situation.

 

[Distant Light]

You have to lead, during the whole process of getting the lay you should be adjusting her to how you want her. For example where I live girls are real judgemental I mean you are considered a slut if you give head. (but most girls do it under the table) So what I like to do is while qualifying I'd drop some hits that I don't judge girls by what they do sexually. I'd say stuff like I like girls who are adventurous and who can give good head. If I'm doing palm reading I'd say this is your blowj0b line and you need work on it. (seen it on some PUA vid) If a girl is considered a slut by others I usually say positive things that i like about her. Like maybe saying "She must be having alot of fun behind close doors, able to bring out her real self and very adventurous...yep she is like my ex...(go into a semi sex story on how wild I used to be with my ex)

If you want more help read up on woodhaven's posts forgot which one but he talks about Intention maps, that was very helpful. by using Intention maps your basically grooming your girl to how you want her, is she your study buddy? or is she some girl who cooks for you? or do you just run through her and go home? etc.