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pgbiswas79 said:
They are still things i need 2 look at and i will surely use the advice frm u guys & this site to bag my woman. Thx
Hold on there kid - we are not advocating that you put a girl in a bag - that is a little extreme. no?? She may suffocate - then what good is she to you then!! :rolleyes:

I don't know about the customs in India but if you put a girl in a bag here that would be considered kidnapping!!!
 

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his new nickname is "Pretty Boy"
 

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when i said bag my woman i meant "get my woman".
rofl, leave the poor guy alone. :)

You're not bad looking. That being said, be glad you were born a male, where looks alone will not prevent you from getting girls. (If you're a girl and ugly, you're screwed). When it comes to looks, there are certain aspects you have control over, and certain aspects you don't. For example, you can't change your facial features and/or skin color or nationality, but you do have control over things like muscle mass and hairstyle. It looks like you've already gotten a "cool" hairstyle, which I think looks good on you.

I think the key for you is to really stand out somehow. For example, when going out or to a club, dress really nice. Gell your hair, sport jacket, button down shirt, etc...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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IMO you're below average, but my opinon really matters not


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It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Darklight said it all. Asking guys on an internet forum if they think you look hot will do nothing for you. Its just totally the wrong approach IMO.

And who said I was refering to the picture?
 

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The Juan and only said:
Asking guys on an internet forum if they think you look hot will do nothing for you. Its just totally the wrong approach IMO.
I totally agree.

- If they say you are ugly, you gonna feel bad.

- If they say you are good looking, you might get a little ego boost for the moment. But it doesn't change anything regarding women or anything else. You might even end up feeling depressed about how such a good looking guy like yourself can't get women...

So basically, either way, you lose, it's pointless. The only benefits would be to know how your peers view you, you know how the other guys would imagine the kind of chicks you could/would get/are getting. Which is almost irrelevent, except maybe for the superficial "social value"...

Like "he's good looking, he must be sleeping with hotties" or "he's ugly, he must be getting with ugly fatties or nobody".

What's the point?


However, since you sincerely asked the question, I will give you my answer. I'm not giving you a number, but I do believe that your face is below average. Sorry...
We can't see your body, so height and build are out of the equation.


For those who insinuated that Indian people are not good looking, let me tell you that one of the most beautiful yet educated and intelligent girls I've ever met in my life so far was an Indian girl.:up: Sure not the cliché "traditional" Indian girl, but a "true" Indian girl who grew up in India until high school (sure educated in private westernized schools, but located in India nonetheless) and came to the US for college.

And even for the guys, I don't want to sound gay, but one of the best looking guys in my major when I was in the States for my master's was an Indian. The fact that he was nice but also cool helps a lot too.:up:
 

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I still don't get why guys would want to seek validation from other guys:confused: I mean girls are really the ultimate deciders when push comes to shove, why bother asking a dude what he thinks of you. I mean it's not like you're going to be dating anyone of the same sex are you?:nervous:

Seriously, the girls who I've been seeing are very attractive and they think the same of me so why would I care about what some dude says? Obviously if they find me attractive then f*ck your thoughts on the subject.
 

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both of you guys are fine, read darklights post it is solid advice.

I can sense a high lvl of insecurity here, this is what i believe needs to be worked on not the looks factor. I can sense looks are an excuse when in reality it is the nature of esteem that is at play here, now is the time to grow this self esteem!

Work on approach, progress, challange what you think you know and what you mind is saying to you!

Open a few girls talk to them as this is the main subject here!
You maybe shot down, but know every man gets shot down, every man!
some more then others, if you want women, then simply apply and dont worry about what others think, try to challange these esteem issues.

Now if those pics where two uber geeks, i would not post this, but it is clear you have no issues, either of you, so i have to question the lvl of self esteem here and in truth you should to and challange that as i feel this is the next route to take.
 
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