How do I get my GF to Embrace Polygamy?
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Be honest with her. Polygamy isn't for everyone so don't be surprised if she never agrees to it. If you're looking for ways to convince her, manipulation 101 : get the person to come up with the idea themselves.
Bible_Belt
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Encourage her to date women, without you.
EyeBRollin
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Don't engage into a relationship with her. Dump her. Tell her you want to date other women, but you still love her and want her to spend time with you. She'll either move on or continue sleeping with you. You have to give her that choice though.
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You can't legally get your GF to embrace sh!t. You can express you'd like it or ask her if she's ok with it, but if she isn't then you just have to accept that. Which leaves you with 2 choices unless she's disgusted that you'd want it and leaves, that is to stay with her knowing it's not gonna happen or leave her to make it happen.
It's a risk no matter how you twist and turn the issue. I doubt any answer here will satisfy you, because there's no guaranteed way to make it happen.
It's a risk no matter how you twist and turn the issue. I doubt any answer here will satisfy you, because there's no guaranteed way to make it happen.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
daddymonsterpoodle
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It is something that needs to be talked about BEFORE she becomes your girlfriend and after you have started dating. Even then, even if she is OK with it she might still freak out when she realises you are actually ****ing someone else (the voice of bitter experience).
RangerMIke
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How long have you been seeing her?
Look... if you've been exclusive for any length of time you will NOT get her to go along with it. If you want open relationships with multiple women, you need to dump her and go look for women that are. You have to make it clear up front that this is who you are and what you want. There are plenty of women that will be happy doing this, but my guess is your exclusive GF now isn't one of them if she hasn't brought this up herself.
Look... if you've been exclusive for any length of time you will NOT get her to go along with it. If you want open relationships with multiple women, you need to dump her and go look for women that are. You have to make it clear up front that this is who you are and what you want. There are plenty of women that will be happy doing this, but my guess is your exclusive GF now isn't one of them if she hasn't brought this up herself.