How do I get my first lay?

[Tails]

well if you're really lucky, good looking and have good fashion sense (nice clothes, well presented) you won't need to really try so hard. alot of guy DO get the girls without chasing, chatting up. it's happened to me many times when i just couldn't be bothered anymore. girls will try chat YOU up. if you are too shy an not so ballsy to approach, just hang around. still, go out alot. i never had friends at one stage and i used to go to the shopping center alone, walk down and just look at the places. you catch alot of girls checking you out.. then if you really want to, go for it.

if you can't do that, don't worry, you will get a girl even unexpected sometime.

 

[Legend]

dude itll happen... and to tell you the truth it really wasnt that great. My **** went numb and i was disappointed in sex. I thought it was going to change my life.....it didnt change shyt.

The girl i did it with was hot too......but she is bipolar so that kinda makes me feel like shyt.

 

[Maxtro]

I'm going to try Adult Friend Finder for one month I higly doubt anything is going to happen but at least I tried. I put an ad on Craig list and I even got one reply. She asked me to send her a picture of me and I haven't heard from her since

Originally posted by Tails
well if you're really lucky, good looking and have good fashion sense (nice clothes, well presented) you won't need to really try so hard. alot of guy DO get the girls without chasing, chatting up. it's happened to me many times when i just couldn't be bothered anymore. girls will try chat YOU up. if you are too shy an not so ballsy to approach, just hang around. still, go out alot. i never had friends at one stage and i used to go to the shopping center alone, walk down and just look at the places. you catch alot of girls checking you out.. then if you really want to, go for it.

if you can't do that, don't worry, you will get a girl even unexpected sometime.

Lets see here. I've been told I'm good looking (by my family) but I've never heard it from a girl my age so I'm guessing I'm not. I do not have good fashion sense. I wear t-shirts and jeans and sometimes nice button down shirts. Where ever I go girls do NOT check me out. Even when I'm looking my best I'm ignored. Girls do not approch me. I'm not ugly or dress in raggy clothes I'm just not good looking enough or dress nice enough for them to notice me.

I just can't sit around and wait for it to happen, if I do that I may never get any.

So far I've emailed several escorts and I am waiting to hear their responses. Its my last resort but if it works, I'll be much better off than I was before.

A funny thing though is that I somehow ended up talking to a female cousin, my uncle and his son and my step mom about this subject. The easter sex talk The weird thing is that my step mom said I should just go to vegas and get it taken care off. Its something totaly out of character for her to say. Little does she know that I'm planning something very similar.

 

[JB101]

Just because girls do not check you out, that doesn't they aren't interested in you. Don't go for the escort.

Here are some tips:

Change your hairstyle, get some great cologne, spice up your looks any way possible. There was a great cologne thread on this forum. You can pick up alot of names wholesale on Ebay. Looking and smelling your best always lifts someones confidence. Any decent looking guy who smells great can land at least an HB 6, 6.5.

When you're looking and feeling your best, start out your day by talking to anyone. Even if it takes you forever to work up the nerve to do so. You'll put too much pressure on yourself otherwise to go out and talk to women and get laid instantly. A very simple way of talking to women is to go to a park and find women walking their dogs, comment on the dog, ask it's name. A very effective ice breaker. See what develops.

Clubs, bars, there are lots of places to go. Use 20% of the DJ Bible and see if you're not better off than most other guys there.

 

[Maxtro]

Well I decided to fallow my own instincts and went with the escort. And now I've said good bye to virginity. LOL I don't even remember her name or how I even found her

Caution: The fallowing paragraph contains sexual content.

I only used the quote tag for the formating
I was really scared when was I first talking to her but she calmed me down and was really surprised when I told her I was a virgin. I thought I would have a problem getting an erection since I've read about it happening to many guys but I had no such problems. Then fairly standard escort procedure, condom covered blow job which I couldn't feel. She got bored and suggested that we begin. She didn’t want to be on top which I really wanted. So we did doggie and as soon as I stick it in her my cell rings and like a dork I pull out of her and see who’s calling me, it’s my grandma. I turn off my phone and stick it back in her (no not my cell ). For the first couple minutes I had no idea what I was doing. I finally get a rhythm, go for a minute and stopped before I came. We switch to missionary and it doesn’t take long for me to ejaculate but I don’t orgasm. After 5 min I was ready to go again but I didn’t pay enough for that I ended up with a boner that wouldn’t go away until 30 minutes later when I was driving home. I get home, jerk off and finally get my orgasm. Then I become completely exhausted and five hours later I still am. Through the condom I couldn’t feel any sensation except for her tightness. It felt better than me jacking off but I’m guessing it would have felt better if she simply used her hands, since it did feel really good when she put the condom on me, of course I would never pay for a hand job.

The cost for her “time” was $180, about standard price for standard service. My conclusion. Sex is only overrated if you expect it to be the best thing on Earth. I used to think that till I got to this board. Actually it might be the best thing in the world without a condom or at least a very good one. Also since I was with an escort there was no emotional attachment and there were set rules of what I could and couldn’t do. It will be a very different experience with a woman that I am interested in who is also in to me, who wants sex as much as I do. Also that’s where I’ll be getting my sex from now on, real girls, not ones that I have to pay.

I believe that this experience has made me a better man. I feel much more at peace and relived that I accomplished my #1 goal in life. I could die tomorrow and not care, because I got laid. Now I think I can go out and face rejection from women. I don’t have the deliberating need to get laid anymore. I really want it to happen again and a very short time from now but the only way I can get it is by approaching the real girls.

I’m willing to accept that starting from the beginning of the DJ Bible may take me a few months until I can get laid again because I don’t need to have sex as much as I needed to yesterday. It’s just a really big want now. And hopefully I can experience it again soon.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Quit calling her an 'escort' - she's not a car for crying out loud, she's a prostitute!!! $180 big ones - can't believe it - they use to cost $20.

There is no DJ satisfaction in laying a prostitute, this is not a challenge and does nothing to improve yourself or your game. Work on pursuing women and not hors!!!

 

[MagicDonJuan]

tsk. tsk. tsk. you went out like a *****....

 

[duke007]

yeah man, you have to do the hard yards like me and you'll be WAY better off for it.

 

[baracus]

Originally posted by MagicDonJuan
tsk. tsk. tsk. you went out like a *****....

That's for sure.

 

[-k2]

yea, sex is so great, its almost not even worth it.

**** condoms.

Id rather jerk it

 

[Maxtro]

What if I just call her the Ford Hooker from now on, is that better?

Yeah it is a lot of money. She was the cheapest I could find online yesterday who answered her phone.

There is no DJ satisfaction in laying a prostitute, this is not a challenge and does nothing to improve yourself or your game. Work on pursuing women and not hors!!!

I know very well that there is no DJ satisfaction but it satisfied me as a man. This was a major obsticle that was keepig me down. Even though I cheated to accomplish my goal I still did it. Of course I'm going to work on pursuing women. Like I'm going to be satisfied with one lay from a hoe

A bit off topic but I had the tripiest dream last night and no I wasn't on any drugs or booze. I was looking in a closet that was being lit by a single light bulb. Then the bulb pops and I actually heard the sound and then it gets dark. It seemed so real that I had to open my eyes to make sure and I realized I was looking at a wall. I'm guessing it ment the old me or my virginity is dead.

 

[MagicDonJuan]

Originally posted by Maxtro

A bit off topic but I had the tripiest dream last night and no I wasn't on any drugs or booze. I was looking in a closet that was being lit by a single light bulb. Then the bulb pops and I actually heard the sound and then it gets dark. It seemed so real that I had to open my eyes to make sure and I realized I was looking at a wall. I'm guessing it ment the old me or my virginity is dead.

No it means you're crazy as hell.

They have cyber hoes now? Damn this internet!

 

[Maxtro]

Heh I probobly am crazy.

Yes the net makes it very easy to find hoes. All one needs to do is search for "escorts" and the nearest big city to them. But all their prices range from $150-$300+ The ones that are 300+ are either very good or they take your money and run.

 

[LouieVaton Don]

Originally posted by Maxtro

I believe that this experience has made me a better man. I feel much more at peace and relived that I accomplished my #1 goal in life. I could die tomorrow and not care, because I got laid. Now I think I can go out and face rejection from women. I don’t have the deliberating need to get laid anymore. I really want it to happen again and a very short time from now but the only way I can get it is by approaching the real girls.

So you went ahead and did it anyway. I wont knock you because it was your money and your perrogative but don't go fooling yourself thinking that this has made you better. Its like being thirsty and buying a sprite to quench your thirst, after that are you better? So now that you acheived your #1 goal, whats next? Thats just silly, a piece of ass is never that important and when you start getting it and seeing how easy these women are you'll look back and say I was soooo stoopid. Well hopefully coming here will put you on the right track so you can figure out whats really important.

 

[LouieVaton Don]

Double post.

 

[Maxtro]

Yeah I choose the wrong words but I do feel much better. I don't have the pressure anymore and my mind feels at ease.

That was my #1 goal. Now I'm going to work on my other goals. Do good in school, get a nice job, make friends and of course go after girls and screw them.

Getting a hooker is what I needed to get me on track. I can start making progress now that I know what I can do with girls.

 

[Playa$upreme]

Just get the hooker. You need to relax.

 

[Tai]

I know playasupreme will agree to it