How do I get girls? -Listen up!!!

[Hidden-Danjer]

The amount of times I have read a post asking this question must now be in the hundreds!

I think its what we all came this forum trying to dind the answer to...

How do I get girls?

And then you look at some of the people here... Some people have REALLY listened to advice and help we have given and become kings. Others have "listened" but not learnt -and are still here doing no better with girls than they did before they even came here.

This article is for you guys:

Okay, first thing is first... You HAVE to stop asking this question "How do I get girls".

I don't care what Doc Love, Ros Jefferies, Maniac High say about this, the truth of this matter should be learnt by all guys here and now:

We do NOT go out and chase girls, we become so god damn amazing that we MAKE the girls want US!

You HAVE to believe this if you wanna become a king, this is the ONLY way to get everyting you want from todays cruel society.

So, its all well and good not to chase girls and expecting them to chase you, but to do this and get results you do more than simply THINK all the fine girls are gonna start chasing you, just because you don't chase them no more.

The problem here is that most people don't think this attitude will work, and to be honest guys, it doesn't! This time there HAS to be more than simply not chasing girls.

Girls will not chase you for no reason!

* Girls WILL chase a winner!
* You need to become a WINNER before they will even NOTICE you!

So have you decided you want to stop chasing and start winning yet?

I hope so!

Here goes...

Hidden-Danjer's guide to stop chasing and start winning:

• Stop calling her -She will miss you and wonder where you have got to!
• Be SEEN with as many girls as possible -DO NOT HIT ON THEM!!
• What to wear: -Here I only give you one requirememt. Wear a SMILE at all times! Girls LOVE a happy guy!
• Go to clubs and enjoy the ATMOSPHERE, don't be like the little people who go there to "enjoy" drueling at the girl who is hardly wearing anything!
• Do something that SCARES you every day -We ALL need more stories to tell, it's what keeps the girls drueling over YOU when THEY come and talk with you.
• Laugh at girls! -Make fun of them and NEVER say you are sorry.
• Learn to flirt and enjoy it! -It makes em crazy when they see you flirting with someone else.
• Women don't make sense, don't try to understand them -We can't! Just keep on going with YOUR thing and forget everyone else!
• ALWAYS have an opinion and never let OTHER people change it... Show them that THEY are wrong!

REMEMBER AT ALL COSTS: No girls is worth it! -There are millions out there who are worth even more!

Now: Watch those honnies start chasing YOU!!!

I KNOW some of you will be thinking my method is stupid and could never really work:
Guys, this is what works for me if you don't believe it then it's your loss. To become the best you need to be above the little people. I am showing you what road to take to get there. -Take it or leave it, I don't care!

 

[Sociopath31]

Amen, Brother.


[This message has been edited by Sociopath31 (edited 11-01-2001).]

 

[BGMan]

No, I think it's great! Should be put in the DJ Bible!

BGMan

 

[Don the Legend]

Great post Hidden.

Thanks for bumping this thread Cramias!

Legend

 

[bclarke675]

Great post, HD!

The other thing I would add is to be having as much fun as possible when you're out and about. Be ****y and funny with everyone! Make yourself the life of the party wherever you go!

If you make everyone want to gravitate toward you, the good-looking women will come too!

 

[syncmaster]

outstanding post
it sums up being a dj in a nice little package

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Syncmaster signing out.
a.k.a ... Adam

 

[Paradox]

Moved to 'Tips' Forum

 

[Amlothi]

Great post. I've only been here a little while now, but I think you are right on with the stopping chasing.

Just after I came here there was a girl who I had asked for her # and got a wishywashy response, so even though I see her every day I gave up and cut her off without pushing. After a couple weeks she comes up to ME to start a conversation (but I still keep myself busy so I don't have time to hang around - seems to annoy the hell out of her that I'm always taking off!)

So from one newb to the rest, listen to HD and his fellow DJs.

 

[Man Of Adventure]

Bump (Good post!)

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Stop pursuing, and make them be on the chase.-MOA

 

[Hidden-Danjer]

WOW!!!

I wrote this??!!??

Apparently so, I'm impressed... Well worth a bump!

 

[HappyHobo]

this post is soOoooooooooooOOOOOOOOOoooo Gay.

i would like to unbump this post.

Stop over-romanticizing this crap you sound like some poor company desperately tryign to sell a product.

And I like how you unspecific you were with alot of things.

Please dont post ****ty posts like this again.
And its without a doubt all the AFC's would applaud this kind of post.

 

[Tai]

Hmm... I have must read tips like this 10 times before but just with diffrent person.

Good try tho

 

[RedZone122]

What the hell are you talking about?

1.) this post is gold
2.) read the dates you moron, he wrote this 2 years ago!!

Fools....

Hidden - nice work

 

[RedZone122]

Bump - this should be read by more, and considered for the bible...

 

[tristan22]

Most of the guys on here are approaching and not getting the date after calling the girl. It pi$$es them off, so they come here and ask questions to get some insight. This happens to me a lot of times.

Although your post has a lot of good ideas, it lacks substance. Most people just cold approach and voila they never see the girl again (ex. mall, walking around campus, bar, etc.). In a sense you can't really use your ideas in these particular scenarios.

To me the hardest part of dating is progressing from phone number to 1st date. Getting the number is the easy part.

Tristan

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer

[*]Be SEEN with as many girls as possible -DO NOT HIT ON THEM!!

[*]Learn to flirt and enjoy it! -It makes em crazy when they see you flirting with someone else.
i]

how can you flirt with them, without hitting on them?

 

[wheelin&dealin]

I wonder if this post is out-of-date by now... *looks at his watch*

This thing was written almost 5 years ago. It's like reading a ancient manuscript from the stone age. Good post though.

 

[comic_relief]

i have used this and it friggen works. Girls will approach.

5 stars man 5 friggen stars.

comic_relief

 

[The Juan and only]

I agree with a lot of your points. However you seem to be implying I should stand around (being all DJ) and expect girls to just come up to me. That, in my opinion, is not good advice.

This goes against many of the DJ rules, including the big "3 second rule"...I'd personally say that if you like a girl then for **** sake just go and talk to her. A lot of the time guys are expected to initiate and doing so doesn't necesarily weaken your position...ok sure, don't make your true intentions too obvious, be a bit mysterious (i.e don't ever throw yourself at a woman)..however, I think you SHOULD go and start conversations with women you like.

guys who go to dances to stand around by the buffet table hoping women will come up to them (cos they're being 'cool'), won't get anywhere.

It is fine to tell (not ASK in a pathetic voice) a girl you would like her number and that she can join you for a coffee blah blah....waiting for women to do all the work is a very bad idea.

 

[comic_relief]

Originally posted by The Juan and only
This goes against many of the DJ rules, including the big "3 second rule"

Ah, you are but a newbie. You will learn that the DJ rules are sh!t. I learned it and do what I want. I get more results without the rules then with the rules.

comic_relief