How do i game this girl???

[procanto]

How do i game this girl??

Hello, I certainly agree with you. Thank you very much for sharing your information. It was really very helpful for me.
Thanks for sharing your dating tips!

 

[Jokerlsk]

See the new situation Rocket is that I personally like the OP girl alot, but i don't think she needs a relationship. I met this other girl when i went to church w/ my friend and we flirted got along, but she is a *****....... Shee flirts w/ me all the time and always messages me first because i never initiate contact. She's talking to me right now and hitting on me, WHEN SHE WENT OUT WITH A GUY LAST NIGHT. If she likes me so much why would she go out with another guy?

 

[Igetit!]

It`s possible that she doesn`t really like you,she just likes the attention she gets from you.It`s an ego boost. I mean look,she has 2 guys after her.However,if you had continued to ignore her,not responding to the messages she sent you,and only talked to her when she called you on the phone,you would have had a advantage.Because when she was out with the other guy,her mind would have been on you all night,wondering where you were,why you were not responding to her,if you were mad at her,etc. But you craved in,and when you caved in,the she was able to go out with the other guy in peace.She could keep her mind on him because when you answered her message she probably thought to herself,"Good,I still got him. I was worried there for a second". My guess is that she probably says the same thing to herself about the other guy when she is with you.

 

[Jokerlsk]

This sucks man. I'm ignoring her right now actually....

 

[Igetit!]

Trust me man,I know it sucks.It`s like you have this drive or force within trying to push you to contact her,but if you want this girl,it's neccesary.
There are some things that can make it easier,though. First,hang out with some of your friends.Also,if there are other girls you are interested in,go after them.Believe me,you'll be so busy trying to understand them and figure them out you mind won't have time to even think about the girl you are ignoring.
Oh,by the way,whatever happened with that fat girl? I know you said that it was taken care of,but I'm curious.What exactly did you do?

 

[Jokerlsk]

Well, she hasn't contacted me since this afternoon, but i know it's comming up tonight. I feel like an afc... I don't want her to call me, but at the same time i do... I want to call her, but at the same time i know i shouldn't. SHould i just ignore her completely?
I told that girl about the other two girls like you said.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Wow....... Well, now the situation is alot different.... That girl now goes out w/ senior BTW she is a freshman and i'm a softmore..... The senior guy and one of my friends got into it or something so now this girl is trying to use me as her tampon. Hell no! I'm not gonna tolerate that! She said she was gonna call me to talk about it later when i'm done w/ my summer assignment. How should i talk to her? Or should i even respond at all?

 

[Igetit!]

Jokerisk,Jokerisk,Jokerisk.Man,I swear.Your dating life is like a daytime soapera.Look,if this girl is dating some other guy,then calling you and telling you about all the details of her relationship,or just talking about her "feelings",guess what that means? It mean you're in the friendzone.It means you are one of her "girlfriends".It also means that you have a 0% chance with her.There are some people who say that it is possible to get out of the friendzone,but I've never seen it happen before.Only in the movies.
I'm not saying that there is no way out of the friendzone,but if there is,I don't know what it is.So look,if you want to talk to her,talk to her.If you want to respond,then respond,but the chances of you and her dating are very slim.

 

[Jokerlsk]

I know that now........ Geeze you don't have to tell me what i already know. My question is how can i tell her i just don't want to talk to her w/o seeming like a little b****?

 

[Igetit!]

That's easy.You remember what I said in one of the previous posts about ignoring any way she tries to contact you except by phone? Do that. The ONLY time you respond to her is if she calls you on the phone.And even then,when you answer the phone,give her the impression that you have been busy with other things in your life,and she is the last thing that you thought of.When she calls you,act as if she is one of your long lost friends who you haven't seen in like 10 years,almost like you don't remember her.
You don't have to say straight out,"Leave me alone. I don't want to talk to you."But if you ignore her enough,she'll either try to date you or leave you alone.

 

[Jokerlsk]

yeah, she called me earlier today and i told her to call me back because i was working on one of my summer assignments. She said something like i'm gonna have to call her back, and i said "if i remember"

 

[IsiMan84]

You are definitely dwelling on this too much. It's not illegal for someone to show interest in multiple people at the same time. If you are not getting results, move on and find somebody else. Next.