I've been dating her for around 7 months. For the last 3-4 mos, things have slid downhill. She at least 3-5x a week has these temper tantrums that can go on and on. The sex has been becoming ridiculously poor, she doesn't get wet unless I eat her out (and even that doesn't work consistently). She used to get wet and have screaming sex with me just after conversation. We just moved in together (at least the paperwork is done, I haven't moved my stuff) because she needed a roommate, so that further compounds the difficulty.
l unfortunately still have a lot of feelings for her, but with the way the sex is so terrible, I don't think this is fixable. It feels like I either have to throw her under the bus now or let her throw me under the bus later. The only reasons I haven't dumped her yet is because of the living situation, we are in the same graduate program, and frankly, I felt like this girl had so much potential initially and I can't get over this. It's hard to dump some chick over what has basically been my failure to turn her on. Same exact thing happened with my ex
l unfortunately still have a lot of feelings for her, but with the way the sex is so terrible, I don't think this is fixable. It feels like I either have to throw her under the bus now or let her throw me under the bus later. The only reasons I haven't dumped her yet is because of the living situation, we are in the same graduate program, and frankly, I felt like this girl had so much potential initially and I can't get over this. It's hard to dump some chick over what has basically been my failure to turn her on. Same exact thing happened with my ex