How do I deal with this one friend...

Josh Davidson

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he is blue pill, always tries to impress women, and talks down to me when women he likes are around. Basically, he tries to c*ck block me. Don't get me wrong, when its just guy's around he treats me great. He may have an inferiority complex with me because I am 4 inches taller than him and he is bald and I have almost all of my hair.
 

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he is blue pill, always tries to impress women, and talks down to me when women he likes are around. Basically, he tries to c*ck block me. Don't get me wrong, when its just guy's around he treats me great. He may have an inferiority complex with me because I am 4 inches taller than him and he is bald and I have almost all of my hair.
He literally gets angry when women ignore him. He is the type of person that says whatever people want to hear to their face and they talks about them behind their back.
 

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I am 4 inches taller than him and he is bald and I have almost all of my hair.
He literally gets angry when women ignore him.
He’s going to have to learn the hard way when it comes to women.

In the meantime, I would not hang out with a guy that talks down to you to try to impress women.
 

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I have two of these guys around me.

The first is a good friend, but everytime I brought a new woman, he started playing the alpha and tried to put me down. First time I matched his attitude and countered, the second time I took him to the side and told him to stop playing games. Never happened a third time.

Second guy is a friend of a friend. Overall friendly guy, but when we're out in a bigger group he always tries to pick on me. I don't see him as a friend of mine, so I either match his attitude or let him know that he went too far with staring him down or ignoring him. If he acts normal I often have conversations with him, if he's acting out I don't speak to him that night.

Bantering is ok and fun, it's hard to offend me, but I let them know when they went too far.
 

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talks down to me when women he likes are around.
Doesn't sound like a friend to me. Doesn't matter he's ok when women he likes aren't around, this isn't acceptable behavior and if I were you I'd burn the bridge over this.

The good parts can't forgive the bad parts, especially when the bad part is entirely preventable by the other person merely choosing so.
 

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Doesn't sound like a friend to me. Doesn't matter he's ok when women he likes aren't around, this isn't acceptable behavior and if I were you I'd burn the bridge over this.

The good parts can't forgive the bad parts, especially when the bad part is entirely preventable by the other person merely choosing so.
I may have to. Thanks for the advice!
 

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he is blue pill, always tries to impress women, and talks down to me when women he likes are around. Basically, he tries to c*ck block me. Don't get me wrong, when its just guy's around he treats me great. He may have an inferiority complex with me because I am 4 inches taller than him and he is bald and I have almost all of my hair.
You have to teabag him. Teabag his bald head.
 

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he is blue pill, always tries to impress women, and talks down to me when women he likes are around. Basically, he tries to c*ck block me. Don't get me wrong, when its just guy's around he treats me great. He may have an inferiority complex with me because I am 4 inches taller than him and he is bald and I have almost all of my hair.
now, now, I had a colegue like that, he was the "funny"(not really) kind of guy pretty patetic, thing was any girl we meet, even if he couldn't pull, would try to do that try to make others smaller so he could look better, thing is fools like this are the lost kind, he don't follow the bro code, and is a patetic loser, what I did was to cut him of and laught on his face on how patetic he was, last time I did talk with him and he tried to look like the bigger guy I laught at him and said I felt sorry for him, he was pissed like hell and didn't bother me again.

so TLDR, cut him of your life and if he gravitate around you are try to ****block you again put im on spot and make fun of him.

guys like him are like females, like you said he is not trustworthy, he is willing to sell anyone for the group he want in, because he is a follower and need others to feel secure, so cut and move on
 

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These ****stains are snipers. Best thing is remove their cover. "That didn't sound right mate, are you ok? Say it with a friendly joking tone while giving him a cold appraising look.

If it's blatant confront. Mate you re not the boss of us. Trying too hard

Then ignore him and start s conversation with somebody else. "Anyway what I really want to hear about is.. "

You want to treat him like a dog **** on the pavement your going to call it out so nobody else steps in it but it's not worthy of your attention.
 
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I m too old and naturally much of a loner to care anymore. Got a handful of true friends that's enough. But for a young guy I d also say you need to learn how to build a posse. You want a small group of friends who always have your back. Then widen that group out very slowly and selectively. If course you want friendly acquaintances too. When you ve got a posse candidate invite them out a few times with your acquaintances and see what happens.
 

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he is blue pill, always tries to impress women, and talks down to me when women he likes are around. Basically, he tries to c*ck block me. Don't get me wrong, when its just guy's around he treats me great. He may have an inferiority complex with me because I am 4 inches taller than him and he is bald and I have almost all of my hair.
Find better friends.
 

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he is blue pill, always tries to impress women, and talks down to me when women he likes are around. Basically, he tries to c*ck block me. Don't get me wrong, when its just guy's around he treats me great. He may have an inferiority complex with me because I am 4 inches taller than him and he is bald and I have almost all of my hair.

I wanted to know regarding this, what if a guy gets underconfident because of his baldness pattern?
I do realise that confidence is everything but that looks is something which also plays a pivotal/vital role innit!
Stuck between the twos? Please help?

Also, there are solutions like getting a hair wig or hair transplant to make your hair grow back, would you guys suggest on getting either of these?
New in the redpill community and I have been silent in the dating game about three years now, finally getting back in the game, but have a severe developing baldness pattern.

Thanks and Regards.
 

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Call his ass out on it but not in front of women as it would make you look bad. Some people need to be called out on their B.S. or they'll keep doing it. Yeah, he'll probably get all offended and pout like a little ***** but at least you told him. If he shapes up = true friend. If not = he's a "frienemy" and it's your call.
 
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