How do I date multiple women?

[PootyMack]

Hi all, I only have one question for you. What's important to know about dating several women at once?

I'm not looking for ultra advanced seduction theory... but the real meat and potatos. I'm not an afc at all, but I really don't understand how to do it... so many things to deal with that I didn't expect. Please help.

PootyMack

 

[Shadow Dancer]

You just do it. If you can get a date with one, you can get a date with another. And another. The only thing, which is common sense, is don't schedule a date with one girl when you're already going out, unless you want to go out with both at the same time.

Sounds like you're asking how to keep it on the down low. Don't. It's stupid and there is no need. Just date many women and be upfront.

 

[PootyMack]

To clarify my question, let's say I'm looking to narrow down the women I'm dating until I find one really good one. In other words, I'm talking about the process of dating many women in order to find one great one for LTR.

So let's say I'm dating 5 women regularly... meaning, I see each of them like once per week minimum. Then what? Last time I did this, it got complicated.

PootyMack

 

[PootyMack]

I'm trying to keep it generalized. I want to learn about the general subject of dating and managing multiple women. Granted, I'm looking for one quality LTR... but Lord knows, sometimes you gotta go through a bunch of women in order to find one of quality.

That's why the question is simply... What's important to know about dating several women at once? (keeping in mind that I'm seeing each of these women on a regular basis).

Thanks bros

PootyMack

 

[PootyMack]

I see, and what about letting each girl know that you're not exclusive with them, and dealing with situations where another girl comes over for a surprise visit while you're with another one.

Or another great one is when you're walking through a mall with your arm around one, and one of your other women walks right by you and gives you a look.

There's insecurity issues, and honesty issues to deal with. It's not quite that simple. That was the mistake I made when I first did this.

Any other ideas guys?

PootyMack

 

[NewMan]

Honesty, honesty, honesty....

As long as you are honest and upfront with every chick, then there really is no problem.

If a woman can't deal with that then you tell her you can't date her.

Don't get caught up in the trap of telling these chick's BS lines because you don't want them to know your dating other women. If your honest, you don't have to worry about what you did or didn't say - and you don't have to go into specifics about what you did or are doing with these other women.

The beauty of it is, that the other women will see this as a chellenge and it will lead to more exciting dates for sure.

 

[MVPlaya]

REAL SIMPLE

If you are not an AFC, then obviously you have game and have only little difficulty finding women. Now, dating 2 women is just like dating 1, except that you don't let them know about each other, dating 3 is just like 2, except this time its 3. Dating multiple women is no biggie, having ƒuckbuddies, however, requires more finesse, and if that's what your asking, do everything in a ****y/funny way with her (the FB) and don't reciprocate affection too heavily, drop them occasional clues (in a joking matter) about your intention, they will not look too deeply into them, but they'll understand the message. Also, not all women are up for being that little something on the side.

 

[Walden]

Being a pottymouth

{uckbuddies.
How did you do that "F"

 

[MVPlaya]

ƒuckbuddies ƒuckbuddies, check your PM inbox for the magic mistery to the ƒ Walden...

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by PootyMack
Hi all, I only have one question for you. What's important to know about dating several women at once?

I'm not looking for ultra advanced seduction theory... but the real meat and potatos. I'm not an afc at all, but I really don't understand how to do it... so many things to deal with that I didn't expect. Please help.

PootyMack

Ask multiple numbers, so you can ask multiple women out therefore you will be dating multiple women.

 

[So pimp its scary]

I like to give my favorite girls a sort of priority, but I dont usually see all of the girls once a week... once every two weeks is good enough.

Just don't forget the details out of each one, and don't tell anyone your situation unless they ask, and try to be as vague as they will allow you... without seemeing like you are dodging the subject. It's best to be honest, but downplay the situation.

Just be constantly progressing with each girl. And keep track of the situation and direction of each girl... and don't be afraid to stop calling a girl for a while if you for some reason lose interest.

so much to say on this subject... get an organiser

 

[WaterTiger]

Get a Day-Planner. You can keep track of dates, places and info on each girl. ...Just don't let anyone read your book!

 

[Cruel Intentions]

To me... it's all about honesty man. Currently, I am dating three women and working on a fourth. Before we even go on the actual date, I sit them down and have the same talk... I am not looking for a girlfriend, blah, blah, blah. Then I give them two options... they can either go with it or not go with it. But be careful still... some girls will go with it, but still try to trap you. Because of this, I squelch that in the beginning too and tell them that if they try to pull that... I'm gone. So just be honest with them... I'm not a fan of that whole sneaking around stuff. The girls I'm dating, know that I date other women... the key is treating them like you don't. The other day I was out with one of my acquaintances and she told me that the one thing that she likes about me is that even though she knows that I messing with other women... when I'm with her, it feels like she's the only one. I cannot stress how important that is.

This means that dating multiple women requires one hell of a memory... write certain things down if you must (birthdays, favorite hang outs, things important in her life at the moment, ecterera.) It can be a daunting task at times... but if you develop a system, it's a whole bunch of fun.

Sucker Love Is......

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. be honest...yeah that's what I said. I have learned to be honest in my relationships. I told them that I wasn't looking for a girlfriend but friends to have fun with

2. Lay your contract down at the beginning ie. what you want..what you expect from them... this will save you trouble later on. Some girls are hard headed and need to be reminded of your agreement later on though

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1. old fashioned player super secret technique: lie ya ass of and get so good at it the you even believe your own lies.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme

1. old fashioned player super secret technique: lie ya ass of and get so good at it the you even believe your own lies.

Yeah, I got a friend who use to shuffle a few girls around at the same time. He finally had to give it up because he couldn't keep track of all the lies he was saying in between girls.

 

[Pimp-ish]

This is the key...

The girls I'm dating, know that I date other women... the key is treating them like you don't. The other day I was out with one of my acquaintances and she told me that the one thing that she likes about me is that even though she knows that I messing with other women... when I'm with her, it feels like she's the only one.

If you can make each girl feel special and give them your undivided attention during the time that you are with them, you will do well.

Try to quelch jealousy before it gets to be too much of a problem. Tell them straight up that "that kind of behavior makes you look very unattractive, and if I wasn't feeling you, it would've made me end it." This is will lay an ultimatum without actually laying one. She will understand that you have other options, and that she is replaceable if she continues this kind of behavior.

Honesty is very important I think. You don't tell them right away if you are talking to girls, but if they ask you, tell the truth. It is a SMALL, SMALL world and people know each other. If you lie, you WILL get caught. If not the first time, eventually. Tell the truth. They will respect you for it.

And of course, they will ask you about the other girls. Just respond by telling them: "I don't divulge that information. If another girl asked me about you, you wouldn't want me to divulge that information, would you?"

If you have any specific questions, let us know. Also, I would like some more input on this myself. So if you guys have any advice, please post it!