How do I be interesting?

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I've been talking to some girls on SA. They tell me some guys only pay them to meet once, and then the guys are interesting so they meet them again for free.

What's interesting? Anybody here interesting? (Not just in their own head).

House flipping business interesting enough? What if I get into commercial flips? Bionic d1ck interesting?
 

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Interesting is whatever the person you're talking to likes to talk about/hear about

Flipping houses is interesting to someone who cares about money and business and real estate and such

Bionic d!ck is interesting to someone with an interest in your d!ck

How do you know what's going to be interesting to someone before you talk to them? You don't. Two strategies:

1. Screen for people with an interest in the things you know about/talk about (find anime fans at an anime club for example)

2. Become knowledgeable in things that are nearly ubiquitous like popular music, popular shows, popular stuff on netflix, etc.
 

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I'm the first person in the history of the Florida State Mental Hospital to ever have done so much LSD, they began to feel like a reptile.
I think there are a lot of girls who'd find that to be interesting actually
 

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But then I'd have to tell them what I went to prison for...
Nah, you just totally avoid that, if it comes up imply you've learned your lesson and that prison made you tough without actually going into why you went there.

They probably won't think of googling you since that wouldn't work for most people.
 

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I've been talking to some girls on SA. They tell me some guys only pay them to meet once, and then the guys are interesting so they meet them again for free.

What's interesting? Anybody here interesting? (Not just in their own head).

House flipping business interesting enough? What if I get into commercial flips? Bionic d1ck interesting?

This is the best right here. You are asking advice on how a hooker can see you a second time for free and people are actually giving you advice on how you can charm an escort to see her a second time for free, but I don't think they get you are paying for these encounters. That is silly because once you pay a woman money then you are a customer to her and you end up in a friend-zone. The key to learn is how to meet that women without having to pay to meet them. Getting someone to meet you a second time for free that you paid to meet the first time is a tall order, even for a good player or Don-Juan on here. It's not just about what you say, it's how you say it, how you make her feel, and how you come across, do you really at a core level, believe in yourself? Or are you trying out all these different gimmicks out? If we could all succeed by learning some script or saying the right interesting something, then problem solved, right?

You have to first learn how to meet those type of women the first time without paying for it. If you have to pay for it in order to meet them then something is wrong. If people on this board can not advice you on how to meet a woman for free rather than pay for it, then this board isn't helping you. First meet a woman for free the first time around, without being on a customer-friend-zone, then if you want to play with a customer-friend-zone and see if you can break that ceiling and get a freeby, then have at it hoss.
 
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This is the best right here. You are asking advice on how a hooker can see you a second time for free and people are actually giving you advice on how you can charm an escort to see her a second time for free, but I don't think they get you are paying for these encounters. That is silly because once you pay a woman money then you are a customer to her and you end up in a friend-zone. The key to learn is how to meet that women without having to pay to meet them. Getting someone to meet you a second time for free that you paid to meet the first time is a tall order, even for a good player or Don-Juan on here. It's not just about what you say, it's how you say it, how you make her feel, and how you come across, do you really at a core level, believe in yourself? Or are you trying out all these different gimmicks out? If we could all succeed by learning some script or saying the right interesting something, then problem solved, right?

You have to first learn how to meet those type of women the first time without paying for it. If you have to pay for it in order to meet them then something is wrong. If people on this board can not advice you on how to meet a woman for free rather than pay for it, then this board isn't helping you. First meet a woman for free the first time around, without being on a customer-friend-zone, then if you want to play with a customer-friend-zone and see if you can break that ceiling and get a freeby, then have at it hoss.
It's impossible to fvck as many hot girls as I do for free. Nobody does it. Not you. Not anyone else on this forum.

Who is the winner in this situation? The guy who spends a disposable part of his income to fvck some hot girl...

Or the girl who convinces herself that she's in charge of the situation as she gets fvcked by strangers?

Or even worse... Her loser drug addict boyfriend.

I did not invent the fact that girls like money. That is not a weakness in me, it's a reality of the world.

Plus, most of the girls on SA are not full-time escorts. As oppose to a site like Backpage.
 

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Easiest way to become interesting is to simply find things you like to do or topics you enjoy...

Then talk about those things.

Also a lot girls like to use the word "interesting" as a politically correct way of saying attractive (in whatever way). They don't want to feel shallow.

She decided whether or not you were "interesting" before you opened your mouth.
 

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But then I'd have to tell them what I went to prison for...
Just tell them you went throught by the front door.

Easiest way to become interesting is to simply find things you like to do or topics you enjoy...

Then talk about those things.

Also a lot girls like to use the word "interesting" as a politically correct way of saying attractive (in whatever way). They don't want to feel shallow.

She decided whether or not you were "interesting" before you opened your mouth.
This... A girl who likes / love you will always find you interesting.

If she finds anything that you say interesting/like laughing (finding you funny).... She's into you.
(Real sign of interest)

And she'll dig you even more if you act like this with her, like you do with strangers.

When you with strangers or seeking to seduce:
It's easier to be interesting when you talk with passion of what you do. That you look genuinely happy about the topic and seek to share it with others.
 

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Buy that Lamborgini. Then it will be easy to pick up chicks lol. Right?
 
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Buy that Lamborgini. Then it will be easy to pick up chicks lol. Right?
Yea probably will.

It's funny how you claim to have such an outgoing, fun personality. On here, you come across like a huge jerk. Like a guy who wants so badly to be tough, but it's just not true, so you fake it 24/7. I'm sure that's how you come across in real life, too.
 

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Get hobbies and be passionate about things. Also, don't do something because you think a girl will like it. Be passionate about something you like. You will be respected way more for that and you will actually enjoy what you are doing.
 

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I've been talking to some girls on SA. They tell me some guys only pay them to meet once, and then the guys are interesting so they meet them again for free.

What's interesting? Anybody here interesting? (Not just in their own head).

House flipping business interesting enough? What if I get into commercial flips? Bionic d1ck interesting?
lmao find friends. if you dont then you wont be interesting, you weirdo
 
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Get hobbies and be passionate about things. Also, don't do something because you think a girl will like it. Be passionate about something you like. You will be respected way more for that and you will actually enjoy what you are doing.
Yea I guess real estate and flipping houses and stuff. I could be interested in a lot of things if I forced myself to be.
 

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Yea probably will.

It's funny how you claim to have such an outgoing, fun personality. On here, you come across like a huge jerk. Like a guy who wants so badly to be tough, but it's just not true, so you fake it 24/7. I'm sure that's how you come across in real life, too.
I do have a fun, outgoing personality. I just don't sugar coat comments to you. Being direct is in no terms a deficit to a charming, outgoing and social personality.

Just curious......since you're still on your first flip......how are you paying for all of this "stuff". That's what it really is......Just "stuff". To me, there is much more to my life than accumulating "things" in order to impress people. That is the major difference that you are too blind to see. Relationships are more than sex and hooking up. They are bonds, outlets and useful tools in life. Unfortunately that Lamborghini can't develop relationships for you (granted you can actually get it). Sure it may turn heads and get attention but at the end of the day do you have what it takes to turn that attention into something more? No. Because you lack the social skills to extend it to more than that. If you arent a paying customer, you struggle to extend a simple hello into something more meaningful, more valuable.

Trust me when I tell you that I do very well with women and relationships in general. Also trust me that you are addressing your issues completely @ss backwards. I know men who drive $10k cars who clean up with women. I know men who are millionaires and can't develop a relationship with a woman if their life depended on it.

A woman doesn't fall in love with your car. Or your clothes. Sure they can open the door for that initial interaction, but you must have the skills to propel that into something more. That is what you lack Richard. I'm glad that you like the new clothes, shoes and watch. If they make you happy that is all that matters.

But trust me when I tell you that one of 2 things eventually happens when you try to use "stuff" to negotiate a relationship with a woman. The money runs out or she finds someone with more of it. It takes more than "stuff" to keep a woman around and keep her eyes from looking for the next best thing.

When you negotiate yourself as the product, and they buy in, you literally can't run them off when they are all in. It takes more than stuff to keep them around.

Have you ever seen the couples who are only happy when buying a new car, house, etc? They always get divorced. Why? Their relationship revolves around "stuff", not a relationship between themselves.

I'm not a game player. I just use what works for me. I'm not the smartest guy, but I know if it works for me, it will work for anyone that can do it. But there lies the problem......I'm not sure that it's a skill that is learnable and if it is, it would take tons of practice. Enjoy your clothes, the shoes and hopefully the new car. Just don't forget that "stuff" eventually looks old, breaks down and gets scuffed. You'll have to maintain it and eventually replace it.

With a positive, fun, outgoing and social personality......You only have to maintain it. Not eventually replace it.

Just trying to help.
 
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I do have a fun, outgoing personality. I just don't sugar coat comments to you. Being direct is in no terms a deficit to a charming, outgoing and social personality.

Just curious......since you're still on your first flip......how are you paying for all of this "stuff". That's what it really is......Just "stuff". To me, there is much more to my life than accumulating "things" in order to impress people. That is the major difference that you are too blind to see. Relationships are more than sex and hooking up. They are bonds, outlets and useful tools in life. Unfortunately that Lamborghini can't develop relationships for you (granted you can actually get it). Sure it may turn heads and get attention but at the end of the day do you have what it takes to turn that attention into something more? No. Because you lack the social skills to extend it to more than that. If you arent a paying customer, you struggle to extend a simple hello into something more meaningful, more valuable.

Trust me when I tell you that I do very well with women and relationships in general. Also trust me that you are addressing your issues completely @ss backwards. I know men who drive $10k cars who clean up with women. I know men who are millionaires and can't develop a relationship with a woman if their life depended on it.

A woman doesn't fall in love with your car. Or your clothes. Sure they can open the door for that initial interaction, but you must have the skills to propel that into something more. That is what you lack Richard. I'm glad that you like the new clothes, shoes and watch. If they make you happy that is all that matters.

But trust me when I tell you that one of 2 things eventually happens when you try to use "stuff" to negotiate a relationship with a woman. The money runs out or she finds someone with more of it. It takes more than "stuff" to keep a woman around and keep her eyes from looking for the next best thing.

When you negotiate yourself as the product, and they buy in, you literally can't run them off when they are all in. It takes more than stuff to keep them around.

Have you ever seen the couples who are only happy when buying a new car, house, etc? They always get divorced. Why? Their relationship revolves around "stuff", not a relationship between themselves.

I'm not a game player. I just use what works for me. I'm not the smartest guy, but I know if it works for me, it will work for anyone that can do it. But there lies the problem......I'm not sure that it's a skill that is learnable and if it is, it would take tons of practice. Enjoy your clothes, the shoes and hopefully the new car. Just don't forget that "stuff" eventually looks old, breaks down and gets scuffed. You'll have to maintain it and eventually replace it.

With a positive, fun, outgoing and social personality......You only have to maintain it. Not eventually replace it.

Just trying to help.
I never said I was going to give significant amounts of money to a girl. If I was going to pay for sex, I might as well get hookers, which I plan to continue doing.

If the "Lamborghini" would attract anything, perhaps it would attract them to my intelligence.

What about the fact that most people are selfish as fvck? Then I'm supposed to turn around and be Mr. Nice Guy?

And if driving that car makes me look somewhat narcissistic, then that's great because every female in the world is a narcissist.

Never did I say I was buying a Lamborghini for a girl.
 
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