god its some sad sacks in this mother****er.
Look man. you can pull 6s, they approach you because of two reasons...one they find you attractive and two...they think they can land you. And they can. Good. You got a base to start from. 9's and 10's aren't gonna approach...8s and 7s will give you choosing signals but you gotta step over and be a man and make it happen. The 6's and below chase you because they HAVE TO! nobody is gonna approach them so they HAVE to go after what they want. Same with fat girls. They are agressive because they would never get a man worth anything otherwise. So always remember that...if they are approaching you..they feel like they have to because you are out of their league but they are trying anyway. As you step your game up they will eventually not even try to get with you because they will feel they can't hold you...how do you step your game up?
Now its time to improve every aspect of your game. Get your grooming down perfect, teeth cleaned, nose hairs trimmed, regular haircuts, nails clean and smooth. Every little detail.
Get your gear tight. Get clothing that fits well and is stylish. Good shoes.
Get in shape. You already know.
Get up your clout! Your rep. Join and lead organizations, or start a business or follow your lifes mission. Also get you a nice ride, it never hurts.
But mainly, more than anything...it sounds like its time for you to start working on your inner game. Read everyting in the DJ bible on inner game. Read about afformations, affirmations, meditation and prayer. It's time to make the inside and outside match. This will give you congruence and self confidence and put you up there mentally to be able to tackle 9's and 10s. It's a mental game at the top...after you've done everything else you can do...all that's left is the mental game.