How do/did you get over the ONE who got away?

[Cruise]

If she got away, she wasn't the one.

"If she got away, YOU weren't the one."


Works better in my book. :rockon:

 

[Bourne]

Mine works for moving on, your works on holding on to the past. So keep that in your book.

 

[Duke]

Remember all the bad times and all of her bad qualities. This helps if you actually had a relationship with the girl and it wasn't the "nice-guy" imaginary relationship where you want her but she never ever gives you the time of day.

Picture her f*cking other guys. She's moaning and screaming and the walls are shaking and you're in the other room. In all likelihood, this probably DID happen at some point when she wasn't reciprocating your affection. It's hard to imagine. You'll want to make believe that she could never do something like that. But the likelihood is that she did ride some other guy's dragon. Maybe when she "had to go" or she was "going to the mall with her friend", some guy was at her apartment f*cking her against every wall in there and on top the washing machine. Accept it. Picture it. Use the emotions you feel from picturing this as fuel to improve yourself and get hotter chicks and be your best self.

Realize that she just wasn't attracted to you and that attraction's not a choice. Don't be mad at her. Be mad at yourself for allowing yourself to be such a naiive pvssy. Figure out how to make yourself more attractive (by reading the DJ Bible and fastseduction.com) and do it.

And once you've improved yourself and made yourself more attractive, and if the urge so overcomes you, f*ck her friends. :yes:

 

[Tomatoes]

I still have a case of oneitis. The only girl i ever used the L word on.

Basically now I am just sleeping with asmany girls as it takes to find another right one....hard life

Loads of pu$$y and time is a good healer for oneitis. The only CURE is another case of oneitis from a girl who does want to be with you.

 

[S1NN3R]

well, regret's always a good thing in life...

unless, of course... i dunno... you might be stupid and GET BACK IN TOUCH WITH HER... but that'd be impossible of couse, what with the internet and professional people finders and all those resources, I don't know if that'd ever happen... :wave:

I am one of those professional people finders. I'm an intelligence consultant. I have her number, I have her address. Knowing how to get a hold of her is not the problem. Convincing myself that actually doing so would be a good idea is the problem.