Post college it’s about social circles, travelling and meeting people abroad, coed sports leagues.
The biggest issue is that people plays too safe and are adverse to changing or doing something that is completely foreign.
Go on the Holy Ship, go to Burning Man, go to Coachella, go to Amalfi Coast, go to Paris.
Or you can sit at home or hang about with your guys and get nowhere.
This mindset isn’t just about dating it applies to all areas of your life.
Just talk to people to learn about their experiences and views on life.
Break your mundane patterns.
Playing it safe hasn’t worked thus far so be daring outrageous.
I used to wear a polyester powder blue suit with a dark blue rayon shirt with powder blue streaks. It was ridiculous how many people and women would open me.
My buddy and I wore dresses to a Red Hot Chili Peppers concert. Same thing happened.
I ate mushrooms before a college final and talked to the professor while tripping balls.
The point is that you get one life so enjoy it to the fullest.
Sure, some guys were both looking like model or have infinite charisma but you cannot control that.
You can only control how much you are willing embrace life and truly live.
You don’t need to be extreme but be interesting.
