the_stig
Senior Don Juan
Girlfriend of five months goes to a club tonight with some friends to watch a ufc fight, gets drunk, etc. I'm working late but she's adamant she wants to see me after I'm done. I agree since it's on my way home. I beat her there, and as she's greeting me in the Kitchen, her one and only AFC orbiter walks in and says "oh hey I need my sweater back quick". She peels it off, along with a pair of beads, gives it back to him, and he leaves. To top it off, she then says "bye babe! I mean, umm, (stumbles for his name), Jon!" She was tipsy, but you can imagine the shock I'm in as this suddenly happens.
Turns out, she invited him to join her and her friends. He met everyone there and conveniently gave her a ride home. I've met him once before; he's a co-worker she shot down but they "remained friends" and hung out pretty often. When we became exclusive, I set the "no hanging out one on one with the opposite sex" boundary, but apparently she thought this didn't apply.
My gut says this was a "make him jealous to see how much he cares" test. I kept my mouth shut and after a few minutes, she opens up with "oh you're jealous because I invited John, I can tell!". In the past she has swore up and down she has no attraction for him, which I believe, but I felt disrespected as that took place. This is the first time she's pulled any BS.
What are your thoughts??
Turns out, she invited him to join her and her friends. He met everyone there and conveniently gave her a ride home. I've met him once before; he's a co-worker she shot down but they "remained friends" and hung out pretty often. When we became exclusive, I set the "no hanging out one on one with the opposite sex" boundary, but apparently she thought this didn't apply.
My gut says this was a "make him jealous to see how much he cares" test. I kept my mouth shut and after a few minutes, she opens up with "oh you're jealous because I invited John, I can tell!". In the past she has swore up and down she has no attraction for him, which I believe, but I felt disrespected as that took place. This is the first time she's pulled any BS.
What are your thoughts??