How did You rediscover what you truly wanted from life (after you fell)

jhonny9546

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It's incredibly difficult for some young men, for some men in general, who have fallen, to later rediscover, or even discover for the first time, what they truly wanted from life.


There are many people out there wounded by breakups, divorces, betrayals, and countless other hardships, and yet, somehow, they’ve managed to put their lives back together.


So… how did you do it?


This isn’t about hitting the gym, building a solid career, keeping busy with healthy routines, or maintaining a socially active lifestyle.
Instead, think aboout the perspective of a man, or a woman, looking at you as a person:
How did you figure out what you truly wanted in life, and showed that energy to others?
What were your long-term goals? What was that inner vision you chose to walk toward?


They say you have to fall many times, really fall, before you can rise properly, before you can walk again, and then, eventually… run.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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