How did you discover SoSuave?

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I learned this site and its forums from Tomassi. How about you?

And as an additional question, how do you suppose new guys find their way into this forum?
 

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Liberal --> Oneitis --> --> Tradcon --> Oneitis --> --> Tomassi --> SoSuave
 

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A couple of years ago, after a vicious divorce.

(on the internet trying to understand what had happened to me and why)
 

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I research the Manosphere and toxic masculinity and this forum popped up.
 

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After wanting to read up on what happened to Roosh V, I discovered from the search results that his old forum had been revived by a fan, and then while lurking, I came across a post where other forums including SoSuave was mentioned. I then checked it out and decided it was probably the best and most active manosphere forum out there now, so I signed up and here we are.
 

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Got turned down by a girl I was interested in, like with many girls before her, but that time I finally thought differently.

Instead of continuing to just be lost I finally started wondering why the hell I couldn't get what all my friends seemed to get. I set out searching for answers on Google, but it would take a couple of months until I found something that actually seemed to address the problem.

The first things I found for a long time was just cheesy pickup lines, I immediately knew that wasn't it. I then came across a Norwegian blog talking about pickup, but from the perspective of starting out at my level, full of social anxiety and then figuring out how to succeed. I immediately knew this was the sort of thing I was looking for, how to go from a fvcking loser to someone who succeeds with women.

They had a forum and someone there posted a link to the Book of Pook. I read the entire thing and had realization upon realization throughout it. It wasn't until I was done reading it that I realized that this "book" is really just a compilation of forum posts made by someone calling himself Pook, and this was the forum it was posted on.

That's how I ended up here back in 2013.
 

Hamurabimbi

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After more than a decade of marriage. Which ended in late 2018, I had no clue as to what dating was like in the ‘modern world’. SS along with Rollo, Roosh & others clued me in.
Ultimately, it wasn’t all that different. Except for Tinder.
 

BeExcellent

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The old lady stumbled onto SS in the summer of 2015. I was in my first relationship and LTR post divorce and my man had an ex-wife who was diagnosed BPD (and she was utterly diabolical). I was researching BPD and an old thread here surfaced in my search. I started reading and realized my bf was not alone in dealing with serious crazy.

I lurked for months until in December of 2015 when I felt compelled to contribute my thoughts on a thread made by an arrogant young man.

Been here ever since. I totally embrace this place as a male space, so I try to conduct myself with grace, and appreciate the very real need to help men figure out relationship stuff and life stuff.
 

SW15

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I learned this site and its forums from Tomassi.
I think Tomassi has helped many discover this site and its forum.

I found this site back in high school and I can't remember how...probably just searching "how to get good with girls" or something and found a page what wasn't tied to some PUA trying to sell me something.
You really achieved that. Going from a limited experience high school to a 30 year old man with a 90+ notch count is a success story.
 
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