Went on a date with one of my plates tonight,
It started off pretty chill, I got her to ask me questions about myself, but she wasn't asking that many, so I asked about an equal amount to her. I told her that only 50% of me is music, i'm a musician and she was like whats the other 50%, I was telling her that I couldn't possibly explain it in one sitting, etc.
Then it just got deep, mind you this was a first date. I'm thinking this is where it went a little wrong, I want to figure out what went wrong, if anything, so I can learn from my mistakes.
But in my attempt to cold read her, I said she was misunderstood, and that was what brought her here, to this music school we are both at.
Now this is totally true about this girl, she is misunderstood.
We got in this little discussion about it, I know she is misunderstood but she took it in a negative way, I intended it to be more of a way for her to open up to me and talk about something personal, intimate and unique but she didn't understand me and got kind of upset.
So I went for a kiss at the end before I left and to no avail. She said no kiss and that was it, I told her she didn't know what she was missing and then walked away with a smile on my face.
It was rough basically, but you can't fail if you don't try haha.
I got other girls on the side
but I want to go that deep, because i'm a deep guy and it sets me apart from others, but i'm not sure if its smart in a first date, or at all really
I didnt intend for it to be negative, but I said you are a misunderstood girl and then she was like trying to understand so I was telling her what I meant. She got more and more confused, and basically it ended in her saying that it was too deep for her.
I want to improve my game, nonetheless, even if this girl and I don't work out I really could care less
Basically I still want to keep this girl around, and in like 2 weeks or what not i'll ask her out again, when I have some free time.
This is more about improving my game because is going deep a way to raise attraction and intimacy?
How deep is too deep?
I know I read that girls don't respond to anything unless its sexual
but like what about being deep? So deep that you can ultimately make a girl feel total trust and intimacy with you, by what she can talk about with you. Like personal, between me and her, she is misunderstood, I wanted her to be like, hmm he's right , I am, and this is why blah blah blah but I am genuinely interested in being that close with her.
That's kind of the game I invision myself having. I'll game party girls, but with like nice girls who have more interesting lives, I use being so deep to my advantage. It seemed to not work, cause I got rejected when I went to kiss her.
Obviously no one will know the answer to this specfic situation, but it's more the concept of how deep do you go with a chick?
It started off pretty chill, I got her to ask me questions about myself, but she wasn't asking that many, so I asked about an equal amount to her. I told her that only 50% of me is music, i'm a musician and she was like whats the other 50%, I was telling her that I couldn't possibly explain it in one sitting, etc.
Then it just got deep, mind you this was a first date. I'm thinking this is where it went a little wrong, I want to figure out what went wrong, if anything, so I can learn from my mistakes.
But in my attempt to cold read her, I said she was misunderstood, and that was what brought her here, to this music school we are both at.
Now this is totally true about this girl, she is misunderstood.
We got in this little discussion about it, I know she is misunderstood but she took it in a negative way, I intended it to be more of a way for her to open up to me and talk about something personal, intimate and unique but she didn't understand me and got kind of upset.
So I went for a kiss at the end before I left and to no avail. She said no kiss and that was it, I told her she didn't know what she was missing and then walked away with a smile on my face.
It was rough basically, but you can't fail if you don't try haha.
I got other girls on the side
but I want to go that deep, because i'm a deep guy and it sets me apart from others, but i'm not sure if its smart in a first date, or at all really
I didnt intend for it to be negative, but I said you are a misunderstood girl and then she was like trying to understand so I was telling her what I meant. She got more and more confused, and basically it ended in her saying that it was too deep for her.
I want to improve my game, nonetheless, even if this girl and I don't work out I really could care less
Basically I still want to keep this girl around, and in like 2 weeks or what not i'll ask her out again, when I have some free time.
This is more about improving my game because is going deep a way to raise attraction and intimacy?
How deep is too deep?
I know I read that girls don't respond to anything unless its sexual
but like what about being deep? So deep that you can ultimately make a girl feel total trust and intimacy with you, by what she can talk about with you. Like personal, between me and her, she is misunderstood, I wanted her to be like, hmm he's right , I am, and this is why blah blah blah but I am genuinely interested in being that close with her.
That's kind of the game I invision myself having. I'll game party girls, but with like nice girls who have more interesting lives, I use being so deep to my advantage. It seemed to not work, cause I got rejected when I went to kiss her.
Obviously no one will know the answer to this specfic situation, but it's more the concept of how deep do you go with a chick?
