How could I have done better here?

Locogooner

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I was dancing with these two chicks for like 5 minutes and never made a move on both.

They told me that I was the only boy that could dance at the party.

Should I have isolated one that was more interested?
 

Mike32ct

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While it's great to give attention to both girls, such as dancing with both, you must chose a target. Otherwise, you can end up in friendzone with both of them. You become their gay buddy.

Take them off the dance floor to get a drink. Keep your arm around your target. You still need to talk to the other girl so she doesn't feel left out, but you MUST make it clear (non-verbally) which one you like. Having your arm around her is one way.

Then when the other girl goes to the bathroom/toilet, you can go for a quick makeout with your target. Then she knows you want her, but you are showing some discretion because her friend is there. She'll appreciate that.
 

bigneil

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Honestly, the cheek kiss is so nonchalant you should try it with every girl. That let's you know how they feel in a hurry. Often they turn their head so you kiss their lips "by mistake". It should only take 5 minutes of conversation to feel comfortable kissing them.
 
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