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How come so many guys on here hate the idea of messing with a girl that's "taken"? Morals? There's a morality forum I can direct you to. If she's throwing it out there its because she wants to. If some crazy guy is throwing out money on the streets, will you not grab it? We never know what these girls think in their heads. But always wear a rain coat
 

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You are doing the other man a favor by f*cking his girlfriend or wife. YES I said it.

You are showing him the type of woman he has committed to while also showing him he is a faggot for committing to such a woman. :yes:

Never avoid "taken" women. If she doesn't respect her relationship it should be KNOWN. Men who get mad at other men for this don't see the big picture. If your woman is truely committed she won't cheat dumbass :crackup:
 

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Because while we're all out to get the p*ssy while progressing as men in the process it doesn't mean we have to **** one another over in the process. The whole nature of this site and this community is to help a brother out, how would we be doing that if we advocate to steal some guy's girl?

The guy could be beta as **** for all we care, who are we to judge? We've all been there but the guy has a girl on his arm so props to him for getting that far.

My dad always said to me as a kid, treat others as you'd like to be treated yourself and I live by it. Some guy might be a **** to me but I might give him the second chance on the idea that if placed in the situation again he'd remember my actions and have second thoughts come the next time.

Same principle applies to get some other guy's girl. When I have a girl on my arm do I want some **** to come steal her from me? **** no. I worked hard on getting this particular girl, my game was solid so to then lose her to some other faggot is a no thanks mate.

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Thank you. If ur little brothers girl cheated on him and you knew it, would you tell him? Yes. So do ur fellow DJ bros a favor.
 

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this is the way i see it. if you are initiating everything and TRYING to take her away from her BF then that is messed up.

However, if she was throwing herself at you and was going to cheat anyway, might as well be with you.

Some guys here have a bad obbsession with stealing away girls that are taken because they think they are the "hardest" to get and they want to test their new found "alpha game" that they read on the back of a cereal box. Truth is, those girls are easy, especially if the relationship is bad because she already has cheating on her mind anyway.

That is the way I see it.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's not stealing if she's offering it to anybody else. You can't steal a girl....she was on her way out. Like looking for a better paying job. U must find it first before u quit ur old job. Treat others as you would like to be treated yes. But for every actionthere is an opposite reaction. So would you like to be the one cheated on, or cheated with. The world is a tough place. Just think about it. But my originalidea was that all men in ur area should know who the cheating skank is, but that wouldn't happen if u hadn't bed her. So her lies continue
 

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_sideways_ said:
It's not stealing if she's offering it to anybody else. You can't steal a girl....she was on her way out. Like looking for a better paying job. U must find it first before u quit ur old job. Treat others as you would like to be treated yes. But for every actionthere is an opposite reaction. So would you like to be the one cheated on, or cheated with. The world is a tough place. Just think about it. But my originalidea was that all men in ur area should know who the cheating skank is, but that wouldn't happen if u hadn't bed her. So her lies continue
I wouldn't take the girl even if she threw herself at me mate, the whole idea behind treat others as you want to be treated is that I wouldn't want to be cheated on, I wouldn't like to cause a girl to cheat on her guy and I wouldn't want to have to see that guy go through a messy breakup because his gf cheated on him.

These are all things I wouldn't want to happen to me personally so why would I possibly wish them on someone else or give cause for them to happen to someone else?

I'm sorry but it's kept me straight and I'm not going to change it for just some girl.
 

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Dan08 said:
I wouldn't take the girl even if she threw herself at me mate, the whole idea behind treat others as you want to be treated is that I wouldn't want to be cheated on, I wouldn't like to cause a girl to cheat on her guy and I wouldn't want to have to see that guy go through a messy breakup because his gf cheated on him.

These are all things I wouldn't want to happen to me personally so why would I possibly wish them on someone else or give cause for them to happen to someone else?

I'm sorry but it's kept me straight and I'm not going to change it for just some girl.

Unfortunately some of the "real men" on this site are so desperate for a piece they'll take it anyway they can get it then blame it on the chick LIKE a chick would do.

These types options are slim to none, pvssy controls their every thought and move as if they aren't a whole complete person without getting some any way they can. It's laughable.

sht if it truly is always the chicks fault with these dudes it's pretty telling women control these types of "real men" like the real life b1tches they really are.

These "real men" aren't real men at all but desperate keyboard cowboys typing out "alpha" revenge fantasies and "advice" to each other in obvious frustration, loss, and hissy fits over the "meany" chicks who they as "real men" always seem to have issues with.

It's embarrassing.
 

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I'm sorry....if my brothers wife was cheating on him....or trying to. I would act. Not acting would only hurt him.
 

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I must admit that after reading this thread it reminded me when I went through my divorce. It really did not bother me that much that another man was living in my house f-cking my wife......BUT no man should ever drive another man's sports car nor take his dog away. That was completely OUT OF LINE!!!! That should be in the BRO'S RULE BOOK!!! Abe
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Personally, I just don't like contributing to someone else's problem. I sleep better and it's not like there aren't enough women on the planet. Like I really need to deal with some skank who would cheat in the first place.

Standards start with yourself. For me, that's no married women and no girls with boyfriends if i know the boyfriend. If I dont it goes on a case by case basis. I will entertain engaging in a particular kink I'm into with married and attached women so long as there is no sex involved, but that's only happened once with a married one and I doubt I will again. The sneaking around is a royal pain and the one I met tried to **** me anyway. Really don't need to deal with it. Come to think of it, there was a seprated one, also, that I didn't know was still married until we met...tried to **** me also. Just really dont need to deal with it. There are enough divorced women who act like they got out of cages if you need that level of desperation.

I have friends who stray in relationships and who mess around with women who are taken. I don't judge. But I'm not taking a bullet for them if it ever comes down to that.

Do your thing. If you think what you are doing is fine, have at it. You don't need those of us who don't to make you feel better about it, do you?

Although I would submit that the "doing the guy a favor" thing is just a wee bit of a rationalization. Right up there with "if it was working I wouldn't have cheated" or "it just happpened" or all manner of chick logic designed to absolve oneself of guilt for ones own behavior. If you sleep okay as a cheater, just own it imo.
 
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