How come once you fvck a girl they suddenly chase hard?

[teacha]

How do you get her to invest / put effort in you before you fvck?

Be a challenge.

 

[dude99]

Inb4 sex was great. Ive noticed that whether the sex was bad, mediocre or good the girl will suddenly reach out more. On one hard I figured its because she might want a relationship because deep down she knows the higher her count the lower her value.

Other opinions?

It releases Oxytocin in the brain. The chemical that triggers love. The chemical that triggers addiction. Fack them good and it releases the oxytocin and you are in fact getting her addicted to the idea of you.

 

[oc16]

Inb4 sex was great. Ive noticed that whether the sex was bad, mediocre or good the girl will suddenly reach out more. On one hard I figured its because she might want a relationship because deep down she knows the higher her count the lower her value.

Other opinions?

I don't know, quite the opposite happenned to me after

Inb4 sex was great. Ive noticed that whether the sex was bad, mediocre or good the girl will suddenly reach out more. On one hard I figured its because she might want a relationship because deep down she knows the higher her count the lower her value.

Other opinions?

Not sure, as this is not always the case. Three years ago I banged a chick on our third hang out. This girl was girlfriend material and she was chasing me hard BEFORE we had sex. After our romp, the chasing lessened and after our 4th hang out there was no sex and she dissapeared.

I concluded I was used as a rebound.

 

[malz1]

Only someone inexperienced could think this. These females are smashing homie through homie not catching feelings. Fewer women are catching (temporary) feelings and just until the next guy comes around.

 

[Seductions_Mad_Scientist]

Inb4 sex was great. Ive noticed that whether the sex was bad, mediocre or good the girl will suddenly reach out more. On one hard I figured its because she might want a relationship because deep down she knows the higher her count the lower her value.

Other opinions?

Generally but not always, women wont **** a guy unless they like him a certain amount or more. Although "liking" can change in both directions for a woman.

In a sense, if she let you inside her she must think your worth it even if you're a total **** heel. It's about her perception of her value relative to yours rather than any sort of objective value . If you're interested spend some time googling some dudes that women find attractive that you think are losers. you'll soon realize female attractiveness is about as based on reality as affirmative action is about hiring the best candidate.

One of my buddies who is a bartender seems like a takes a new girl home almost every night lol. Dude has nothing going on for him in terms of long term life goals but doesnt seem to stop him from cleaning up.

 

[NSX-R]

Only someone inexperienced could think this. These females are smashing homie through homie not catching feelings. Fewer women are catching (temporary) feelings and just until the next guy comes around.

I have to agree . Many women usually when they break up from someone jump from D to D almost every day and got no feelings involved. Meanwhile my personal experience has show something different (maybe cause I’m good looking or i know how tk fck or that i got money , i think the 3rd lol) that when i fck them they start chasing me all the time .

That’s what also maybe differentiate a slut from a normal woman . A slut would do it without feelings and a normal woman would do it with feelings involved . Still that’s not absolute cause a slut can be banged by you and get feelings involved so it doesn’t mean there are no combinations . It’s a complicated world.

 

[Dash Riprock]

It releases Oxytocin in the brain. The chemical that triggers love. The chemical that triggers addiction. Fack them good and it releases the oxytocin and you are in fact getting her addicted to the idea of you.

This. I was going to post this until @dude99 did.

Oxytocin is a powerful bonding chemical/hormone more pronounced in women than men. It's released for them during sex, a huge gush during her orgasm, moderate amounts during kissing, and small amounts even in hugging.

Women are also perpetually influenced by oxytocin when they have a young child. This is why suddently the man/husband is practically banished emotionally after childbirth. All the oxytocin goes to the kid and the man is largely seen as "in the way." One reason for a big spike in divorce, sadly, after couples have a kid.

 

[sosousage]

Inb4 sex was great. Ive noticed that whether the sex was bad, mediocre or good the girl will suddenly reach out more. On one hard I figured its because she might want a relationship because deep down she knows the higher her count the lower her value.

Other opinions?

that happens mainly only after first fugg
and means
shes scared of being used and dumped cus that would mean shes one-night-*****

 

[sangheilios]

This really shouldn't be all that complicated nor take 2 pages to explain.

Before the advent of the pill and other contraceptives, when a woman has sex with a man it is very probable for her to end up getting pregnant. Subconsciously she will want to cling to the man she spread her legs for and pursue him, as this is her biological programming ensuring that she keeps the child's father around, which increases chances of survival.

Now, obviously we have birth control and the child most likely will be able to survive into adulthood without a father but all of this is just something that is ingrained on an instinctual level.

As others have mentioned, sex is a far more emotional investment for women compared to men, where as for us it is mostly physical and nothing more. I would argue that if a woman has a very detached attitude towards sex and is extremely casual about it I would say that is a huge red flag in regards to her character. I've know of a few women who were like this and the one trend I recall was that they came from broken families and had very dysfunctional childhoods. More extreme cases of this would be women who are strippers, pornstars, prostitutes, etc.....it's simply not natural for women to put themselves into roles like this, thus the extremely high rates of substance abuse, suicide, etc.

 

[Visionist]

I was a rebound for the first girl I sexed, pretty sure. She was gone to another guy without telling me in a couple days, in the meantime I was inexperienced and pestered her for more sex after the first time. If I hadn't, I probably wouldn't have romped a second afternoon with her.

She spoke fondly of her parents, who were still together.